Search results

Bump for all the newbies. hahaha.

I'm glad to see you guys agree on the sexual escalation. I have to admit, if I meet a girl who is sexually forward and puts out easily, I will often disqualify her as girlfriend material. I respect girls who don't put out easily and I see them as having more value. I've not seen Vanilla Sky...

Hey guys, long story short, I found myself single again 8 months ago and slowly got myself back into the dating game. It's been a rough time to be honest and I started to become a bit of a serial dater and was getting rejected over and over. It was causing me a lot of confusion. I'm a good...

This is great advice that you should follow! Here's what I've learned about relationships. When things start getting tough and she starts losing interest, the only way to turn this around is to take a leap of faith and act counter to everything you're tempted to do. Instinctively, you will...

Try reading the book "The Easy Way to Stop Smoking" by Allen Carr. It won't do the work for you, but it will help you understand your addiction and help recondition your mind so you're prepared to give up. I quit twice. Once for 6 months, before making the foolish decision to have a couple on...

From past experiences, you know as well as I do that you should never ignore red flags as they will come back to bite you at some point down the road. This woman is bad news and you know it. As others have said, she'd be fine as a fvck buddy, but personally I'd treat her more as a one off and...

This is just the confusing nature of women. I've had this happen so many times...these girls just melt when they're with me, talk about our deep connection, throw compliments at me and I've heard them say about feeling like a giddy schoolgirl with a crush too. Then without any explanation or...

Very good post and I agree completely. I've had experience of this myself and you need to keep a woman on her toes, keep her feeling like she has to work for you to some degree...and that goes for early stages and in the midst of a relationship. When a woman feels totally secure, unafraid to...

What I'm reading from this thread... You got hurt, you're still bitter, you want revenge and you can't move on with your life. Deny it as much as you will, if you were truly happy and confident with yourself, you would be focused on living your own life and seeking out new and exciting...

Well guys, I've done a lot of experimenting lately with different behaviours after my dates and the point is, none of it has made any difference. I would say most of the women I dated showed high interest during the date, from their body language to hints about seeing me again, direct...

Yes, it does take some description...just telling her what you plan to do to her. Avoid being too explicit, but I've had women playing with themselves, calling me up as they're getting off or sending me photos/videos of them getting off, and often enough when we meet in person they're instantly...

I've always had success from texting and I'd estimate that 95% of the girls I ask out via text will accept very keenly. But I don't believe it's as black and white as to text or not to text. You have to be able to engage her interest with your texts and show some of your personality. My ex and...

I SAW MY EX! Hey guys, I hope you're all coping ok. I just thought I'd drop in to share what happened yesterday. I was walking through the city and I heard someone call my name as I passed. I turned and saw that it was my ex. It was a situation I had dreaded and I felt my heart start pounding...

I may have exaggerated a bit as I was in an 18month relationship between then. So more like 300 dates the past 5 years. I've had some weeks where I've had 3-5 dates though. I still get plenty of time for hobbies, I've set up my own business and use the gym regularly, but have treated a lot of...

Thanks mate, I'll take on board everything you said here and I'm writing a list of small tasks I'm going to do today. A lot of the time I know what I need to do, but it feels like my body and mind just aren't upto the task. You're absolutely right about pursuing goals for myself and not women...

Last year I had a major kick up the a$s. I realised that I had so little to offer my girlfriend and that I needed to take control of my life. With the help of The Law of Attraction, Napoleon Hill and other motivational speakers, I got fired up for life and found a drive I've never known before...

Well, some interesting feedback lately. I had a second date with a girl who seemed to reject me at first and one of the things she told me was that after our first date, I seemed cold with her. I took 2 days to text her and when I did it was really blunt. I basically took the advice of a lot of...

Thanks again for the feedback. The confusing situation for me is that I've had over 300 dates (I've lost count) in the past 4 years, which is more than most guys get in a lifetime, but only 1 of them ended up as a girlfriend and another I was seeing for 3 months. Yet I see average guys go on 1...

I've just had some interesting feedback from a few of the girls I dated. I decided to contact one of the aforementioned girls with initial high IL just to wish her well. She got back to me saying it was nice to meet me but no indication of wanting to meet again. So I asked her directly why she...

This has been my experience too. Just because you feel you're confident and secure enough to take a chance and hope she turns up, doesn't mean she's going to do the same. I can't imagine any woman taking such a big risk, getting herself dolled up, spending ages deciding what to wear, then...