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This is a tough one. You would think if she objected she would say no or push you off, though I've spoken to women who were in this exact situation and years later have convinced themselves they were raped. In all likelihood, they are bitter at the ex for other reasons and are using this as a...

I agree. Many women will forgive abuse, cheating and neglect, but if she loses respect for you it's near impossible to recover from that. That said, the only way she will regain that respect is if you respect yourself, walk away with dignity and stop contacting her. I know most guys can only...

Not everybody is Victor Frankl. Not everybody has that will to survive when everything they cared about is taken away and all that is left is suffering. People who commit suicide see no light at the end of the tunnel. They see nothing worth living for. To assume we can all transcend pain is...

Whether trying to get your ex back or move on, there’s are good reasons why no contact is such a highly recommended strategy. Because it works! First of all, it removes you from the source of the pain (her) and will spare you multiple rejections every time you reach out. Secondly, it gives...

Women don’t want to play mother to a weak and over-sensitive boyfriend. Their maternal nature is reserved for their babies. It’s our role, as men, to offer protection and emotional stability. Strength, dignity and confidence are qualities epitomised by the alpha male. They act as a primal lure...

Sorry to hear this mate. An old school friend and my tattoo artist took their own lives. Like your friend, both appeared to have so much going for them - good looking, charismatic, popular, with family and friends. In both cases nobody saw it coming. But one was going through a divorce and the...

Imagine yourself doused in gasoline and set on fire. Your skin is melting, you're in unspeakable agony and even if you survive, you'll be permanently disfigured and disabled, in excruciating pain and a burden to your family and friends. Are you telling me you'd tune into your "inner game" and...

Give hair thickening/keratin fibres a go. It's an instant solution that works miracles. It can't restore a hairline or cover baldness, but if you're thinning it will thicken up your hair and cover scalp exposure. Just make sure to wipe the fibres off your forehead after you apply them. I also...

Hi guys, I doubt many users here today will remember me. I was a regular member here around 10 years ago and around 2 years ago I began writing in this No Contact thread after my break up. I have never felt such despair in my life as I felt at that time. I saw no future and no point to my life...

Hi guys, I thought I'd drop in and pass on a bit of motivation for all you suffering from your break ups. I doubt many of you more recent posters have seen my posts in this thread, but my break up just over a year ago really f*cked me up bad!! I guess it was the first time I'd ever truly been in...

It's because they look masculine and as someone said before, they are traditionally associated with bad boys. This is why I hate women covered in tattoos. It's a massive turn off for me because it's so masculine. I've had tattoos for a long time and been working on a sleeve the past year...

This is a big misunderstanding. It won't directly neutralise stomach acid, but it puts the body into a more alkaline state, which in turn lowers stomach acid. There are a lot of studies on the whole PH balance of the body. I'm not sure I buy into all the claims, but it seems a lot of acidic...

Nooo! The acid will soften the enamel on your teeth, so if you brush straight after, you risk destroying the enamel. It's better to swill with water and chew some gum to neutralize the acid first. Then brush your teeth later. Another risk people need to be aware of is that ACV also...

Just a quick post from me. I guess most of you posting here today don't know me, but I was a regular poster in this thread from September last year when my ex and I broke up. It was one of the darkest times in my life and if it wasn't for the good people here, the support and the people who...

I just had to reply to this thread as it's one of my big pet hates right now. Like you say, it's all over dating sites and loads of women on Facebook are doing it too and it's fvcking horrible! We need to point this out to them. Not only is it unattractive, but it shows how impressionable they...

This will be your undoing unless you rule out this option now!! We guys fool ourselves into thinking of this as a casual option, which allows us to detach from the emotion and drama, but it always turns out to be that one last hook she has in you. She can use this temptation of sex to keep you...

To be fair, I did show understanding and I didn't refuse to see her or act cold. When she asked if I wanted to come over I told her I was with some mates so it was difficult that night. To be honest, I'm not really close enough with her to send her a card (we've had only 2 dates and hung out...

Thanks guys. It's natural for me to offer comfort and support to anyone when they're going through bereavement and to be fair I have been there if she's texted me and I did offer to go round since if she wanted company. However, today it looks like she's either deleted the messenger we use or...

It helps to get an objective perspective on this as I don't want to fall back to my white knight habits nor do I want to go to the other extreme and disappear until she's in a better mood. Thanks guys!

Just a quick question. I have to confess to having white knight tendencies in the past and they've always backfired and left me with regret. So I've started seeing a girl the past month. She's pretty awesome to be fair, we have such a laugh when we're together and things are very hot and...