What to do if plate constantly texts you?

[youngmack]

Texting is more like a hail Mary pass for me. I have to get lucky. When me and this girl started texting it was soo boring! She barely hit me up and she would stop answering mid convo. Then I just randomly asked her out one day and she agreed. I'm guess her was super bored and all her other options blew her off or something.

We went on a date and I have her a good time.... After that she'd text me until her thumbs fall off and actually make an effort to continue the convo and make it interesting. I guess it all depends on the girl

 

[Jariel]

We went on a date and I have her a good time.... After that she'd text me until her thumbs fall off and actually make an effort to continue the convo and make it interesting. I guess it all depends on the girl

It sounds to me like you spiked her interest on your date and now she just can't get enough of you. Good work!

It's at this point, I would recommend holding back on the texts. You don't need to escalate any more because her interest is already high and the more you text, the more you risk blowing it or appearing too available.

I'm not suggesting stopping texting altogether, but maybe wait a few hours before replying, then if she texts you late, wait until the next morning. This will get her wondering about you and going crazy.

 

[Partizan]

I think this sums up the key to keeping women interested. I've always had such good results from texing, emailing and even long calls in the initial stages, despite all the warnings not to do this. It allows me to build strong rapport, to the point where these girls have confessed feelings for me and that they think about me all day. They'll say that they feel a deep connection with me, how I'm not like other guys and so on.

I also find that texting is a great way to escalate sexually and build the tension and excitement, so that she's ready to pounce by the time you next get together. Because you've established the rapport first, she feels more comfortable (and less slvtty) for putting out.

But yes, where I have blown it in the past is by continuing to text for too long and trying to escalate when their interest is already at its peak. Yet, it's at this point that I should be backing off and letting them chase.

I think the reason this works so well is because you allow the woman to invest time, hope and emotion in you. So when you withdraw it, she sees you as worth chasing. Whereas she's not going to build any hopes about some guy she barely knows, so she'll just move on to the next.

Yeah, we've heard over and over here that texting should only be used for logistics to set up dates.

My experience has yielded different results. Women love to be texted randomly out of the blue to ask them about their day. The key is to always keep it light and funny and never overdo it. I'll randomly text my plates throughout the week between dates. I'll give her a short time period of consistent convo and then pull back for a day or two. Then repeat. Same thing if she initiates.

I'll always try to end a text conversation on a high note. Maybe after I've said something particularly witty and charming. Also, vary response times. 5 minutes here, 15 there. Leave them anticipating the next text.

 

[Jariel]

Yeah, we've heard over and over here that texting should only be used for logistics to set up dates.

My experience has yielded different results. Women love to be texted randomly out of the blue to ask them about their day. The key is to always keep it light and funny and never overdo it. I'll randomly text my plates throughout the week between dates. I'll give her a good 10 mins of consistent convo and then pull back for a day or two. Then repeat. Same thing if she initiates.

I'll always try to end a text conversation on a high note. Maybe after I've said something particularly witty and charming. Also, vary response times. 5 minutes here, 15 there. Leave them anticipating the next text.

I totally agree and I've had the best experiences doing the same thing. I even started this way with my ex girlfriends.

And I think that's a great move, ending on a high and being unpredictable how long you leave them waiting. Just enough to keep them chasing, not too much that it gets boring or strained.