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Damn, is this really true? If so, it makes a ton of sense...there was a girl who I was really into who I had a chance to have sex with, I had her on the bed and everything, but stopped after sucking on her tits and some petting because I was too much of a wuss to go for it, said "we don't have a...

Heh, I wish that were true man; everything I learned about women was through making mistakes and learning from them after the fact, not the most 'natural' game sense >_>. But as they say, experience can be the best teacher

Don't! DO. NOT. TELL. HER. Show her - demonstrate your interest through well-executed escalation. If you imagine a girl's attraction level as a dial from 1-10, I would almost equate uttering the words 'I like you' to manually dialing the attraction down a notch. Saying it sarcastically as...

Man, I need some inspiration...coming out of a breakup, and having read a ton of dating advice/redpill theory, I'm feeling kind of disillusioned...I can't think of women in the same way again. I still desire them, and want to find someone else, but the desire is not as strong or as pure as it...

I think this article by Shark kind of succinctly consolidates all of the ideas in this thread: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2010/12/a-paradox-that-explains-why-your-girlfriend-wants-you-to-be-insecure/ It really blew my mind how true his words rang with me...it's actually almost a little...

So, I just got back from watching Guardians of the Galaxy (great film by the way). The action was great, the comedy was gold, Groot was Groot. But, as an aspiring DJ, one of things that stuck out to me the most was Peter Quill/Starlord's (Chris Pratt) interaction with Gamora (Zoe Saldana). That...

This is absolutely the reason...I see pictures of her, or read about her, and I jump into a fantasy world in my head...I really needed to hear this...You're also absolutely right that it was habitual. I definitely viewed her profile online several times...not gonna do that anymore. Guys...

Almost six 6 weeks of NC...I may have done something pretty stupid, haha... A couple weeks ago, I gave into temptation and viewed her linkedin profile (I know, I know, pretty dumb...). I did this a few more times since then (terrible idea, all it did was bring back memories of old conversations...

RSD Tyler has a pretty nice video on validation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1LQs7NbTOs One quote from the video that really resonated deeply with me was this: "You know how you don't validate them [them being women]? Don't actually need them. Be happy. Then whatever you say, will be...

This is a great outline of the RP notion of women's 'rationalization hamster'. What gives some of these lies strength is the fact that, as others have said, women sometimes mentally change things (consciously or unconsciously, i dunno) to actually believe them to be true - basically by framing...

@Lotus - that's a great post man, thanks so much for that - makes a lot of sense to hold myself in high esteem and to not jump to take her back if she does get in contact. So I'm back home from uni for summer break, and am roaming around my hometown, checking out all my old hangout spots...

It's been around 5~ weeks. At this point in time, I'm no longer feeling an urge to try and talk to her - a massive improvement from the past few weeks, where I badly wanted to speak with her again. I suppose I'm passed the first stage, acceptance. Now I'm kind of struggling with coming to terms...

The magnets in their pockets are of opposite polarity to the magnets in yours, it's simple dood But seriously, you gotta give us more detail than that (if this isn't a joke post >_>). Are they physically repulsed? Then clean yourself up, look as fresh as you can. Do they run for the hills...

Lotus! I completely understand - and I'm on the road to accepting that she's moved on (you mentioned me being a hard learner; that's like, 200% true <_<). My goal in asking about that scenario was to analyze a hypothetical in which NC might backfire (a position that's definitely not popular...

Yo dood From the tone of your post, it does seem that you might be getting a bit desperate! And if women smell desperation on you, they'll run for the hills or worse, take advantage of you and your time. I know you want sex (everyone does, heh), but I think the key here is to enjoy every part...

Sorry, but I'm gonna play devil's advocate for a little longer >_>; I'm still wondering about the scenario when both people are following this line of logic: If she's thinking the same thing -e.g., "If he really cares, he would've tried harder to get me back" - then nobody contacts each other...

@pbsurf - best of luck man...peace out...for now! I'm a little over a month into NC...A couple days ago I went on a trip, took a 4 hr drive to visit a relative (8 hrs round trip). During the 4 hours there and back...I thought of her for probably all of it lol; on cruise control, with nothing...

Gotta agree with OP here - by removing the side outlet for sexual release, you just get more and more motivated to improve your own game and skill with women. I've gone without fapping for up to a month at one point, and there was a noticeable difference >_> Approach anxiety was a thing of the...

Sup y'all. About a month ago, I separated from a girl I was pretty damn close to; she told me she didn't want to talk to me, and to not write to her (I guess she initiated NC, heh). I've kept up NC thus far, but as many of you have probably experienced, it can be fking hard as nails. There...

There are different 'aspects' of dating. There's the initial meeting of a woman, getting to know her, holding conversation well, casually dating, LTR, marriage, etc., etc, and that's only the very surface level. There's so much more to each one of these facets of 'game'. What I'm trying to...