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@Cremasta, I dunno if it's a good idea to stop trying to figure out what women do completely. True, I definitely agree that thinking too much about it will bring us stress, overanalysis can be harmful (there must be a careful balance); but there's definitely value in seeking to understand the...

This yoda quote was more helpful than you know man, holy ****. Thank you so much for that..

You can go to the redpill subreddit to read some more (though sometimes the discussion can go off track, take things with a grain of salt haha): http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/ I would also reccomend reading Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male Blog, as well as Shark's Solve My Girl Problems...

From the game inFAMOUS...there's a type of enemy called 'Conduits'. Aaaand my first name starts with a 'K', so yeah.

Hey so, I've posted on this forum about a girl I broke up with, and thanks to y'alls help I've made a lot of progress in moving on. But I'm running into an issue - So, a girl i was dating separated from me a few weeks ago. I've accepted that she's gone and that I should move on, so I've...

On the topic of body language (more specifically on reading women's signals, not on the topic of improving your own), this is one of the best articles I've ever read: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2011/08/cold-reading/ Shark in general is just a badass mofo. The entire blog is gold.

Thanks a ton for the support guys...I'm feeling a bit better already, your words have helped me a ton in moving on...One reason I'm so hung up on this girl is that I feel that she might still care for me, and that mistakes in my own game messed things up; but it's undeniable that she explicitly...

It's been exactly 3 weeks now - 21 days since we've separated. She said she didn't want to talk to me anymore; at the time, I stayed non-reactive, so I guess that's good. But we've haven't contacted each other since... I think what's preventing me from moving on is that I still harbor some...

It's now been exactly 3 weeks (21 days)...neither of us have contacted each other. It's been tough, I've been at some points grinding my teeth to stop me from sending an email to her...but somehow I've managed to keep up NC. A problem I have though is that I'm constantly checking her social...

You're definitely right - starting from even our initial email conversations this summer, until now, I've just been hiding behind 'proper game'. A real alpha would go after what he wants and not be afraid to show his interest because he's outcome independent. That's something I'll carry with me...

I've been doing quite a bit of reading; I found two very interesting blogs, both of which have helped immensely in dealing with the separation. They both have articles on the types of breakups: 1. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/02/27/handling-the-two-types-of-breakups/ 2...

@Special EDy, the NVC approach seems like it could be pretty effective in person, but it just seems overly formal for e-communication...I fear it'll kill any attraction or respect she has for me if I lay my feelings and emotions out so plainly like that...I once read that you shouldn't use overt...

It's been a little over two weeks now since I've spoken to her. Yesterday, I was extremely tempted to contact her. When we separated 2 weeks ago, she deleted/unfollowed me off of twitter, and since her settings were on private, I couldn't see her profile. A day after that, she made her profile...

@Poop1337 - Ah, sorry man, I got caught up with my own rambling, I left out a reply to you (not helping my case here, am I? heh). Indeed you are correct - we didn't have sex, we got as far as petting. In hindsight, maybe if we did, she would been more invested in me, and an LDR would've been a...

As I've been thinking about this more and more, I've been analyzing all the things that I could've done that would've avoided her getting angry at me. One thing that I initially thought wasn't important, but that I am now feeling extremely responsible and guilty for, was that on that day she...

I think Midnight City's absolutely right. Women are different from men, I don't think anybody here is going to deny that. But instead of fighting the impulses and tendencies that have been ingrained into women's DNA, accept it as the way they have evolved to survive, and adapt yourself; change...

Thanks for the advice again mate. My last remaining issue that I'm dealing with, is whether I should contact her to try to clear things up. For me personally, I really dislike parting on bad terms with people, it's something that really sticks in my mind; and in this case, even more so, because...

I recently screwed things up with a girl because I didn't follow the good behavior = AA, bad behavior = lack of AA principle. She was showing interest in me, but I played it too cool and she lost interest and felt dejected. Don't make the same mistake I did! I'll be looking forward to reading...

I have resolved that I shouldn't contact her anymore, that much is certain... Your words have helped me on this one guys, I think I can keep up NC. @Sino Zane, What's confusing me is that she told me she was on campus (which seems like a huge indicator of interest), as previously she didn't...

Basic Context: I dated this girl (I'll call her K) back in May at university; before she graduated I asked for an LDR, and she said she didn't want to (she's an international student, going back to her country for a couple years), and we separated relatively amiably. We both still had attraction...