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Hey guys, sorry to pull this thread back from the dead; I've been feeling a lot better lately. I even went literally a whole day without thinking about her, which amazing (I was working all day at a campus event). @Amethyst, keeping busy has done wonders... However, one thing that's still on my...

One more thing y'all...if I happen to run into her again (unlikely, as she's out of the country for a while), what should I do? How should I react? Again, me worrying about it is probably indicative of not having moved on from this yet, but at least having an idea of how I should react to...

Y'all have helped immensely, thanks a ton...I'll focus on improving myself for a while; now that I know what I should try to aspire to, I can get better.. I appreciate the support and encouragement guys..

Damn, thanks a ton for the help guys...I'll take your advice to heart. I'm focusing more on self-improvement, work, and school. It's been taking my mind off things. My last question is, should I truly not have been looking at my ex's profile at all? I feel it wouldn't have been so bad, if I had...

Thanks for the help y'all, I appreciate the support. One thing I'm still struggling with though, is just that: how to stop worrying about what people think of me. More generally, in my journey to become better with women, approaching, chatting with girls, etc., sometimes I make mistakes or say...

I separated from my ex about 2 months back, but a couple weeks ago, I may have done something pretty stupid, haha...I posted about this in the NC thread, but I wanted to ask for some advice here as well, as I'm still struggling to get over it... So a while back (after the breakup), I gave...

Broke my streak at day 12 nooooooooooooooooooo My willpower is so weak...When the urges hit you, that's when the real test is upon you. Gonna go all the way to 90 this time, up and at 'em...

A lot of the time I spent with the girl that brought me here was very late at night; we'd often stay up pretty late in the dorm, almost 'till morning when the housekeepers would come in to clean. Naturally, a couple of the custodians got to know us personally after a while, and picked up on our...

So I was talking to this girl today, she was telling me about an internship she did over the summer. The entire time, I was consciously thinking to myself, "this conversation is boring, just a bunch of fluff - it's not increasing her attraction at all!" I did a bit of teasing and bantering...

So, I'm back at uni. Since I started learning game, my ability to remember people's names has dramatically improved - I often make a conscious effort within myself after an interaction to recall the names of whoever I met. Anyway, last semester, I met a girl, we introduced ourselves, had a...

^This right here's the problem. You need to build your internal state of happiness and contentment on a rock solid foundation within yourself. Your confidence, joy, and sense of fulfillment in the world should be anchored only to yourself and your accomplishments. No other material things, or...

I understand the point you guys are trying to get across, but at the same time I think it's important to remember the principle of "assume attraction". But as OP said, each girl you meet is a mutually exclusive instance of an interaction - your results with a prior girl (usually >_>) will have...

^ Even if you're joking, don't man. I really hope you're joking! It's not worth it dude. You gotta have sex with a girl you actually like. Don't have your first time with some woman you don't care about. Even if you only do it past 30, or 35, or 40 (and I'm sure this won't be the case), who the...

I've experienced some of what you're describing...in my hunt for knowledge, reading red pill theory, etc., it's been a little more difficult for me to get excited about women, knowing their true nature,tendencies and how they can act. I probably don't have anywhere near the level of experience...

The fact that you have to come to these forums and ask this (as you clearly are a respectable looking gentleman) is indicative of a couple things, either you 1. Have extremely low self-esteem (which could be working against you - you're not carrying yourself correctly, don't practice good eye...

I was thinking earlier, if men can develop an abundance mentality, can't women also do the same? In fact, especially for the hottest women, wouldn't it be extremely easy to develop? They have men hitting on them all the time, they'll probably get constant reminders that they have options XD...

It's been almost 7 weeks now since she broke things off...said she didn't want to talk to me. I'm about to head back to my college for the fall semester. The girl I separated from was an international student, and she's heading back to her country for a job. I haven't spoken to her in so long...

Thanks for the support so far guys. Perhaps I'm being a bit dramatic, but having stopped halfway, being in the grey area of my interaction with this girl is another thing that kind of weighs on my mind...all of the passion/excitement, the things you say to each other for your first night, etc...

So this past May, I was with a girl - we were pretty damn close; I had known her for 1.5 years, but we only started getting a little more intimate/physical for about a month or two. It's would probably be an understatement to say this girl was my oneitis, damn, I was obsessed with her. In fact...

Yeah, high school I think is when most people really start thinking about trying to get a girl/girlfriend XD. But I'd say most of my progress has been in the past 3 years of college, and even more specifically in the past couple months. I think it was Tyler from RSD who said "When you go...