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JaegerPilot217 said:
When did you start making these mistakes and going through trial and error? High school?
Yeah, high school I think is when most people really start thinking about trying to get a girl/girlfriend XD.

But I'd say most of my progress has been in the past 3 years of college, and even more specifically in the past couple months.

I think it was Tyler from RSD who said "When you go through a separation, afterwards your game just explodes." I couldn't agree more, I learned the most and developed inner game more than I ever have in the time during and after separating from this girl.

But back on topic...

I do think it's easy to get jaded and condemn all women after some bad experiences (and I'm a little guilty of this as well)...but a line that I read somewhere struck me: most women are mirrors of the self that you project. If you are indecisive, beta, wussy, have no balls, can't escalate, and don't take charge, they can be (and often will be) mean, cold, indifferent, and appear heartless, because that is the behavior which you bring out in them. If you are alpha, manly, sexual, dominant, confident, etc. etc., they will be girly, supportive, sweet, and caring. Of course there are exceptions, some women are straight up crazy, others are super awesome and treat everyone with respect no matter what; this is simply a generalization (you should also evaluate its truth yourself).

I'm by no means an expert with women, still have a helluva lot to learn <__<, but from my own experiences this seems to hold true.

Another quick tidbit I picked up from somewhere (yeah, I've been doing a lot of reading recently >___>), women are never going to do exactly what you want, you can't control them, you can't control any other person actually. Sometimes they'll do things that aren't to your liking. But on the other side of the coin, sometimes they will do things that will surprise you positively! And at times like those, you'll appreciate that they're autonomous XD, and their femininity shines.

Case in point, I told this girl I forgot to give her something before she was leaving, we met up, I gave her a small gift, an old trinket of mine from when I was younger. She gave me a gift as well! wtf, did not expect the reciprocation - it felt great.
 

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logicallefty said:
Sorry you are having such a bad day.

(M~i~d~o~l)

Does this help?
Heh something triggered her. It's her "hate ,fear and misogyny" + "you need a psychologist" + "you can't get the puzzy" speeches all roled into one. :cuss: Needs more "wow, just wow".

*facepalm*

You still haven't grasped how men actually talk have you zarky?
 

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Heh something triggered her. It's her "hate ,fear and misogyny" + "you need a psychologist" + "you can't get the puzzy" speeches all roled into one. :cuss: Needs more "wow, just wow".

*facepalm*

You still haven't grasped how men actually talk have you Snarky?
Fixed it for ya. :D
 

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Konduit said:
Yeah, high school I think is when most people really start thinking about trying to get a girl/girlfriend XD.

But I'd say most of my progress has been in the past 3 years of college, and even more specifically in the past couple months.

I think it was Tyler from RSD who said "When you go through a separation, afterwards your game just explodes." I couldn't agree more, I learned the most and developed inner game more than I ever have in the time during and after separating from this girl.

But back on topic...

I do think it's easy to get jaded and condemn all women after some bad experiences (and I'm a little guilty of this as well)...but a line that I read somewhere struck me: most women are mirrors of the self that you project. If you are indecisive, beta, wussy, have no balls, can't escalate, and don't take charge, they can be (and often will be) mean, cold, indifferent, and appear heartless, because that is the behavior which you bring out in them. If you are alpha, manly, sexual, dominant, confident, etc. etc., they will be girly, supportive, sweet, and caring. Of course there are exceptions, some women are straight up crazy, others are super awesome and treat everyone with respect no matter what; this is simply a generalization (you should also evaluate its truth yourself).

I'm by no means an expert with women, still have a helluva lot to learn <__<, but from my own experiences this seems to hold true.

Another quick tidbit I picked up from somewhere (yeah, I've been doing a lot of reading recently >___>), women are never going to do exactly what you want, you can't control them, you can't control any other person actually. Sometimes they'll do things that aren't to your liking. But on the other side of the coin, sometimes they will do things that will surprise you positively! And at times like those, you'll appreciate that they're autonomous XD, and their femininity shines.

Case in point, I told this girl I forgot to give her something before she was leaving, we met up, I gave her a small gift, an old trinket of mine from when I was younger. She gave me a gift as well! wtf, did not expect the reciprocation - it felt great.
Words of wisdom
 

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Zarky said:
I'm a never-married, straight, white, non-religious, upper-middle class man in my late-30s living in Southern California, where I was born and raised. I'm a white-collar professional with an above-average IQ but a below-average income who dates several women at once and has since late 2002.
:crackup:riiiiight


Zarky said:
Pretty funny and bizarre thread, actually. Only on the internet. :rolleyes:

All the sosuave incel misogynists pop up to let us read between the lines that they haven't tapped actual human p*ssy in at least a decade. We know, guys, we know. You don't have to shout it quite that loudly.

I already wrote about this years ago:

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/10/26/dont-take-advice-from-bitter-men/

However, I'll inject some logic into this emotional circle-jerk of a thread:

I will say that it never fails to amuse me that there are a ton of absolutely bonkers incels here who spend untold hundreds of hours typing up stuff about a gender they hate and fear. It's like going to a Corvette forum and half the posters hate Corvettes and rage against them in every post. To spend that much time discussing a topic you hate is a sign of major mental disorder.
why do you even post here when you hate this place so much? i skimmed a couple of your links, you insult a mod calling him a wimp, insult the forum, other men as well with your anti male attitude. what gives? not getting laid?

you have a very hostile tone with anger towards men, you're really giving yourself away.

want to know what's funny? you say you don't take advice from "bitter angry men".

well my dear, this post as well as your links are as bitter and angry as they come.



logicallefty said:
Sorry you are having such a bad day.

(M~i~d~o~l)

Does this help?

:crackup: hilarious lefty, brilliant!


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Heh something triggered her. It's her "hate ,fear and misogyny" + "you need a psychologist" + "you can't get the puzzy" speeches all roled into one. :cuss: Needs more "wow, just wow".

*facepalm*

You still haven't grasped how men actually talk have you zarky?
:crackup: t!ts, you are one funny mofo.
 

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Well this escalated quickly....
 
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