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I'm not sure I follow your logic ucde...it seems too hands-off and unrealistic to expect great women to simply fall into my lap without any action or self-improvement on my part. I have met women with whom I had fantastic chemistry with - but I was a bit too AFC back then to act on whatever we...

I've lately started to make approaches, aiming for 2-3 women a day leading into a least a 10 min conversation has been my goal. I've done this for the past 3 days, and talked to 10~ girls. From my results so far, none of the interactions were 'bad' so to say...but they weren't great either. I...

To be honest (as an Indian), I haven't felt I was particularly disadvantaged when talking to white women, or women of any race in particular. I haven't had great success with white women, but I haven't felt like they're just totally ignoring me either. What's funny is that as an Indian, foreign...

I have had the EXACT same experiences man. Women showing interest, but for some reason even though I recognize it I still don't make a move. And the women are hurt because I don't respond to their advances. The advice in this thread is good, I can't offer much more than what the others have...

Lately, I've made a great deal of improvements with regards to my career prospects, physique, developed my knowledge through reading, etc. - in general have done a great deal of self-development. My social skills are the best they've ever been as well - I'm comfortable with approaches and...

Just saw this quote today, damn it really blew my mind. This brings me back to an old post I read from SenorFingers, he talked about feeling the Fire of Time, and man it is burning - it never stops. On this short span of time we have on Earth, why would you want to hold yourself back, really...

My go-to response - all credit to Vulpine - is simply "That's a shame", and then you can just peace out. If she's saying she's taken, she's not interested (and the girls who do it to "test" you and see if you'll keep going are probably the game-y attention ***** type, which you likely don't...

For me, nothing that has to do directly with women really. It's a consequence of having a strong center in that regard, knowing how the game works, how men and women interact, the ephemeral (and sometimes random) nature of life and knowing what I can and can't control. What can damage my...

Well, here's an update: So I emailed her about a week ago. A couple days after with no response, I gave in and briefly reactivated my facebook (I've had it deactivated for like 2 years); on her profile, she seems to be making posts (about the earthquake relief effort, no less), so I'm...

I separated from this girl at my uni a year ago, and she's since graduated and gone back to her home country, nepal. Nepal was hit by a big earthquake just recently, and I want to know if she's safe. When we separated she told me not to contact her anymore, but I still care about her to an...

Gwah, I cringed while reading this...damn, I feel so bad for the guy. But at the same time, I think this is an excellent example of what women deal with these days, with so many guys out there being chumps (I'm not being high and mighty - not long ago, I too was a chump to the core). You can...

Some very quick, general advice: 1. Sleep at least 7 hours every night, preferably 8 2. Go to the Gym 3. Don't eat garbage food, eat well 4. Stop masturbating/looking at porn for at least 90 days 5. Read a book - any book, doesn't matter - each day 6. Before you start your day, meditate for...

You have only failed if you hit the ground and refuse to get back up. Even if people say these things to you, are you just going to not try? I admire the man who tries 1,000 times and succeeds once (hell even trying 1000 times and failing every time) more than the man who wallows in his...

I wouldn't advise giving up on this girl just yet. Give her another shot. A while ago I read a thread on another dating forum on dealing with LMR. I dug it up, you can read it here: https://www.puaforums.com/isolating-pulling/25319-guide-blasting-through-lmr.html The reason I remembered this...

A girl "friend" of mine (friend is a tentative term here - we've sort of known each other for 4 years, but we aren't particularly close, more like well-known acquaintances) asked me for help on her homework for a class I had already taken, as she was having trouble. I strongly considered not...

Yeah I realized after the first few that this has got to be some sort of satire...>_> Seriously, any new forum-goers reading this, this is bad advice <_<

Read this: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/03/04/i-think-bjs-are-gross/ Take note of the maxim at the bottom there. If a girl made it clear that she doesn't want to give bj's, that's pretty much a dealbreaker for me.

@Suspens, Don't take it so literally; the 5 year dating scenario was merely an example of a situation/context in which teasing about a physical trait isn't perceived as a insult/disrespectful I shoulda made it clearer yeah; of course it's normal for women to prefer/reject men based on physical...

Things are rarely so absolute. It all has to do with the delivery, mood, and context. No topic is off-limits as long as both parties unconsciously understand it's all in good fun. Sure, a woman you've just met busting on how short you are is probably an indicator that she's low quality/not...

Height absolutely matters. It absolutely does. In fact, I think the only limiting factor in how far you can get with women is height, insofar as your dating pool is a bit more limited (some women will rule you out because of it). Literally EVERYTHING else about yourself you can change, both...