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I would not break up with her just yet, agreed with Mauser96. Just distance yourself for a while. Don't initiate texts, ask to meet, etc. Just focus on your career. Give her a week or two to come back around. If things still aren't going well, then you can cut things off. But, as others have...

This seems odd to me Mike...are AFCs screwing up society, or has society created AFCs from men who would otherwise be normal? Every man is a product of his environment. Tell me, how do they know any better if this is what their parents and authority figures and the media have taught them? To...

This I forgot, her being out of the country changes things. Is there any imminent meeting between the two of you coming up? Will she be in your country anytime soon? Or has all of your conversation been through online/phone? If there's no existing plans to see each other in person, I wouldn't...

This is a very common mentality problem I've both seen in others and experienced to a deep degree myself, but the solution is relatively simple, as others in this thread have told you. I'll try and give you some of the same advice and insight I got (thanks to Poop1337): The reason why you're...

First off, I definitely agree with the message you're presenting here, and it's a teachable moment for us here on this forum. But, I'm not sure how you "taught this guy a lesson on Male/Female Dynamics". If anything, you lulled him into a sense of security with the conversation and undermined...

NSX-R is right, you should know better. There's no point in reiterating that further though, so I'll leave it alone. Just know that you've got to do some real thinking about yourself and life - you shouldn't be finding yourself in these mentally stressful situations often, especially with women...

The stuff in quotes below is from Chateau Heartiste, he has posted about about a similar topic. In my experience...his findings seem to be pretty true. I don't believe for a second that looks are at the top of the pyramid for women. If this were the case, there would never be a good-looking guy...

It's all about the process, not the goal. Are you having fun, talking to and chatting with girls? Or do you view it as a step you have to take towards 'being successful with women'? If you fail with a particular girl, it doesn't matter. What matters is that you hopefully learned something from...

Ok, first off, some of the comments here in this thread are needlessly aggressive. Especially you @Tictac and @marmel75, what the hell are you trying to do, traumatize this guy? In some ways, you're going to cause more problems for him down the line, is this how you help people you know in real...

Yes, we've all had this feeling man. It's sometimes a very difficult regret/possibility to manage...but you hit the nail on the head, if she really wanted to get back together, she'd make sure you had no doubt about her intentions. Take some time off, relax, whatever. Focus on...

Yes, agreed with @NSX-R. You should move on. I like how you handled it though, responding to her politely, while keeping your replies curt. IMO, especially after a good amount of time has passed, not responding at all if she reaches out just gives the impression that you haven't moved on...

Yes, spot on! Remember OP, the concept here is Amused Mastery. With it, you will pass basically every **** test with women. Be happy, jovial, and always true to what you actually want to do. If you don't want to drive them, don't (and I'm glad you didn't!). Your gut is a great compass in these...

One thing I've realized is that the red pill's teachings are largely true, but they are not perfect. Women are what they are...but they DO value some of the things that the red pill teaches us to avoid. It's very situational. I take the red pill, like any kind of philosophy, as a set of...

My advice? It seems from what I've read that she's not your type of girl pyros. Even if she's hot...is she really worth the trouble? Go find yourself a woman who is fun to be around, has (comparatively) fewer problems, and is hot as well. You are a DJ, you get to be choosy with the women you...

It's an interesting situation indeed. I have a couple pieces of advice for you, which may be helpful in the future (whether it's with this girl or another): If she's coming over to your house, she's at least open to (and very much considering) the possibility of having sex with you. The simple...

I dislike speaking in absolutes, because it's rarely the case one method works for every situation. It really depends on the woman (and her interest in you), but pushing for sex on every first date is sometimes going to drive the woman away (though it can certainly bring you closer as well, even...

Malcom, welcome to the forum mate. marmel's a bit harsh (and grumpy or something), but his advice is on point...I wouldn't ever verbalize your feelings for a girl until after you've slept with her AND she's already said her feelings for you. Don't worry about her past, it is not your...

I'm pretty sure NSX-R was being sarcastic... But sometimes men, especially those who are still learning, MIGHT actually believe parts of it. Be more clear with the sarcasm mate, I too thought you were being serious for most of your post >___>

Is this serious? This is EXACTLY what you'd be worried about on your deathbed. "If only I didn't get that STD that crippled my quality of life for so long," or "children of mine will grow up without a father, damn", etc. As you get older, your libido will diminish, and you'll find yourself...

Just want to chime in, perhaps a bit unrelated, but video games and having success with chicks are not mutually exclusive. A good friend of mine is an avid Magic:The Gathering fan of all things (the trading card game), and he's had a great relationship (to my knowledge) with his HB9 asian gf of...