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NeverChase, I felt (and am still feeling, in fact) pretty much everything that you're going through right now. Really interested in what everyone has to say on this (bump)

Was thinking about this again, I read this article which I would recommend to y'all as well (http://attractioninstitute.com/9-things-all-women-want-bed/), thought I'd reopen the discussion...it goes even beyond just sexual positions/how good women think they are at sex. Stuff like hair pulling...

Some inspiration for everyone from shark's blog: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2011/01/heartbroken/ Things will get better. Keep busy!

You're not alone man. I too, have little sexual experience at 21, for various reasons, which do share some similarities with your story in the reddit post. You had shots with women, I'm absolutely certain - there were opportunities - you just weren't in the right mindset to see them and push...

@Meisterman I truly wish I had heard this advice earlier. So very much the truth, it's an utter **** test. OP, don't initiate until she running back to you!

There was a guy Yellowstar on another dating forum (theattractionforums, i used to visit there, then I came here). I had similar problems (my own beta-ness and mistakes leading to the collapse of whatever I had going with a girl), and his words really helped me. I've transcribed them below: """...

Spax, gj mate. Glad to hear you're feeling better. Keep doing things for YOU, keep living the way YOU want to live, work your hardest, and you'll see improvements in every area of your life. Meeting new women will seem to be the smallest of your successes ;)

And that's absolutely fine, I encourage him to do so. The point of this thread is for us to help each other move on - whatever happens, whatever you're feeling, you'll have someone to talk to. Don't be afraid of posting here when you're feeling down.

Some really interesting stories here...it seems a lot of us have some old scars huh? There was a girl who was interested in me. She was really attracted, hitting on me, etc., but I didn't really notice her feelings (and the times I did, I was too scared to move forward) and do anything with her...

I don't believe it's so simple. I believe it was Roissy who said the pinnacle of seduction is allowing the seduced to believer they are the seducer (or something along those lines). Parallels can be drawn between animal mating practices and humans, certainly; but the dynamic is definitely not...

Spax, I would not recommend meeting with her in your current state. As long as you have any expectation or hope for a particular outcome, that desperation will seep out through your words and actions, and it'll end badly. Unless you have no attachments or ties or hopes for your ex, you're...

Yep, pretty much what JohnyTheArrow said. I'm 5'4, and I honestly don't feel it's that bad. I can have success with women if I try. I've had dates with women taller than me as well! It's harder, but its not the end of the world. At 5'8, the world is your ****in oyster man. I kind of like to...

So I had a breakfast appointment with a girl this morning. In hindsight, this was pretty dumb, as I rarely eat breakfast because I get up so late (11pm or so). Anyway, I stayed up until 7am goofing off with some friends, and we were gonna meet at the dining hall at 9:30. Predictably, I...

Y'all are right, I think Pook was suggesting more of a generalization rather than absolute truth - I think it was a little naive of me to think that he was asserting a fact. I do however believe that it is very rare for a woman who is actually interested in you to propose a date, which is why I...

He mentions, "BTW, I now disagree with what I wrote there about the girls initializing dates/romance. I have never, in my life, seen a girl initiate a date for romantic interests. Girls will flirt to tell you they are interested, guys confirm your interest by asking for their number." (the...

^ Yep it's exactly this. Definitely illuminating, thanks Poop, I couldn't have put it better. In general, you guys are right, I'm framing it my mind as a negative, something that I could lose, rather than a positive (which it really ought to be). It's a mentality thing...y'all ever watch the tv...

Yeah, I too would recommend taking some time for yourself, get your life back together. When you are truly happy being single, then get back out there and start actively dating again. But don't close yourself off to any women if you meet someone cool during this period where you're still...

Spax, I've had the same feelings, so I can relate. It doesn't matter what she thinks, not one bit. What matters is your own image of yourself. You are not the you of back then - you are not defined by who you were in the past. You can change. Take it as a learning experience, understand what...

An odd thought popped into my head the other day. It seems kind of understood, but why do women like being led/dominated in bed, enjoy things like doggystyle, etc. Is it a consequence of biology (sexual positions are inclined to put the male on top in other species), or social/environmental...

I've become so used to approaching and talking women who haven't shown prior interest in me (i.e. neutral), that I'm actually more nervous starting a conversation with a girl who has smiled at me or made a heavier degree of eye contact. I feel like the pressure is on because she expects...