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There's an article on the rational male on pretty much this specific topic: http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/ Read it. Thoroughly. Then ask yourself - do you really want this girl? Do you really, really like her? Or, are you settling because you're worried about going back...

I've been doing a ton of introspection and self-reflection lately. With regards to approaching (a sticking point I've been working on for a while), there are a couple things that I've been stuck in my head about and that have been holding me back. The first (and this is super fkin beta), is...

Lately, I've been a bit disillusioned... When you show too much interest/affection/caring towards women, they move further away from you. When you are aloof, calm, and indifferent, they often have a tendency to become more attached and try to 'win' you back. That dynamic I can wrap my head...

First and foremost, you need to make sure you have the time to be achieving your own personal/career goals first. After that, however date many girls it takes for you to foster an abundance mentality. More than 4-5 simultaneously seems like a lot to me though...just scheduling and trying to...

Hey man, it's good that you're thinking ahead. A lot of guys only seek to ask for help after problems have occurred or after the relationship has already started deteriorating/gone sour; you're ahead of the game :D That said, that's a large question, and it's unlikely you'll get a sufficient...

...trying to get some studying done; I usually like to hit up the area in the library that allows talking, group discussion, meetings - it's kind of an open area where all that stuff is the norm, as opposed to the regular super quiet library area. So I pop a squat at a table, and get to work. I...

@GMMR, aggressive. I like it. Always be closing, huh? I'll certainly give it a try. There are some situations though in which closing immediately might be inconvenient (such as if I'm in a group of people), and responding to the **** test takes priority. Playing it cool with "you're crazy"...

Honestly, no matter how many times I see it/hear about it, women's response to behavior that has little regard for their feelings astounds me XD If you told me this just 2-3 years ago, I would've laughed and white-knighted at y'all all day. But now, it makes sense it me, it just still is...

I agree, I do see quite a few women around who I'm sure, if they dressed a little more liberally, they'd be bombshells and would turn heads. But sometimes to me, that can be appealing - finding a woman who's a 'diamond in the rough' is kinda fun XD (women sometimes do this same thing with men I...

Aite, got another micro-game question y'all, pretty basic, but I need some help. I was at a smoothie shop today with a few friends, guys and girls. I go up and ask for an orange pineapple smoothie. One of the girls, who I have had pretty good interaction with so far, promptly teases me: "omg...

Have you heard about this concept of Ichigo Ichie? It's kind of the reverse of what we normally do; usually, we pass by people and don't really pay much attention to what they're wearing or their expression, etc. We can't see the tree for the forest (that is, the forest in our mind - so...

So, another real-quick micro game question...at uni (or just in general), you often see people you know passing by. If you both notice each other/make eye contact, obviously you acknowledge each other say 'sup, and it's all good. But there are cases in which you see the other person, but the...

@skinnyguy, I feel like you're just having a defeatist mentality man. The negativity is pulling you down. I'm Indian as well, and I can relate. It's a little more difficult to attract women, but don't doubt for a second that it can be done. My roommate, who is also Indian, is about 5'4, pretty...

This is an interesting problem actually, and something which I wanted to ask about at some point. One of the persons I was with just today (and running a bit too much C&F on) was a girl whom I had known for about a year. When I initially met her, I definitely wasn't running C&F, was pretty...

Thanks jimmy, that actually makes a ton of sense - I definitely think I've been giving off a bit of the dancing monkey vibe to women recently. Gonna try to dial things back, be a little more serious. For the time being, I think I've left a couple people (men and women) with the dancing monkey...

So lately, I've been practicing a lot of ****y funny, C&F. I've been getting some good results, but also people have told me that sometimes they don't know whether to take me seriously because I'm always joking around, and have even called me out on it >__> It's almost automatic now, I kind...

Quick random question, today I was chatting with this girl, we were joking on each other, I was shooting down a few **** tests, good stuff. During the banter, I playfully punched her; afterwards, it kind of occurred to me that this was the thing girls do to men after a guy passes their ****...

@Espi, i dunno man, I think it's a dangerous road if you go on the path of starting to think "women are such an enigma, no one knows they're thinking, it's the 8th wonder of the world, I can't try to figure it out" This mentality is something i bought into for a long time, and it's what...

About 80~ days NC or so. Feeling a lot better...but what's kind of still on my mind is an incident that happened about a month ago. I was looking at her profile online a lot (this particular website lets you know when anyone has viewed your page), and I think she suspected it was me, and blocked...

@mikey2012 I think part of what he's asking is to consider that if he reads the message, she will know that he has read it. I mean, there are 3 options I guess, just delete without reading, read it & no response, read it & respond. Personally, I would read the message, and unless it's...