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From my (granted, limited) experience with women, the girls who were really interested in me would be messaging me first, initiating conversations. I rarely initiated stuff, it would be something like once for every 5 times she started something. Because of this, for some time now, I've...

I used to feel angry at women. Sometimes I admit, I still do a bit whenever I feel I've been slighted. But nowadays, whenever something goes wrong with women, I'm often angry at myself. When things go wrong, most of the time, it was because of an error in my own game. I shouldn't be emotionally...

In the words of Roissy, women have their own Joie De Vivre. A certain type of bubbliness/passion/happiness that is not present in men. It's one of the reasons I like hanging out with women, they can be...adorable I guess? The polarity of their femininity with masculine stoicism is somehow...

The same holds true for all of us, women and men included. I prefer certain physical traits in women; I have my own "type" that I find myself more attracted to. Everyone has their own particular things they like and consider 'ideal' in physical appearance. This doesn't mean the media has...

Was reading some of Pook's old posts...found this gem! http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=60002

There's definitely some truth to the fame bit; I'm not sure who she was checking out in particular, models/actors/celebrities, etc., but that probably played a role as well. I dunno know if there's some scale of "fame > fitness", or vis-versa; rather, I think these various qualities will both...

The post was kind of meant to inspire myself to get into it. Gotta start lifting first myself! Unfortunately not a brag post, as much as I would like it be haha. I also wanted to tell of an example of women's desire out in the open. It's very rare that girls express (directly or indirectly)...

Studying in my dorm common room, I saw a girl I know in front of me browsing pics of famous men with their shirts off for about 30 minutes or so. She definitely kind of had a longing look in her eyes >_> Working out will help a lot in attracting the females. It may not be 100% necessary for a...

The sentiments in this thread are interesting. On the one hand, you do want to be self-sufficient and not rely on the woman for your happiness. When she leaves, your whole life will be in shambles. But at the same time, if she leaves you and you're just like "eh, whatever", it seems to me as...

It's difficult to say that college is full of 'betas', with few alphas. In reality, I'm pretty sure there's a spectrum of beta-tude. The true betas are rare, just are the true alphas. I know many guys who are beta in certain ways (terrible body language, dress poorly), but are dominantly alpha...

I appreciate the support and personal stories guys...they've helped a lot. It puts things in perspective, I thought I was the only one who felt like this, but helps to share similar experiences with others. @Meisterman, I too had the ability to get a condom, hell they sold them in the vending...

Reviving this thread from the grave...lately I've been thinking about this girl (who brought me to this forum), and have a few unresolved issues. Not having sex with her when I had the chance (because I was too dumb, was afraid I couldn't get hard/couldn't perform) I realize was a mistake...

Let her go. Learn from this experience - reflect on why it ended for a little while, what you could've done better, then just move on and live a fulfilling life. You cannot get a girl back by "trying to get her back". If she does want to return, it must be of her own accord. Any effort you take...

Funnily enough, I think this is a problem that arose because I've reading the forum so much. Lately, I've become extremely self-aware - more in tune with social interactions, with what people are saying around me, and the dynamics between myself and other people, and between other people...

There are several girls I know with whom I have had good interactions so far. Some of these women though, I see talking to a least a couple other guys. I'll see them touching her (casually), see her touching them, etc - general kinoing and good vibes. I'll see these girls be surrounded by 2-3...

More specifically, why do they say things like "We're not having sex tonight", when in fact (more often than not, at least) they do actually want it? Do they not want to seem like a slut? Do they want plausible deniability to say "it just happened" to their friends afterwards? Just...

@latinnova I completely agree that women do many things we think are odd, because...well, they're women. Science has shown that men and women have different brain chemistry in some areas, and neurological differences, if I recall correctly. The problem arises when a guy, having just been...

This is a very dangerous, and in my opinion extremely bad attitude to have. The whole "women are a mystery, we men will never figure them out" idea is perpetuated by the media, movies, etc., and it's utter crap. There's always a reason behind any action someone takes. It may not be based in...

4 months NC. Did something kind of dumb today. Was in class, working on a social group project. Was rapidly entering people's emails to send them a document that they needed to reference for the group work, and in the rush, gmail accidentally autofilled in my ex's best friend's email address...

This is probably a significant part of the problem for you. Dating should not be seen as work - it should be pure, unadulterated fun. You need to develop the mindset that meeting and talking with women whom you are attracted to is an enjoyable pasttime. Another relevant article I've dug up...