Do you feel anger?

[mikey2012]

you just have to bottle it all up and keep it inside like always

Bottling up is the right thing to do but sometime you just want to let it all out and go ape on the bitvch . But that achieves nothing in the long term.

I think you just have to be dispassionate and focus energies elsewhere.

 

[Meisterman]

As previously mentioned in the thread, you basically have to put yourself in a position where they simply can't harm you. Because all women will try every trick possible to break you down into an AFC and then dump you at your weakest point so they feel validated with an ego boost. However they can't dump you until they destroy you and turn you into an AFC. That's the game.

The only way to win this game is by not playing at all. And you do this by being yourself regardless of what she does and detaching from all outcomes 24/7. That way she is only gaming herself.

Just remember that "the game" has only one rule. Once you play it, you lose.

 

[Jair213]

this is how i see it ''she didnt gave a fvck so why would i?''

i know its short and simple but it works for me.

 

[Poon King]

As previously mentioned in the thread, you basically have to put yourself in a position where they simply can't harm you. Because all women will try every trick possible to break you down into an AFC and then dump you at your weakest point so they feel validated with an ego boost. However they can't dump you until they destroy you and turn you into an AFC. That's the game.

The only way to win this game is by not playing at all. And you do this by being yourself regardless of what she does and detaching from all outcomes 24/7. That way she is only gaming herself.

Just remember that "the game" has only one rule. Once you play it, you lose.

Spot on dude. And this is what I was trying to say in my post, but you worded it better.

Games are for women and children. They created them, and they make all the rules. Its a kangaroo court. So men need to cut the crap.. all this molding and adapting (reacting) to dumb b1tches. You lower yourself every time you try to use "strategy" with a woman. Because you shouldn't have to in the first place.

Again.. if a woman makes you that angry she is probably a malignant c*nt or you are just not on the same page. Men don't ask for much. We just want a woman to shag us and be nice/respectful. Not hard work is it? So if a woman can't even do that... what can I say?

I did a lot of the "games" in my 20's and all that happened was I played myself. I do much better now just acting how I feel and let the dumb b1tch react however she wants.

 

[mikey2012]

Spot on dude. And this is what I was trying to say in my post, but you worded it better.

Games are for women and children. They created them, and they make all the rules. Its a kangaroo court. So men need to cut the crap.. all this molding and adapting (reacting) to dumb b1tches. You lower yourself every time you try to use "strategy" with a woman. Because you shouldn't have to in the first place.

Again.. if a woman makes you that angry she is probably a malignant c*nt or you are just not on the same page. Men don't ask for much. We just want a woman to shag us and be nice/respectful. Not hard work is it? So if a woman can't even do that... what can I say?

I did a lot of the "games" in my 20's and all that happened was I played myself. I do much better now just acting how I feel and let the dumb b1tch react however she wants.

Fate knows this that's why all these hos are either alone or unhappy when they are over 35. Whereas we can still get poon when we are 70.

 

[Genos]

I used to feel angry at women. Sometimes I admit, I still do a bit whenever I feel I've been slighted. But nowadays, whenever something goes wrong with women, I'm often angry at myself.

When things go wrong, most of the time, it was because of an error in my own game. I shouldn't be emotionally affected by things like that. Rejection? The girl doesn't want the awesomeness that I offer, that's her loss. But you must turn your eye inward and focus on self-improvement. Could you have done anything better? Did the interaction go poorly because of the girl's craziness or mistakes that you made? You must be brutally honest with yourself, and think critically.

This quote from Pook's aphorisms really struck me: "Every woman to me is a portal of discovery. They are all emissaries of Nature, delivering you news on how life works. To many men, anything is easier, from nuclear physics to climbing the tips of mountains, than dealing with a woman he truly loves. Why? With her, he will be unable to hide from himself."

The whole 'emissaries of nature, delivering you news on how life works' thing seems fantastical, but in a sense I can relate to it immensely. I've been inspired to improve myself in so many other factors of life because of my failures with women. Learning 'game', initially only for the purpose of getting better with women, has changed my mindset and mentality in general and I've been applying the principles of confidence, freedom from outcome, etc. in other aspects of my life. Very helpful stuff.

But to echo some of the other sentiments in this thread, no, it is very rare that you should feel (and even rarer still, demonstrate) anger. You must be stoic, and control your emotions. Here's a great link to Shark's blog on the topic: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2010/11/how-to-control-your-emotions/

 

[sylvester the cat]

you just have to bottle it all up and keep it inside like always

What? No. That's what the roger Elliott's of the world do.

You sublimate it. Transform it into something positive. Work out, career, whatever. When you are angry it is because YOU believe you were worth being slighted. It's all a trick of the mind.