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  1. HeadLightsOn

    "I don't give my number ouy"

    Not so. I should have mentioned this was not an American woman - she was Western European. For anyone who has spent time there, or in Northern Europe, you will know that the women there are notoriously difficult to close on, in the situation I was in. They call it "equality." The guys in the...
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    "I don't give my number ouy"

    I use the same MO - I will NOT give my number to a female Im chatting up. Recently I was with my wingman. We were chatting two HB8's up. Great talk over 1/2 hour, mine was keen and so I (nicely) asked for her number: She: No but give me yours and Ill call you. Me: Im sorry I dont give my...
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    Girl I'm dating has abandonment issues

    I would delete the part in RED above.
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    Dropping fatpercentage whilst maintaining muscle mass

    Dont forget the genetic component. Do you know your body type (ectomorph, mesomorph, endomorph). Improvements can be made but your genetics will determine a lot in the outcome. case in point - my friend is very thin - an ectomorph. He has trained at a gym, med/heavy weights and eaten well for...
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    How to deal with silent treatment?

    My way of dealing with this is to go the exact opposite. I just start yabbering away. I dont care about what. For instance: Scenario - In a car, I'm driving, she's in passenger seat, just the two of us. Her - Silent treatment Me - Wow isn't it amazing how the light gets dappled through the...
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    Lance Armstrong

    Ok, but he sued other people that tried to say he was a liar, he called THOSE people liars and generally acted like an a hole. He made OTHER athletes lives unbearable with his accusations against them, and (from what seems to be accepted in the cycling arena), was nothing less than a bully...
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    Best way to ask a girl if she's on the rag?

    Ewwwwwww. :crackup:
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    Getting old cant take it to the next level anymore.

    timmylivingalie, although Im not quite as mature as Tictac, I agree with him. I have stated this here before - the more I age/mature/develop/get older, the MORE females I have interested in me. I look ok and look after myself pretty well, but I have noticed an increase in: - younger women who...
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    She messages me after 3 months

    She is def an AW. If she repeatedly contacts you, you COULD do something further at that stage. But on your terms NOT hers.
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    Initiating threesome with plate

    Gawd I lol so hard at how *****-ish some chicks are. " No this is tasty" is sooooooooooooo funny. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with chicks with 'come fck me' attitudes. We'd be lost without them. But oh yes, they get what they deserve ;)
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    Can BPD woman really change?

    Holy crap - you Sir deserve a beer! That is very well written and so true.
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    Can BPD woman really change?

    That is so so true. The MAIN problem with the stats on BPD, is quite simply that the vast majority of people who have this NEVER get diagnosed. I know someone who is BPD. Guess how they are treated? With the same drugs as someone with Bi Polar. Anti depressants. BPD is not a chemical...
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    Lezzo couple fvck their cause in one foul swoop.

    See, I ask a SERIOUS question (in this case about anal), and get no serious response! I mean, what happened to serious discussion??? :crazy:
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    Lezzo couple fvck their cause in one foul swoop.

    Question to Zarky: Have you ever tried anal? From a female pov, what were the positives and negatives, if you have tried it?
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    Please share your wisdom - what should I do?

    You'll hear back from this flako at some stage - I guarantee it. When you do DON't just reach for the text keys (or if she calls I wouldn't pick up - wait if there is a V mail). Instead have a good think about what you could do, and even ask on these forums again. The Windy city? Heck you...
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    ex is leaving comments on friends and family facebook

    Her hamster wheel is spinning quite nicely thank you. Don't put the brakes on that. When I look back, going NC were some of the sweetest moments I've had. I'm still NC with Cluster B's from years ago. And that's just the way I like it. You're doing fine.
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    Please help me with my BPD-ex [Moved from MM]

    Good job keeping things tidy, I noticed that re the MM forum ;)
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    Please help me with my BPD-ex [Moved from MM]

    There are excellent resources and stickies on this site about BPDs and their associated madness. You're going to have to forget the animalistic, wild sex sessions, otherwise you'll lose your brain and turn into a vegetable. If she is BPD: "THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO 'HELP' HER." Repeat...
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    How does it feel knowing most of you will end up with a slut?

    All of this wisdom is fine. There are still the statistics to look at though. Makes for sobering reading. (Data is approximate but gives an idea - references from Wiki, Nationstats and medical sites): - first marriages that end in divorce last about eight years - women file for divorce in...
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    How a build wealth from scratch

    "Lovin' it!"
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