She messages me after 3 months

[For_F]

I was out of town on a business trip three months ago and met a woman who was incredibly good looking and we got along in an unprecedented way. I made a thread about it when this all happened but anyway - she's from the same city as me and she was on holidays. Long story short she left to go back home and I thought when I got back home something would happen between us but she fell off the face of the planet.

Didn't pick up my calls when I got back home, didn't send me anymessages nothing. While away she had such incredible interest in me and I did for her. All I can say is that 99% of girls I've met are either root and boot types or extremely boring and unattractive. I got over it and thought what's the point I never really knew her anyway.

Tonight after 3 months since I talked to her she messages me a pic she took of us two while we were out. My time here would lead me to believe that she's just trying to reaffirm that she still has me by the bAlls and truly expects me to be kneeling at her feet after seeing the pic of us two. She's probably expecting that message back from me and maybe me a year ago would have fell right back into her ass but now, what should I do?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Ok correct me if Im wrong, you contacted her many times but she didnt pick up the phone or contacted you back then out of nowhere after you stopped any attempt she sent you that picture out of nowhere?

I may say that she either was interested in some fun when you both were far from home (nobody would have found out) or she was just looking for some flirting and confirmation of her beauty already there.

The fact that she didnt even bother to reply to your messages when you came back says enough, she was not only completely uninterested in you but she also had low respect for you by not even bothering to create some excuse or at least reply.

Now she probably is having a bad time, maybe mr cool dropped for an other girl or she thinks that her golden age is going to an end (depends on the age) and needs to be reassured about her worth.

In all honesty given that attraction either exist or not and that interested girls make it clear and work for you, this girl is a no-go, its a small time.

It could also be that she came into those pictures and reminded the positive emotions associated with it (with the pic not you) and wants to have some of it again, only to drop you off once she gets them.

I suggest to ignore her completely and if she persists in contacting you just leave short polite answers but no more; of course not attempt or invitation to meet each other let alone compliments.

 

[Kbomb]

Ask her when that picture was taken, and call her by a different name as if you thought she was someone else.

"Is this julia? When did we take that pic?"

 

[Cremasta]

Did she write anything with the photo?
If it was just the photo, then ignore it. If she calls you and asks about it, just act like it never got through to you and make her work for your time.

 

[For_F]

She's 25 years old. I agree with you guys, she never made the effort to even message me with an excuse as to why she can't see me and to be honest I've never had a girl flake or blow me off that bad. They all still do their half ass attempt at explaining why they can't make it or can't fvck.

She didn't write anything with the pic just sent it as it is. I deleted her number 3 months ago and she obviously kept it which means it didn't phase her to hold onto my number or even the pic she took. I usually if not always delete numbers of women who I know can get under my skin.

I wont reply and will try not to think about it. Thanks for the advice. Ill keep you posted as to any updates and we'll go from there.

 

[NewAndImproved]

Who knows what it means. Went NC on a girl a few months ago. Number deleted. Hid her from newsfeed on facebook. Now all of a sudden she's liking all of my stuff on facebook.

Does it mean anything?

WHO CARES

Am I going to try to reach out to her?

HELL NO.

The answer in these situations is not to be reactive. I'm assuming you went NC for a reason. If so, stay the course. Who cares what she has up her sleeve.

 

[NewAndImproved]

She's 25 years old. I agree with you guys, she never made the effort to even message me with an excuse as to why she can't see me and to be honest I've never had a girl flake or blow me off that bad. They all still do their half ass attempt at explaining why they can't make it or can't fvck.

She didn't write anything with the pic just sent it as it is. I deleted her number 3 months ago and she obviously kept it which means it didn't phase her to hold onto my number or even the pic she took. I usually if not always delete numbers of women who I know can get under my skin.

I wont reply and will try not to think about it. Thanks for the advice. Ill keep you posted as to any updates and we'll go from there.

Bingo.

Good.

 

[For_F]

Who knows what it means. Went NC on a girl a few months ago. Number deleted. Hid her from newsfeed on facebook. Now all of a sudden she's liking all of my stuff on facebook.

Does it mean anything?

WHO CARES

Am I going to try to reach out to her?

HELL NO.

The answer in these situations is not to be reactive. I'm assuming you went NC for a reason. If so, stay the course. Who cares what she has up her sleeve.

I guess there's that hope inside me that after meeting a woman who seems to be amazing you want to hold onto it because of all the trash you know is out there. Ironically, I wouldnt be in this situation if she was indeed as amazing as I thought she was originally.

 

[Fatal Jay]

^
that's the afc biatch in you

you go back to this girl,your going to be pissed off again, I seen it happen to many times bro, a chick who ignores your calls or messages is disrespectful you don't want to deal with that

 

[nismo-4]

She wants attention. Your princess is STILL in another castle.

You went ghost for a reason. Keep it up. Don't go back to this sh*t. There's no good in it that is for you. If she really likes you, she'll come around. Trust your gut. Judge's orders.

Case closed.

 

[For_F]

Im going to delete her number now.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Im going to delete her number now.

smart man, oh yeah can I get some rep love on here damn, I put in serious work on this board

 

[HeadLightsOn]

She is def an AW.

If she repeatedly contacts you, you COULD do something further at that stage.

But on your terms NOT hers.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I agree on that also, if she text more then two text messages or calls

then I would make her a fb

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I was out of town on a business trip three months ago and met a woman who was incredibly good looking and we got along in an unprecedented way. I made a thread about it when this all happened but anyway - she's from the same city as me and she was on holidays. Long story short she left to go back home and I thought when I got back home something would happen between us but she fell off the face of the planet.

Didn't pick up my calls when I got back home, didn't send me anymessages nothing. While away she had such incredible interest in me and I did for her. All I can say is that 99% of girls I've met are either root and boot types or extremely boring and unattractive. I got over it and thought what's the point I never really knew her anyway.

Tonight after 3 months since I talked to her she messages me a pic she took of us two while we were out. My time here would lead me to believe that she's just trying to reaffirm that she still has me by the bAlls and truly expects me to be kneeling at her feet after seeing the pic of us two. She's probably expecting that message back from me and maybe me a year ago would have fell right back into her ass but now, what should I do?

Three Simple solutions: Text her back a picture of you with a better looking chick or chicks. No words. While thinking in your mind: How YOU doin toots? lol :flowers:

Or a simple reply of "Damn I look good. T1ts or GTFO." (If she does send a t1t pic or semi nude. Don't reply. Let her then sit knowing she sent it to you and you didn't react. She may feel you have the upper hand at that point IF she sends a nude pic. *The first reply in itself IF you don't care would show her you just want to fvck at this point. If she's single and wants your d1ck then she'd have to work for it, if not she can keep it moving. In other words: Are you DTF at this point toots? Or DTF off?)

(Or just delete the pic she sent and her number.)

 

[VladPatton]

I have no tolerance for chicks that ignore and don't reply, śhit's beyond rude. I mean seriously, it takes SECONDS to text. Delete, and stay the course, let her keep trying. Maybe after 3, 4 texts reply with "uh, so who are you again?"

Something would of happened months ago if she was interested.

 

[Skalioppe]

She's had a full on ego stomp by some guy, probably been dumped or two timed. Needs some consolation and an ego bandage by getting some attention from someone who chased her and bolstered her self confidence.

F#ck the b1tch, my advice call her out on it... "Why the random text?" Then see how it pans out. You could probably f#ck her if you play the scornful ba$tard.

 

[Demonpenz]

Glad you posted this. So you can do the right thing and build character.

 

[For_F]

Okay so 2 nights after she sent the photo message to which I didn't reply she sent me another message with my name followed by a question mark. I didn't reply and then couple hours later she sends another question mark.

I waited until I finished work around 6pm and replied saying 'why contact me now?'.

She immediately replied saying I've wanted to contact you for a while now but bit the bullet the other day and just did it I guess.

I replied with 'I'm with my buddies I'll call you later'

I called her when I got home from my friends house at around 11pm and she didn't pick up and no message from her this morning.

 

[For_F]

I deleted her number when she didn't pick up. This girl gets under my skin so fast it's a joke. Good that I did because this morning I felt like giving her a call and imagine that - calling at night then she gets another missed call in the morning to feed her ego. She'd start to be feeling pretty good after whatever has recently happened to her.