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  1. HeadLightsOn

    To the older gentlemen: What age do you feel you were at your prime?

    My late 30's were good, but my forties to date have been excellent. It is true that maturity brings wisdom (well it has to a certain extent with me), and having some better finances and prospects hasn't hurt either. I too have noticed younger woman actively pursuing me compared to my late...
  2. HeadLightsOn

    Proof that no contact works.

    This is one of the funniest, most tragic and truthful vids I have ever seen. I have forwarded this on and have had friends rolling on the ground. BPD you think? Ah, yea, possibly. JD is one lucky lucky guy...
  3. HeadLightsOn

    My workout schedule *help*

    I have been an athlete pretty much my entire life, and have tried many different workout and training methods. I have found that if I can 'play' and get outside, it has a definite effect on my physique eg, mountain biking, swimming and those similar outdoor sports. But one of the workouts that...
  4. HeadLightsOn

    When should an affair be exposed?

    Monogamy, and the history thereof, has a lot to answer for...
  5. HeadLightsOn

    She's baaaaack....

    Yep backbreaker that is all true, tru, true. but Holy F - I just saw your number of posts: Posts: 8,998 That's quite some contribution right there :0
  6. HeadLightsOn

    I Can't Get ANY Girl

    Don't take this the wrong way - but having a goal to 'look like a model' is not really where you should be headed. Of course if you personally - for some unknown reason - really DO want to base your looks on those of a model - go for it. I know you guys are a few years younger than me, but...
  7. HeadLightsOn

    Help me not screw up.. my first BPD ex.

    Bang her Mom. So cool. BPDs are insanely good in the bedroom. Edit - My follow up post didnt get entered. It read - Ok Ok I was just joking, sheesh :)"
  8. HeadLightsOn

    ... Seeking wise words from financially successful DJ's

    Hmmmm cant see it never mind.
  9. HeadLightsOn

    ... Seeking wise words from financially successful DJ's

    Can I ask where you are in Europe? I spend time there each year and am interested in your demographics. That will help me formulate a reply.
  10. HeadLightsOn

    So much hate for women on this site :(

    djgirl, you are missing my point. I MAY want to have something to do with the child, yes, however that is still my CHOICE. However as you say here: That's you. And no offense but - you aren't a guy. The point to take from all this is this: A man has sex with a woman. A pregnancy occurs...
  11. HeadLightsOn

    So much hate for women on this site :(

    I take exception to this: Of "your" consequence? Ah, did the woman have anything to do with this in your scenario? Hell yes. As someone else mentioned briefly - if a man does not want to have a child, he shouldn't be expected to "man up" at all. Women have to learn the following: A...
  12. HeadLightsOn

    What are some really great foreign movies?

    Damn! That is my other all time fav. I was in East Berlin and got stopped by the Stasi years ago. They were nasty MFos thats for real. This film portrays what it was like living in that era, so very well. Great choice. This is a must see. The lead actor had cancer while he filmed this, died...
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    What are some really great foreign movies?

    I am a foreign film fan big time (subtitles don't annoy me at all). To me one of the all time classics - and an academy award winner - is Cinema Paridiso Beautifully portrayed in a small Italian village, it mixes the past of a small boy who is friends with an old man who is a projectionist in...
  14. HeadLightsOn

    Could it be that after many relationships we become BPD seekers ?

    Could I say, from experience in this area, that as an 18 year old man, you should stay the HELL away from any woman who might possibly be, could be (by red flags) or admits to being BPD. I am not going to start a hate session here about women with this condition, however I CAN say that you...
  15. HeadLightsOn

    I am so fvcked

    I have to take a 'no sympathy' stance with you as well. If you're a troll I take a 'go fck urself' stance. Anyway I'm sure you get the message here. Now you can't have this guy, and he has lost interest in you totally, you want him in your life. And now you're married. You are sick. Leave...
  16. HeadLightsOn

    wtf is wrong with this bish

    Loser chick needing affirmation that you think she is still desirable + texting back and forth = wasted time and BS. I 2nd or 3rd any comments to kick her to touch. Once and for all.
  17. HeadLightsOn

    How do you justify getting married?

    What the hell has any of that got to do with marrying her? If anything what you say sounds quite beta. Nothing against you getting married, good on you, but the reasons you stated - doesn't make sense to me.
  18. HeadLightsOn

    Loving Mistress more

    IMHO you made a MAJOR mistake admitting the affair to your wife. Yes I know - the phone records. You should've seen that coming and used a dual sim or some pre pay option. You sound like some teenage kid who has just had his first *******... This is only my opinion of course, but I believe you...
  19. HeadLightsOn

    Thoughts on younger chicks who are extremely flirty towards you

    Um, what am I missing here? I know that in the US we are mainly ageist orientated (as opposed to say Middle East/Asia/Eastern Europe), but this woman is 20 years of age. The age difference thing to me is complete BS. She is legal and obviously wants you so... The only thing I agree with in...
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