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    new to the game, done ok but failing?

    lms, i agree 100%. hence why i say, she is not a 'great woman' - he only thinks this because he's horny for her. but i don't think getting laid is whats causing him to lose his reason, since he states that he's been doing well with women since he's gotten in shape. what's messing him up is...
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    new to the game, done ok but failing?

    dude, you've only known her for 2 weeks! how can you say she is a 'great' girl?!!! what you do know is that you have high interest in her and that she is in good physical shape. neither of those things make her a 'great girl'. she could be a lunatic for all you know, you haven't known her...
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    new to the game, done ok but failing?

    jophil is bang on the money about women do NOT say what they mean. they say what they think will get them what they want. the GOOD news is that they are HORRIBLE at behaving, long term, in ways that fool you. what i mean is that if you observe their behavior the truth of who they are becomes...
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    Power of Perception

    you are on the right path young grasshopper. nothing is 'actually' important. things are only important because we make a decision to make them important. in the objective sense the only things that are important are having food to eat, shelter, and a place to sleep. everything beyond...
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    Power of Perception

    the biggest trick the devil (figuratively speaking) ever pulled was convincing you that what you DO in this world is what matters - it is what defines you. the truth is that you simply exist. you are perfect. you are exactly what you are suppose to be. just like a cat is what it was...
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    realistic archetypes for a mature man - John Lock

    so i was thinking.... are there any real world archetypes for the mature man out there in the media. i emphasize REAL WORLD, because much of what we see in hollywood would have 0% chance of existing in the real world. we hold up guys like scarface as the representation of the alpha male...
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    Power of Perception

    guru, i agree 100%. thats what my post was getting at. both being thankful and believing your life has a purpose are both perceptual things. this is what i was trying to get across to str8up and others in a few of my posts. your attitude (which is derived from your perception) is...
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    The Next Upcoming Thriller!

    i hope this comes out before the presidential election.
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    Power of Perception

    generally speaking i think ones attitude is initially a result of how they were raised. people who were raised in households where there was a lot of fighting, a lot of negative views on life, a lot of crises, a lot of failures, substance abuse problems, emotional and physical abuse, etc...
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    Why it’s OK to settle for Mr. Good Enough

    this kind of diatribe this is the last bastion of womanhood before they enter the stage of realizing that they are totally f*cked. the article, from the parts i read, basically espouses 'make sure you take a guy, ANY guy if you have to, for a ride before you lose your market value. its your...
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    The Old Question - Military Twist - She Has a BF

    you already have let her know your boundaries. she knows you want her p*ssy. she's a wh*re for messing around on her LTR who is risking his life. although it seems to be a totally common place thing for women back home to do. i dont think ill ever understand how it is that women can do...
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    Wow these guys are being fvcking gay

    go get a new gas cap. then lace it with deadly toxins like bruce willis did to the license plate on his van in the movie 'Jackel' that will teach those f*ckers.
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    State of Suspension

    good post. i agree completely that this is a very common phenomena. no matter what a man might do he can't raise her IL because really she's pining for someone else. but, important in this, i believe anyway, is that its not actually 'the guy' that she's pining over. what she has done is...
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    A gentleman who has enough self-respect to walk away is the "bad boy"?

    there are a lot of teenager brains walking around in adult bodies.
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    looking for a sugar momma?

    amen to that brotha!
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    World of Warcraft, anyone in?

    you guys are going to think im joking when i say this but.... i cringe when i hear guys talking like this - '8000 health, 40 paladin, 25 mage....' seriously, it makes me cringe. i just don't get it myself. i totally get the first person shooters. its hella fun to put on some metal music...
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    We made out, what now?

    a little while ago i went on a few dates this woman. originally i asked her out and she declined. then a day later she calls me up and says she would like to go out. she explained that she hadn't dated in a while and was nervous but that coffee would be good. so we go for coffee. things go ok...
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    "WHY don't I want him???"

    once again we need to differentiate between 'nice' and 'doormat'. no woman wants a doormat. as for this woman, to be honest, my take on this would depend on knowing her. for all we know this guy is a solid, mature man who has his sh*t together and she is an immature drama seeking chic...
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    Fate and spiritual fortunetelling.

    i knew a psychic that could tell your future by putting your penis in her mouth. she would say 'i sense big things coming for you.' - she was always right. but seriously, if psychics were for real theyd all be rich cuz they would know the lottery numbers every week. oh wait, their psychic...
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    intense 4 month relationship turns to LJBF... what to do?

    in all relationships lies at the core hope. hope for a better future. hope for finding a mate and ever lasting love. etc. just like when you take a new job. within it lies hope for a better future. for a work place you enjoy. for a fulfillment of your professional ambitions. for...
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