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    intense 4 month relationship turns to LJBF... what to do?

    excellent post mr. me. one of the toughest things for a guy to accept is that whether a woman is 'in' to him is mostly out of his control. and i know, that goes against the sosuave mantra. DJ tactics will get you laid, but they won't get you a healthy LTR. the only way to have a healthy...
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    We made out, what now?

    oh one other thing, and i dont mean to be rude, but its standard AFC thinking to get rejected by a girl but then say to yourself 'even though she is saying she doesn't want to be with me, its only because deep down she really really wants me. she's just scared of being hurt.' its this kind of...
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    We made out, what now?

    well if you thought she was just another chic displaying typical chic tactics you wouldn't be that interested in her. given that you are interested in her you feel that 'shes different' - you have to think this to yourself in order for you to keep wanting her. the moment you relegate her to...
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    Breaking up with my girl.

    hahaha. now you know what women go through with AFCs. not much you can do other than bite the bullet. simply tell her its not working for you and that you are breaking up with her. she'll probably want answers and try and get you to change your mind. simply tell her that 'its nothing...
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    Sincere advices needed.

    this is going nowhere because your being her friend. what do you want from her? do you want to date her, make out with her, f*ck her? if you do, then what the hell are doing acting like her friend? your doing things ass backwards. your being her friend first and waiting for it to blossom into...
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    We made out, what now?

    drama drama drama. typical chic drama. 'i dont want to see you. i want to see you. im so confused. im scared. give me some time. blah blah blah' guys with multiple options or spinning multiple plates laugh at this sh*t. can you imagine offering a woman a winning million dollar lottery...
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    Sincere advices needed.

    you are a master at putting yourself in the LJBF zone. i have no clue what you are doing. it sounds like you pal around with a women for months and then hope at some point she wants to suck your kawk. either shes your friend or she's someone you want to f*ck. if she's someone you want to...
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    Ideas for dates

    driving range. show her how you grip your shaft and wack those balls.
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    good article - brief

    http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/gettingstarted/3/three-simple-rules;_ylc=X3oDMTFsajhjaTF2BF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawN0aHJlZS1zaW1wbGUtcnVsZXMEenoDYWJj this was on yahoo. it was very brief, but written by a woman (with a phd). great advice. simple. concise. and...
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    No Matter

    this is why men are so different from women. men can actually reach a stage where they are happy with whats in the mirror. because as a man matures he figures out what he believes in. he becomes 'pure' if you will (provided he actually works to get to that stage of enlightenment). he's...
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    intense 4 month relationship turns to LJBF... what to do?

    bang on the money. she wants to keep you around as an orbiter. a fail safe in case she doesnt meet anyone else. basically as a potential daddy. women assess men on two levels. the first is 'am i attracted to him'. the second is 'would he make a good daddy' she is no longer attracted to...
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    The child-man

    haha. well im 33 and i gotta tell ya, im enjoying life. the thought of marriage, kids, family bills, responsibility, etc... not really that appealing. id get married, but only if a woman that i was highly compatible with came along. in essence, if i truly fell in love and simply couldn't...
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    The child-man

    you got it. not getting married benefits the man more for sure as well. men dont need a woman to be successful in life, cope with life's stresses and enjoy life. men can be quite happy having a successful career, sleeping with various women along the way, and enjoying the fruits of their...
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    The child-man

    this is far as i could read. what utter drivel. why don't people drive Ford anymore, because Honda is better. Why don't people eat at Macdonalds as much as Subway, because subway is better and healthier. why don't people listen to the radio as much anymore, because mp3s are better. why do...
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    The child-man

    here here!
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    UFC 81 Brock Lesnar Vs. Frank Mir TONIGHT!!

    sweet i called it. lesnar loses. although not by a knock out punch.
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    UFC 81 Brock Lesnar Vs. Frank Mir TONIGHT!!

    i think MIR will win. lesnar is big, but the guy is slow. my money says MIR leg kicks him a dozen times so that Lesnar can barely move, then knocks him out with a shot to the jaw. mma is so difficult, because being big just ain't enough. if you don't have the full package you will get...
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    Today on "Ophra"

    this is why she is so dangerous. because she has created an artificial halo, wherein she uses the good things to gain peoples trust and then sells them on the bad stuff as though the bad stuff is actually good stuff. and like good little sheep the women eat it up. the biggest trick the...
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    Dream Interpretation

    in your unconscious dream state you traversed the time/space continuum and were observing an alternate reality wherein the you of that reality had kids with her and was banging her. then you woke up and returned to this reality. :)
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    I'm Evil and should be destoryed.

    LMS is right. that was not love. meeting some chick, having a good time, and then her telling you she loves you is NOT love. you are making the mistake of thinking love is a word. as long as someone says they love you, then obviously they must. she had extremely high IL in you. that...
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