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Indifference. "She seems nice" *Shrug*

If it was me I would go ghost and wait for her to make a move. You need to 1) not come across as desperate (she's turned down your last 2 offers) and 2) gauge whether she is interested or just likes the attention of an older man. Time to spin other plates for awhile and forget all about this...

Sounds like maybe you were friendzoned already without realising it, maybe she was seeing if any of her friends would like you? Move on buddy. And do some push ups :D that always makes me feel better.

The biggest change I made was 2 years ago when i decided to take up breakdancing. Suddenly it gave me something very challenging to focus on, kind of a "superhobby" as it takes up way more time than regular hobbies. with all the stretching, conditioning, training and research. It gave me a...

Awesome thread just got more awesome :up: I'm gona learn to change me a flat....

I had a similar problem, in Jan I got out of a 9 year LTR (started at age 17) where my ex was on the pill. Didn't use condoms at all, and all of the sudden i had to use them again having never had good sex when using them. I started stressing a bit about it as just like you I wasn't having...

1. Physical chemistry...some people just fit together better 2. Practice...makes perfect 3. Condoms...necessary until you're official with the girl then get her on the pill ASAP. Make sure you both get tested first as well. You could do this with a F buddy but you're taking a big risk as...

Hmm i wonder how many another do0dz with fake girl profiles were sending u teh no0dz :D

Some great advice already dispensed in this thread. It sounds like you've made a big step. Just a thought: Perhaps with her ex, the whole family thing was perceived as a challenge, and that's part of what continues to make him so attractive? Putting something above her needs. Showing beliefs...

Question 1-5 are far too open-ended and require a long response - will take far too long to fill in. Question 6 - how the hell would they know? Not many evolutionary psychologists around. I think the questions are too open, it's going to be really hard to analyse the data. I would make...

I just think you have to play to your strengths. There will always be some women who will not be attracted to you no matter how "alpha" or w/e you are, so don't get too hung up on it. There are plenty more. I read something in a book awhile back. Everyone makes something the measure of them...

Yeah it's funny, they want to know what you've been doing and will pry and pry, but if they hear something they don't like they'll switch on you. Women can be just as self-destructive as men, just in a different way.

I'd go with what your favourite music is and learn to dance to that, at the end of the day it's the music that will keep you inspired to keep learning and practising and enjoying it. It's also the music that will make it impossible not to start moving and expressing yourself when it comes on in...

Yo Serg, your style of writing/gaming reminds me of me! :up: I also hit up the salsa classes and have a lot of success there. They love a dude who can take control. Regarding the Russian girl, you did good in my eyes. The saying "fortune favours the bold" applies here - you weren't shy, you...

This reminds me of a girl who was stringing me along recently. We went on 1 date and i felt it went well. I was keen to see her again but she flaked without trying to rearrange. I texted her a few days later and started up some banter, it went something like this: Girl: Looks like i won...

Err definitely not London :D

Haha i'm in exactly the same position dude, agree about condoms as well, didn't use them for the whole duration of my 9 year LTR and now i'm just hopeless with em :D I said i wouldn't get into another relationship quickly but you gotta go with the flow.

Yes, they just love a bit of drama and to try to keep some kind of contact. Most of all they want to know if they still have any hold on you at all. Just like us they like to think of themselves as irreplacable. Ignore and forget the stupid shop vac. Don't be chump, you're doing well, why do...

Nice list Augustus, rep given. After my LTR finished (not exactly the same as I initiated the breakup but still hurt somewhat) I joined a salsa dance class and let me tell you, great fun and there are loads of single girls there :) it's also very useful to have in your arsenal on a Saturday...

Agree with bradd80. She's had ample opportunity to explore the possibility of getting back together. From here on out every move you make will only push her away (you probably have been doing that anyway without knowing). Move on dude. She had her chance and she blew it. It's time to reset...