When her girl-friend asked you if you like her friend?

[matchstick]

I got asked this question last night on a double date. Her friend asked me if I like her friend and if I want to be her boyfriend :/

How do you guys usually respond to a question like this?

 

[zekko]

You could always use the old "She should ask me herself is she wants to know".
Not sure if that gets you out of trouble though

 

[HariPoter13]

"Yes."


I think that evading the question is stupid because it's defensive in itself. You should speak the truth and be bold about it.

 

[zekko]

"Yes."


I think that evading the question is stupid because it's defensive in itself. You should speak the truth and be bold about it.

It's a valid question though because it is taught here that you should not be the first to directly come out and tell the girl that you like her. Some believe you should never tell her (I agree with the former, but not the latter).

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

"She is a real cool person, and I'm enjoying her company and conversation. Right now I am not looking for any particular relationship but if it happens that we get to know each other better I wouldn't fight the possibility of us being together exclusively."

 

[Gro0ver]

Indifference.

"She seems nice" *Shrug*

 

[Who Dares Win]

^^^ Do as pretty boy suggested.

It happened the same to me once and I failed the situation by replying logically and directly.

I suggest you however to dont p1ss off her friend despite her being a cvnt because feminine sheep mentality keep in high consideration friends opinion.
If her friend keeps hammering in her that you are a loser no matter how much game you have, your success will be at risk.

It could be a good idea instead to reframe and let her friend talk, so you dont get exposed and she will have the impression you give a fvck about her opinion.

 

[SgtSplacker]

"She is a real cool person, and I'm enjoying her company and conversation. Right now I am not looking for any particular relationship but if it happens that we get to know each other better I wouldn't fight the possibility of us being together exclusively."

Nailed it...

You have to figure that she is going to get back to your date with what you said. So if you sound too indifferent it may sound bad/worse later after translation. I would say something like "She's an awesome girl, it's been a while since I have been able to vibe with someone like that."

 

[Night-hawk]

"Are you her little Watson?" "She's cool, I enjoy her...that's all for you for now...ask me again in a week for more clues."