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The dancefloor is my jungle :woo: But if you're not in the mood for going out then don't! If this sort of thing happens regularly (i.e. doing things you don't truly want to do) then you should definitely explore the reasons more. The fact that you're posting makes me think maybe...

Good to know there are other people in the same mindset as me! I really think having a good LTR quite early on in life changes your outlook and expectations somewhat. I thought about taking a break from girls/dating but I don't think I want to go down that route now. It's too interesting...

Why don't you just try it and if you enjoy it then carry on? If you're not passionate about something then you won't be dedicated enough to it anyway. Who cares about looking "alpha", women like a guy who is passionate about something, so anything along the lines of sport/dance/martial arts...

Hey guys, So a bit of history on me: - I was in a great LTR for 9 years, since age 17. We broke up in January 2012, after a lot of back and forth for the final 6 months. In a nutshell i wasn't ready to get married and needed some independence/to see what other girls were like. We were also...

Even shy girls get into relationships if it's what they want. Investigate why it is that she hasn't had one. Then report back :yes:

An interesting and reasonably concise rant as always Backbreaker. Guys need to become better at screening women and judging their character before becoming emotionally entangled, and not be afraid to end it when the red flags start to pile up. Forget what anyone else thinks, earn your own...

My co-workers (3 women around late 20's) were just talking about this book!

If you get into a relationship with a woman then No it's not good to be distrusting. 1) You screen a girl thoroughly before entering into a serious relationship with her. If you spot problems and issues early on and have a bad feeling then seriously consider ending it because having no...

I work for a large international company and they are great believers in the Myers Briggs personality tests to help you understand how you work best and how you can work better with your team. I recently broke up with my gf of 2 months, and I was a bit confused as to how and why I felt the...

INTP?

Great post. I've got a real love/hate relationship with this website at the moment for this very reason. Too many whingers ready to blame the opposite sex for not recognising their greatness. 2 things need to be remembered: 1) You attract what you are according to the laws of...

I don't think it's a case of being "fair", it's just whether you allow yourself to or not. For me I don't feel like I should, even though like everyone I do sometimes. I prefer to try to see the good in people. If you are a confident person then you shouldn't need to look down on people to get...

Hehe so true. Avoid becoming a "yes man" and challenge her beliefs and assumptions once in a awhile. Keep working on yourself and have a life outside her. Surprise her occasionally with nice things when she least expects it (when it's been earned). And give her orgasms.

Very interesting and very true.

Just wanted to say thanks for making me understand something fundamentally important that we should never forget: Self respect is more important then pvssy. I broke if off with my gf this morning, only of 2 months, not a massive deal but I feel like previously I would have let it drag on even...

I'm also an emotionally sensitive type (cancer as well). My mum had a much bigger part in my upbringing then my dad. I would say i'm quite emotionally strong, but that's because I channel negative emotion into physical activity which makes me feel better. If i'm feeling down i'll do a circuit...

No, some women are genuinely decent and would get torn apart by guilt if they cheated. You honestly don't seem to believe you can do better and that's the root of the issue from your side of things. I suggest you work on your self esteem bro because I suspect she's propping it up. Enjoy the...

Great post. You don't need to worry about getting hurt if you know you can bounce back. Sure you might feel some pain, but if you've got the right support mechanisms in place i.e. friends, family, hobbies that challenge you, etc then if you get hurt you have plenty to fall back on and you'll...

I wouldn't jump to any conclusions unless you have good reason to do so, just give her some space, focus on your own life and see what happens when she gets back. Don't overthink it and just use the time to focus on improving you. Perhaps this girl isn't for you if she's not making you feel...

I think first you need to understand why you acted the way you did. - Why did you provoke her? - Why did you then be clingy, were you afraid of losing her/felt guilty? This is a huge nono, probably more than the first thing you did Don't lose your cool with a girl again, it always has...