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Thanks Nismo & Thundernuts. For the first time in awhile when I went out last night I really couldn't give a f*** about women at all, wasn't trying to impress anyone I was just on my own vibe and I got 2 numbers.....go figure :D

Dude, we should swap friends! I go out to bars and end up talking all night, when I'd much rather be at a club busting out moves or sharking for chicks. You can get good at dancing and find your own style if you embrace it, seems like you don't want to though. The real key is to express...

No contact has been initiated. Thanks for the help dudes, I know it was the right thing....I could have easily wasted another year or 2 on that chick. Time to spend that time & energy on improving me. Unplugging from the matrix hurts but it sure is satisfying to take control of your life and...

Very true and i've been eager to find out just that.

I only walk her home once a week. I definitely maintain the frame when i'm with her....the other night I declined going into her house when she invited me in (I would have stayed over, maybe got sex but i have a feeling she would have withheld it for control/revenge). My initial thought was...

Olly Murs, all the time... I just wana, oh baby I just want you to dance with me toniiiight :woo:

So my ex of 2 months that I nexted 2 weeks ago is playing the damsel in distress.....she's throwing the rod out and i'm biting like a hungry fishy. She does genuinely have issues....this is why i broke up with her, couldn't cope with it after just coming out of an LTR, I know it was bad for...

Honestly, don't play double standards. If you wanted to have lunch with a chick you were friends with you would expect the freedom to do it without any BS from her. So don't give her any BS, people are allowed to have friends of the opposite gender. It's lunch not a hotel room. Giving her...

Eugh, kissing hand = sleeze. How about just talking to her and smiling like she's a normal human being.

So true Ezio. You cannot let your emotions rule you when it comes to females or you will eventually find yourself trodden on and kicked to the curb. I was going out with a very nice HB 8+ not long ago, started to get some cr*p from her when we were out with friends and I just ended it...

2 weeks is nothing! I lived with my ex for 3 months after we decided we'd break up! Sex her - Yes, as long as you don't be catchin feelings! None of that cuddling stuff afterwards. Keep yourself busy, and start making changes. Get to the gym more, start planning your new hobbies (you will...

This is deep and I feel the same, although I am in a less developed phase of this mindset than you. My guess is that is comes from that absolute faith in what I call "the product" - i.e. you and your ability to satisfy a woman over the long haul. I have that faith and I guess so do you, and...

Yo SS, I'm making this thread for all the guys including myself who have either been in an LTR or a series of relationships that haven't worked out and are realising that they really need to be alone for awhile. Personally, I'm finding it difficult. I haven't been single for more than a...

Sounds like it's already over dude. You needn't do anything. Are you trying to claw back dignity because you sent her texts that she didn't respond to? Just move on, that's the main thing right now. Forget her and get on with your own life, and if your paths cross again then so be it. Your pride...

Serg, where's the update? :D

I'm really glad to hear you say that this approach works! I need to do this....stay single for awhile....but it's hard because I've been in relationships for so long, there is a void in the form of sex/intimacy/in depth conversations that make me want to look for a relationship. Hearing...

Thanks Serg, I appreciate it dude. I've been trying to come to terms with this for the last week, trying to alter my mindset to get comfy in the single life. Problem is I saw my ex (the very recent one) at my dance class and she text me after and basically goaded me in to calling her. It...

I would likely put it down to timing rather then girls being weird. Maybe she was feeling low and you were exactly what she needed at the time? Just speculation of course, but if you think the dates didn't go great then they probably didn't! But timing plays a big role in all this kind of...

Damn a thought a fvck buddy would be a good solution. Perhaps we need to find our centre as single dudes? :confused: Not an easy pill to swallow.

I know what you're saying but I think being able to please her sexually is a big bonus in the long run (not the shorter term). It's the fact that in a relationship they can't separate emotions from sex like we do so they will feel very close to you especially if you both orgasm at the same time...