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She should have treated you with more respect. Go out and meet some more chicks, forget the same old now you can get an upgrade :woo:

What bothers me (and most ppl who have commented) is the amount of control you've given her and the amount you're invested emotionally, despite the red flags. Does she feel raw attraction to you? You need to find out bud, and she should be willing to screw you to keep you, if she likes you...

Lots of good advice here, particularly this. Judge girls by their actions not words, it will give you a much clearer perspective. Don't be catching feelings for this girl because you will get hurt, keep spinning plates and minimise the time/attention you give her, this will actually...

Agree with this, move on dude. Next time try and kiss her at the end of the first date, if she pulls away then she's not interested and you can avoid wasting time. Girls will never blame you for trying, it's your job as much as it's theirs to look pretty. If I don't kiss a girl on the first...

Great idea Black.Magic. 1. Progress my career to the next level (promotion or another job!) and start enjoying my job more 2. Take the breakdancing to the next level (powermoves, complex/original footwork combos, battling) 3. Continue to become stronger, tougher, leaner and more agile (and...

I was in the same situation as you many years ago, it’s a tough place to be but have faith man! In time things will be alright and you’ve got the perfect remedy in a supportive gf. Now you just need a positive mental attitude! - Relax and don’t worry about it. If you’re with her and things...

Ok. I would start thinking about job plans right away. The reason is that job/career = confidence/money/part of your identity which feeds into many things and affects your future in big ways, more then any female will. Being unemployed or in a job you hate for a long time will not do...

My approach is that with a girl that's lasting more than just a few weeks I don't worry too much about frame and game after she's been hooked over the period of a few weeks. The reason being, if I'm going to continue to be interested in spending my valuable time with her then I don't want to be...

Why are you not considering retaking the final year? Do you not like the subject any more? Sorry to revisit this, I know there's other important stuff to focus on in your life but I see this as a huge waste and something that will impact you short and long-term. It might be an opportunity...

Is this really the truth dude? Did you try your hardest? Because a 3rd class degree is really worth s**t all. Why don't you retake the last year? At least try to get a 2:2, preferably a 2:1. A 3rd class degree is not even worth mentioning on your cv....sorry it's just the truth. You will have...

Dang bruh! Especially the garlic, jesus.

Can't see that anyone is clearly at fault although I'm sure she'd be a lot happier and more energetic if she had hobbies, social life etc. If it were me I'd cook her a meal one night (nice gesture, break from routine), try to put the kids to bed early or get someone to look after them for the...

I understand what you're saying, I feel in a similar way about the topic but people are different. Everyone has self destructive habits, and for people who are falling into temptation then this type of rant isn't actually going to help anyone. It's a bit like shouting at an obese person that...

Either: a) Things aren't as great with the wife as you're saying, or you wouldn't be willing to take such a huge risk or b) You don't consider it a huge risk....in which case....you're stupid, because it is a massive risk for a piece of ass. What about the cost to your self respect...

Yes. Simple as that!

3 girls dated in 7 months is not many at all really, you're not giving yourself much of an opportunity to find a decent woman. It's like in football (or "soccer" if you're a yank) - occasionally a striker will get a dry patch where he's not converting his chances, but as long as you keep...

She'll be back especially if she's into you.

Very solid advice man. You shouldn't take it so personally dude. I know you've known this girl for 2 months but how many dates have you been on? Even if you've got tight game every girl isn't the same, you can't expect them all to fvck you on the 1st/2nd/3rd date, they will often have rules...

I had a hard time with this when i was young because i smoked a lot of weed from age 15 and drunk a lot of alcohol, and as a result when i was with girls i was never sober and couldn't get it up. This turned into a psychological problem similar to whats going on with you. Luckily I found a very...

Firstly, there is nothing wrong with touching her waist. You're on a date and she's showing you interest. As long as you weren't rough with her or anything like that you shouldn't feel like you've done anything wrong. She's within her right to rebuff but this is unusual if the date went as well...