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It certainly does happen but depends on the character of the woman and availability of male who will provide what she needs. Men do it as well sometimes because *shock horror* men have emotional and validation needs too.

Waiting 30mins for her....I would have driven home after 10. She took the piss and you showed your desperation by swallowing it. You should have known she was low interest from this and not even bothered. My advice: kill the desperation and work on an abundance mentality. Demand more respect...

Got to disagree, its completely normal for women and men in relationships to hit the bar/club scene (at 21 as well). It's how she handles it that matters, e.g. does she get completely drunk and not know what she's doing, does she flirt excessively (leading guys on), does she dress/act like a...

Different things work for different people.

I knew who this thread was by before I even saw. This negativity is getting old :down:

Well play it by ear, do what you think is best and learn from the experience. The more important thing here is to have other prospects on the go and not put all your hopes onto one girl.

If she contacts you then be aloof and seem very busy. Keep replies short and see if she suggests meeting up. Btw flakey women suck because you suck. That's not a dig at you that's just the way it is. No interested girl is going to be flakey so work on your game, looks etc and change your...

Yo man, sorry to hear you broke up with your girl. Early Jan is such a common time for couples to break up. It's good that you've gone NC, but in my opinion you need to go a step further and stop being interested in her completely. This is self sabotage mate (the human brain is great at...

This. My advice: don't contact her and see if she contacts you. Assume she's not interested and get on with your life.

How about just saying "sure, see you there". You don't need to do the whole ****y/funny thing all the time, it's good to show a genuine side as well. Sometimes sosuave/PUA crap can get in your head and make you think you need to be an actor all the time to keep women interested. You've...

Nope, seems absurd in this day and age. Mixing genes with someone of another race is supposed to be quite healthy for the gene pool anyway :D

Sup fellow dons, I wanted to make a quick post to promote dancing as a skill that is worth having in your arsenal. I'm primarily talking about freestyle dancing rather than choreographed dancing like you would get in a dance group or see on TV (I've seen a lot of choreo dancers who don't seem...

Sounds like fun :woo: hit the gym before you go out and eat a big steak....get them T levels jacked up :up:

In10se has made his decision, let's see how it plays out. I don't think there is an ideal solution here if he wants to salvage the relationship so really its down to her not to screw it up. At least he accepts the position he has taken and I'm sure if it does go south he will have no problem...

Why let it bother you....life is too short.

Don't beat yourself up about it, it becomes less of an issue as you get older. In high school it's all about looks and popularity but it won't always be this way. Maximize what you have and then forget about it. Life is not about the cards you've been dealt but how you use them. Some poker...

I have to agreed with that, generally speaking. Women can get turned off by a guy who appears to into himself, but of course everyone has different tastes, i'd say if you were slim/toned/athletic looking you'd maybe appeal to the widest audience but they'll always be women who like big guys as...

Good riddance to bad rubbish! Sounds like you got away just in time, I would go to the pub and celebrate :cheer:

The confidence that working out and being fit gives you is more important than the aesthetics of the extra muscle IMO.

Been reading the book The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan & Barbara Pease and it turns out that women are much better at reading body language than men. The authors are also of the opinion that most of the time, how you say something is much more important than what is being said...