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    There needs to be Balance

    One thing that's struck me lately is the need for balance in your life and priorities. Going on sites like sosuave and reading PUA material, while beneficial, can give you a skewed view of life and what's important. A balance is difficult to find, and it's up to each individual to find what...
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    Advice on getting an attached woman

    Dude, being her thing on the side is MUCH better. - You don't have to put up with as much bs as her bf does - The sex is probably better - You can quit anytime you want, no commitment - You can still spin other plates Basically you have oneitus for this girl. Not good man. If you were...
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    why do guys burn to have a girl? but girls dont

    I think people are forgetting that there a fat/ugly chicks who have no options at all, except maybe the nerdy WOW dude who she sees at burger king sometimes. Plus, women judge their options on quality not numbers. They won't feel happy about having 10 options if they do not consider them...
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    Long term relationship advice

    I also recommend reading Rollo's blog http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/ It gives great high-level theory on females, human attraction & relationships. At the moment it sounds like this girl is your "world". Snap out of it. You need a kick in the balls. You can't base your life around a...
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    Any Londoners?

    Yeah why the hell not. I'm 27 y/o and up for hitting some club game in central London. You will find me an excellent wingman in this setting. PM me if interested.
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    What I've learnt from SoSuave in the past year.

    Great post +1 rep! I particularly like the stuff below. Last week I socialised with friends all day, and it was good, but in the evening I just didn't have any social energy left. I removed myself from the situation (at the risk of seeming "anti-social") and went and did some dancing on my...
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    Interesting HB9 / friendship group dilemma

    We talked and I broke it off with her. She said she didn't feel like she was a priority to me and I didn't deny it at all. I said it would be best if we didn't continue because I can't give commitment and the whole issue of her virginity and mutual friends (I am a new member of the group so...
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    Why do guys settle for less?

    Great point, and that's why career and hobbies are really important for us. Striving for greatness and fulfillment in these are ultimately what will make us happy (although we must keep striving). Women are just the icing on the cake, not the cake itself. Maybe all this changes when you have...
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    Interesting HB9 / friendship group dilemma

    Sup all - interesting one here for ya. Me and HB9 met at a festival in east europe through some mutual friends and hooked up. We've been seeing each other for about 2 months, now here's some interesting facts: - She's in her late 20's - She's a virgin - She is not girlfriend material...
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    this is a clear uninterested girl wanting my attention right?

    Jeez dude she is clearly not interested at all, move on. I don't see how she's attention wh0ring, she said "keep in touch", she is just politely rejecting you not trying to AW. On to the next.
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    fancy dress: yes or no?

    Definitely dress up, way more fun. Focus on having fun with your bros not gettin pvss and you will get more pvss AND have more fun :D
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    Living the life you want, Your dreams?

    My mum gave me some good advice lately - she said we spend so much of our lives at work, that we should aim for total passionate engagement in whatever we do. If you can get paid well for it as well then great, but that is secondary to being happy and fulfilled in the majority of hours you spend...
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    So Suave posters problems summed up in one sentence.

    There were decent women once....before the roid monsters came....
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    A New Chapter

    I'm pleased for you mate, welcome back in the game :woo: I broke up with my gf of 9 years in January, the only advice i'd give is be patient with yourself, it takes some time to get used to being single and everything that comes with it. Even though you might not want to, you might find...
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    Getting laid at college isn't as easy as I thought it would be...

    If you're not already, time to start working on yourself. - Hit the gym regularly - Study and do well in your subjects (no brainer + it gives you access to brainy chicks) - Do something to differentiate yourself (e.g. dancing, DJing, sports captain, art, debating, etc etc - aim to be the best...
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    If women like confident men, then why do we get rejected so much?

    I didn't say they ask for commitment, I said men are the gatekeepers, or at least should be if they have Game.
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    If women like confident men, then why do we get rejected so much?

    I always like your judgements Nismo but I have to disagree with the bolded part. Women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers to commitment, generally speaking. If you're a man spinning plates then the women should be working to get you in the relationship, not the other way round...
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    Fathers Bestow Game.

    If everyone knew game then game wouldn't be game anymore. And we would not be able to enjoy the same success we do once we start to incorporate it. If people seek it, they will find. But there's no need for everyone to know it.
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    Hot girl too easy?

    Next time strike while the iron is hot! This is one of the most useful catch phrases i've heard on these forums, second only to self respect is more important then pvssy.
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    Bredren!! Fallen soldier seeking redemption.

    Self improvement starts now and never stops! This is the foundation upon which everything else is built. Welcome :up:
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