There are a couple of important points that haven't been addressed here though:
1) Going for girls that aren't into you
You can't force attraction, the fact is no matter how tight your game is, some women just won't be into you. That's a fact that everyone has to deal with, so don't waste...
Just get the basics right:
- Knowledge of "red pill" theory and game (but also the ability to critique it and understand that it's not all relevent/should be applied)
- Regulate your output to the extent that is comfortable and natural (e.g. ****y/funny, good text game, etc)
- Being physically...
You might feel low right now but you actually have an opportunity here - the opportunity to start putting some of the things you read and learn here into practice. Start valuing yourself and getting with decent girls who won't mess you around like this turd has. Honestly, she sounds like trash...
This is very true. Apparently research has shown women are attracted to guys who are relaxed and spread their weight out. I do this after a few drinks anyway, it shows relaxation and a kind of oneness with the environment. If she is interested she will seek out the protection of it :up:
Dump her coldly and see what she does.
If she begs for forgiveness and does everything she can to get you back then she obviously values you highly. Perhaps something can be salvaged depending on her (unlikely and only if she's worth it).
If she lets you go without putting up a big fight...
I see dudes of all ages there. There's even 70 year old bloke who just ignores the moves and dances how he wants, the ladies love him but obviously not in a sexual way.
I don't see how it's creepy any more then a 40's woman going there which there are plenty of.
Try salsa dance classes....loads of single women there of all ages, very natural to get into conversation with them. Great for sharpening up your game and there may be a few good ones about. Almost always more women then men at those things.
I agree with this and will never compete directly for a female's attention while another dude is trying to, however if I like a girl I will try to get her alone (e.g. smoke a cigarette, get a drink at the bar, etc) so I can game her 1on1 and see what she's like in this situation.
Very good post. I didn't realise it but I think this is the difference between me and a lot of people around me that I see every day. I see a lot of people not very happy or just content, perhaps because they don't value themselves that highly, or they're constantly trying to play by society's...
Why is she worth your attention again? She rejected you for another dude....have some pride and find pvssy elsewhere. You will be faced with these situations occasionally and the more you act in a way that promotes pride and self-respect, the more you'll start to radiate this and become more...
I've said this for awhile now, but the best weapon we have in our arsenal when it comes to dealing with women is not giving a fvck.
Spin plates while she's away. I don't mean cheating, just flirt and socialise, keep your game sharp. It will help you not give a fvck.
This is great advice and what my 9 year LTR came down to....listening to my gut. Now 6 months on I'm having a great time and gaining a sense of fulfillment, and I know it was the right decision just a difficult one.
Is this not just hypergamy in action? I don't see the big deal. This is what a lot of women do.
What happened, happened. It doesn't matter if it's right or not, that's the way it is sometimes.
This is why when a woman is in love with you when you're in a relationship, you need to realsie...
I think that BB has made the mistake of thinking that he is a master and no longer a student. The truth is, we're all students of life, and it's important to realise this because we and the world around us are constantly changing, so we must be constantly learning, absorbing and adapting to get...
No just see what happens. You can see then how she handles herself and how important you are to her.
If you postpone the date you might make her even more sad! :eek:
Profession: Law
Rating: HB7
Her Salary: £60K
How we met: When we were in college
Kids: No
Ever married: No
Lived alone: Yes
Age Difference: 1 year younger
Relationship length: 9 years
Reason for ending: Broke up due to getting together at young age. Didn't want to get married and...
Guys, a couple of things to bear in mind...
1) If a girl tries to get you to break NC to meet up, it might mean that she misses you and wants to get back with you.....or it might mean that she just wants an ego boost i.e. you to say "i miss you so much, you're so great" etc etc. Suss out her...
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