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I went out with this waitress tonight. We're both foreign. She acts like a rebel but deep down she is kind. She said she always touch people even to random customer. The date went quite good imo, I acted like a mysterious bad boy who didn’t care about anything at all (she didn’t even know my name and she liked the mystery), with lots of teasing and making fun out of her at the beginning and middle. IMO She liked it, and she started to use what I said to tease me back near the end.
During the date she told me that she has never seen anyone aggressive like I am, and told me I am the only one to tell her stop bull****ing. (which she really did, eg caught her lying about seeing a movie) She said she like me being aggressive and in control.(and I think she was telling the truth). I asked her why do u like it when I insults her, she jokingly said maybe she is into sadomasochism . She told me stories of guys using lame method trying to hook her up. She also said she likes people’s attention and are an attention whor3, I then made fun of her.
Our last destination was the park. We both had a bottle in our hand and the first part of it went good - I resisted the temptation of touching. However, after some alcohol I lost it a bit. I thought she was ready so I touched her waist for the 1st time, very little resistance on the outside. So I tried again later but the resistance was up, she said don’t touch with a smile. With the effect of alcohol and near darkness in the park, I was not sure and thought she was playing hard to get. So I tried for the last time a while later when we were heading to the station (leaving). I said there is something on her hair, she resisted and accelerated. (I thought oh shxt but luckily I played it cool and didn’t chase her or ask for forgiveness.) She said that I think myself is confident but I am actually arrogant. (I believe she Actually liked the fact that I was teasing and making fun of her before that, but the "no touching thing" turned that 180 degree to come against me) We then went silent. I kept walking with her and I walked to the other side of the road to throw my bottle, she kept walking on her way. I kept walking on the other side of the road and slowly our distance increased dramatically and she vanished in the train station.(we need the same train).
Is the fact that she kept walking a shxt test? Also she hasn’t text and neither did I since then. Man I shouldn’t touch her waist and if i didn't it would leave her wanting it. However I believe that she liked me, but it was the end which screwed me, I played it too quick. Can that killed the attraction right away? If so, anyway to recover?
I went out with this waitress tonight. We're both foreign. She acts like a rebel but deep down she is kind. She said she always touch people even to random customer. The date went quite good imo, I acted like a mysterious bad boy who didn’t care about anything at all (she didn’t even know my name and she liked the mystery), with lots of teasing and making fun out of her at the beginning and middle. IMO She liked it, and she started to use what I said to tease me back near the end.
During the date she told me that she has never seen anyone aggressive like I am, and told me I am the only one to tell her stop bull****ing. (which she really did, eg caught her lying about seeing a movie) She said she like me being aggressive and in control.(and I think she was telling the truth). I asked her why do u like it when I insults her, she jokingly said maybe she is into sadomasochism . She told me stories of guys using lame method trying to hook her up. She also said she likes people’s attention and are an attention whor3, I then made fun of her.
Our last destination was the park. We both had a bottle in our hand and the first part of it went good - I resisted the temptation of touching. However, after some alcohol I lost it a bit. I thought she was ready so I touched her waist for the 1st time, very little resistance on the outside. So I tried again later but the resistance was up, she said don’t touch with a smile. With the effect of alcohol and near darkness in the park, I was not sure and thought she was playing hard to get. So I tried for the last time a while later when we were heading to the station (leaving). I said there is something on her hair, she resisted and accelerated. (I thought oh shxt but luckily I played it cool and didn’t chase her or ask for forgiveness.) She said that I think myself is confident but I am actually arrogant. (I believe she Actually liked the fact that I was teasing and making fun of her before that, but the "no touching thing" turned that 180 degree to come against me) We then went silent. I kept walking with her and I walked to the other side of the road to throw my bottle, she kept walking on her way. I kept walking on the other side of the road and slowly our distance increased dramatically and she vanished in the train station.(we need the same train).
Is the fact that she kept walking a shxt test? Also she hasn’t text and neither did I since then. Man I shouldn’t touch her waist and if i didn't it would leave her wanting it. However I believe that she liked me, but it was the end which screwed me, I played it too quick. Can that killed the attraction right away? If so, anyway to recover?