Looking down on others (for holding superior traits in the dating game)

[ilikecharlene]

If one has a decent job, comes from an upper class lineage, has good prospects, etc. is it fair to look down on other guys for not holding these things?

 

[Gro0ver]

I don't think it's a case of being "fair", it's just whether you allow yourself to or not.

For me I don't feel like I should, even though like everyone I do sometimes. I prefer to try to see the good in people. If you are a confident person then you shouldn't need to look down on people to get kicks and that kind of negative ego build/maintaining is going to be more trouble then in worth.

The difference between confidence and arrogance is that arrogance is impossible to maintain.

 

[MisterD]

I don't look down on anybody. I'm confident in who I am and only focus on my life, not the shortcomings of others or whatever.

I just live my life and treat everyone as my equal.