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I took all your advice and got my butt busy the last few weeks. Asked out 3 different women in addition to the one I was writing endlessly about. I crashed and burned but am ok with it. I have come to realize its not a big deal. That being said all 3 of these women still want to be friendly...

I got this email from her yesterday. What is the point of this. Its like a train wreck you cant stop watching. I cut her off on Friday and have not spoken to her since. I accept she is not interested. But why does she care? Is it the $$ (I am paying $20/session which is nothing and she...

Here is something I have been thinking about for a long time. I read this once - how you feel about a particular event or item is largely determined by how you react to it with your emotions. In other words your reaction/emotions control how you feel. Instead of letting it be that way, why...

A while back a trainer at the gym started flirting with me. My trainer who is a woman said watch out, all she wants is to take you as a client. Anyway it continued and I was thinking about backing off on her. And than she was really cold to me and I just backed off. Than a few weeks later it...

I dont freaking get it, everywhere you go women are texting. What is up with this now? Am I am imagining it or is are women far more addicted to it than men? I think its a major disruption when you try to talk to them as they are paying attention to their cell phones and not the people...

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For the last month or so I have been flirting with a trainer at my gym. Out of the blue last week she started ignoring me. I of course immediately backed off and went back to doing what I do - saying hi and going about my business. No more attention or chatting. Today she made a point to...

A few months ago I met this woman trainer at my gym. I never really paid much attention to her but if I saw her I said hi. I try to avoid getting involved at my gym. About a month ago I noticed she wears this interesting blocky jewelry and I was teasing her about it. Looks like a big blue...

In the last year or so have done some dramatic changes. Lost a ton of weight, got really fit and am very relaxed around women. I got relaxed by just talking to anyone and everyone. I found the best way is to make a comment about just anything and the next thing you know they are talking up a...

That number may be high or not but thats what I am guessing. I took a look at my friends who are all married now. The majority had few to no girlfriends before they got married. All these guys married in their mid to late 30s (some recently). These guy are all very smart and do ok...

First off let me say I have been reading the articles and forums here for a number of years and come to the realization that they are pretty much on the money in regards to women and life in general many times. I am going to openly say I have been AFC/Beta my whole life. It was hard for me...

I have never been good at reading women's body language when they are interested. I either mistake it or ignore it totally. So I always error on the side of assuming they are just being friendly. In the last year I made changes in my life, I joined a new gym, hired a trainer (who is a smoking...

I have been observing for a while a distinct undertone that seems to be getting more prevalent here. That undertone is women hatred, women are garbage, women suck, women are *****s, blah, blah, blah.... Its seems to be getting stronger in the last month or so. I have to say I dont think its a...

I had dated this girl a while back. Went out a bunch of times and than she flaked on me. After she basically disrespected me by blowing off my contact attempts with her I totally cut her off. My contact consisted of a few texts, 1 email, 1 phone call and thats it. No response so I called it...

Without going to a long story I totally cut a woman out of my life a few months ago after she flaked on me. I was having some anxiety about having contact with her as she will be at the holiday party with me this month. Yesterday when I was coming back from lunch late and I turned the corner to...

A few months ago I was dating this woman at work. I got in way to fast. I was in control and doing well until we had a 5 hour make out session and than she turned aloof on me. I unfortunately became AFC again - being too nice, trying to please her, told her I liked her, etc.... After...

I think they are. I have observed behavior where they are basically cutting notches in their headboard of how many men they have been with. They are being far more sexual than the image they portray to the majority of the population. Recently I have seen single women blatantly dogging...

Ever since my debacle last month where I was in total control and than went into AFC and the girl stopped calling me I have been trying to crack my oneitis. Not a very bad case but that spinning plate thing is very true. My coworker last night took to a very nice gentleman's club. A beautiful...

Last week they moved my office in the city last week. Anyway, right after lunch I was talking with one my coworkers and the conversation was very animated (they are Italian as well). I will give you 3 freaking guesses who "just happens" to stroll by my new office. Ready? My ex pal (its been...

I have been doing a bit of introspection lately on my own behavior and relationships. Though I can honestly say I am not perfect but I have come to the grand realization that most but not all women are pathological liars, manipulators and game players. They will literally say and do anything...