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My thoughts are based on observations about the world around me, not necessarily about my own experiences. Do you find something wrong or untrue about the thought process I described (everyone has a minimum level that needs to be satisfied, and after that, other qualities matter much more)? I'd say it's quite universal.
You didn't answer the question.
Neither do you. Looks dont matter as much. How many times we have to repeat that? But I geuss that would destroy your believe system and take away your main excuse to improve, you rather keep trolling the forum talking about how you'll never get a women and how that is a fixed fact that can never change. Than you use race as a argument , shutting down responses cause " you wknt know bc you're not black durr durr ".
I think spinning plates is technically prostitution except I'm not paying much for it. It seems like my bud's theory that all women are prostitutes is holding firm considering my half gfs I even had. With one who joked that she seemed like a prostitute to me since all we did was meet and had sex. Once I am done, I want to go back to doing business and career stuff. Having a woman to **** to get rid of my horniness is a liberating thing, but the fact only few men have access to such a luxury is sad in this day and age. It really does clear the mind. F*ck that whole abstinence bs.
This is more proof that posters like you need to sit back, shut up, and listen to people who do get laid instead of pretending you know everything.
When you make accusations prepare to back them up. Show me any post where I shut anyone down and say "because they are not black". There is virtually no other black poster on here that is incel and are all successful. @EyeBRollin has over 1000 notches, @forcerecon01 is good to go too, and the list goes on. What you DO hear me say is simply ask a simple question, are you a chad? Why is it valid to ask that? Because when someone who says looks doesn't matter who DOESN'T HAVE THE LOOKS, sounds more credible than someone who has the looks, are downplaying them and thinking it's their game or status. That is what you call virtue signaling and hypocrisy. That is not helpful.
Sure, it matters more if you are at the extremes. I purposely selected heights which are near the average to point out that height is almost irrelevant if you are not an outlier. What I wrote about people having a minimum level for a quality directly agrees with your assumption that height may actually matter. Many women have a minimum height criterion for their partner. For some, it may be 5'11', for some it might be 5'4'' depending on their own height as well.
I believe @BackInTheGame78 said multiple times he is average looking . @SW15 also mentions it about himself. And I bet there are many more posters who will confirm that looks only bring you so far. We mentioned posters who do have the stats (6 6 6) but are unable to pull. So you have all the information you need according to your last paragraph.
lol. Also, anyone can dress sharp, not anyone can just BE charismatic. That's like saying "just be good-looking". You're either charismatic, or you aren't. No one is just choosing to NOT be charismatic lols. "Be charismatic" isn't advice. That's like saying being tall or good-looking...you can't just BE things you have no control over.
Listen to the people here who get the laid? The ones here that just spew empty platitudes and project and don't actually give advice beyond "try harder lol"? The same people who just say "derp, race doesn't matter", "being an introvert doesn't matter", "just be confident" "LoOkS dOn'T mAtTeR", etc, when they're not the ones who have to operate with these barriers. You cannot give the same "advice" to everyone, yet that's literally what people try and do here.
But you dont live in Toronto...and neither does those other two postets.
Look. I know other posters here who are in Toronto. One in particular successfully dated in that environment and partly by applying what he learned here? He found a woman & married her there. He’s busy doing life & not around here much any more. He learned what he needed to help him, accomplished his relationship goal and moved on. But he was willing to be proactive and improve himself where he knew it could benefit him to do so.
Yes. That's why you individually , gotta humble yourself amd ask specifically what YOU must do. So you could ask Halon (or who ever you connect with) what might work for YOU. All the things you talk about with a sarcastic voice are just bricks of a large castle you'll build . And they'll need maintenance also.
Your book of excuses might need a part two by now haha. Let's add " I live in a metropolitan city with more then a million people yet I cant connect with ANY woman ".
I've sought advice from numerous channels...people aren't honest and people simply cannot give advice to other people when they lack a frame of reference or enough common ground. Some guy who gets laid all the time bc he's rich or has millions friends, has an unlimited social circle, cannot give advice applicable to me. Some white dude who literally has women do all the work for him, literally cannot give me advice bc he can't even comprehend what it's like to be invisible or unwanted to/by women. Too many people "giving advice" either lack empathy, or they just let women totally off the hook and want to just say it's the dude's fault for being "lAzY" or whatever, not even attempting to understand their perspective or admit to how shallow, and toxic tons of women have become in terms of bloated dating standards and expectations.
It was very difficult when I wasn’t satisfied with my life. It gets much easier if when all the other pieces in my life came together. Never be complacent where you are, always challenge yourself
You don't think you can learn to be more social, charismatic, and approachable? Well, you are dead wrong. Those were not natural skills for me either. I learned them. The thing that holds you (and most black pillers) back is your horrible, defeatist attitude. Which is funny since you have almost no success with women, and want to tell the people who have had success with women how wrong we are.
It doesn't matter how successful someone is, if they give chit advice, they give chit advice. That's part of why so many star athletes make horrible coaches. Just like getting women, too much of it is natural and related to external factors you cannot alter, and they can't relate to someone who doesn't have those privileges or advantages. You could have a pineapple juice and cocaine orgy with a French ballerina team every weekend...if you give chit advice, you give chit advice.
So you gave up? Please confirm you gave up on women, so its easier to understand your POV. @corrector And you are the same poster to me, seems like an alt account from 1 guy anyway.