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Haha I'm a hopeless romantic and I fall in love easily. I enjoy the stability and emotional as well as physical intimacy. But surely doing this with multiple women is anything but beta.

It's different though. I've been "pimping" all my life ;) Polyamory is managing multiple, official, LTRs with an emphasis on openness and consent of everyone involved. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory

Great questions. Some thoughts from me: You don't have to be dominant, just confident. I think "nice guy" has become synonymous with weakness and failure to act. But it's so much more complex than dominant vs weak. Confidence will allow you to hold eye contact, subtly express your...

I've always struggled with the paradox of falling in love with women and have them fall in love back, but at the same time despising monogamy and all it represents. Never been a big fan of one night stands. I like to feel intimate with a girl, I like to be close, tender, talk about hopes and...

This is exactly why I don't get into committed relationships any more. I don't think I've ever managed to be faithful. Seems to me that people mostly get into relationships because the're scared of being single. Like they need that other person to be there to validate them and give them sex...

Broad, sweeping, generalised statements about roughly 50% of the planet. Haing 1, 2 or 5 similar experiences with women doesn't mean all women are like that. Seems to me like a lot of guys have been exposed to some really nasty girls, or they are personally in a place where male/female...

I'm not trying to pretend there's no utilitarian benefit to having these women in my life. Of course it increases my chances of getting laid (not necessarily by them, but through networking). In fact that is the main focus of my original post. But I'm still amused and a little disappointed by...

This is a very important point, and the reason I don't befriend direct rejections. My niceness is offset with being the dominant person, and for the most part emotionally unavailable. I've come back here after a long hiatus and there is a fair amount of misogyny on the board now, compared to...

For the record, yes I respect and empathise with women. I do play the knight sometimes, sure. But I keep everything on my terms and I am always the leader. Women never disrespect me and in fact are usually falling over backwards to please me. But it's all very wholesome and happy. Some of the...

PlayHerMan - showing respect to women and understanding the value of a meaningful relationship, is not at odds with being successful with them. In fact it can mean the opposite (I have girls falling in love with me all the time). Traits like compassion, empathy, and genuinely caring - that you...

I can totally relate to this. I've started to think that I've idealised what I'm looking for to the extent that it might be unattainable because it doesn't actually exist. No matter how amazing a girl first appears to be, if you scratch the surface there will always be something there that...

This is cardboard cutout misogyny. No wonder people are having difficulty developing and sustaining any kind of meaningful relationships. Sure there are women like that (as there are guys), but sweeping generalisations will get you nowhere in life. I got a 27 year old French chick trained up...

It's true that male-female relationships are not the same as same sex ones. I acknowledged that there is usually an element of flirtation (which is good). And I also advise against befriending direct rejections (ie. LJBFs). But to say male-female friendships don't exist is complete crap. I have...

A subject that came up on my earlier thread about threesomes, was that of keeping female friends in your circle, who you are not (currently) having sex with. Looks like some people have no interest in retaining anything other than sexual contact with a female. If they are not currently having...

God now I remember why I stopped coming to this site. I've lost count how many times I've seen sensible discussion is destroyed by petty flame wars. Come on people you can debate and discuss without making insults or taking things personally. Plus, helps to stay on topic!

Well for a start women are people too ;) no reason why they can't make as good a friend as a guy, or better. In any case there's more than just sex that a girl can offer. She can give you a lot of help and support in your pickup, either through social proof or by introducing you to other...

For those asking for details I did post this: The purpose of this post was to discuss the background that made it possible, not tell a porn story :crackup: Yes I did have sex with them both (though you'll see from above I was a bit drunk and wasn't at my best), there was oral between all...

Maybe next time I'll take a picture :rolleyes:

Colossus - On the mechanics, we were all pretty drunk. It wasn't really very structured. One of the girls is a bit shy shy and pretty much did what we told her to. The other girl is more confident about what she wants (it wasn't her first 3 some) so to be honest she was more in control than me...

Hey guys, It's a while since I posted on here but some may remember me. I've been fairly successful and have tried to share some of what I know. But the one thing that always eluded me was the holy grail 2 girl threesome. I've been trying for about 15 years. And now it has finally...