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*** However, I will eventually have to go because of a lot of mutual friends involved... She will not expect me to put her off. I consider it a small moral victory!! *** Don't try and pull that game on us. We know better. You don't HAVE TO go. You don't have to do anything...

If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship. 100%

The same thing happened to me. 4.5 yrs. living together - the whole thing. She wanted "space" and things were not working out. Fair enough. listen when I tell you this.... She needs emotional support right now. And she is USING you in that endeavor. Read that again. She will tell...

I disagree... The moral of the story is.... Be the guy who's good on paper - but act like the guy who doesn't have a checking account.... Why does she fvck that guy? Because he gets her wet. Because he's dangerous and spontaneous. be the DJ and get it all. Always hold...

So your not into sex? How about bowling? Mini Golf? Cooking at home? museums? hiking? Biking? Sauna? Jacuzzi's? shooting pool? checking out downtown? Pretend (or real) house hunting? There are a billiob things out there. Use your imagination. Bang her as often as possible. On phone...

Let's get down to the brass tacks here: How do you ever think you are going to make HER happy, when you can't make YOURSELF happy? You are living your life through her (hense the jealousy) - your not living YOUR life - your getting your self worth off of her. What does that show? you have...

The only problem here is you. You are making far to much of this issue. Confidence my friend. Don't shy down from this - this si a great set-up. If your F-buddy gave your # to her friend - that sounds like she's on board with things. Don't second guess it (I know it's to good to be...

Say this: "Do you want me to go get his number for you?" and if her reply is yes - go do it. don't be sarcastic - or have an attitude. Be real. If you act like she means sh#t to you - and you couldn't care less, it will drive her crazy. And if she comments on it you say...

A Men. I know your not done with her. Because if you were, you wouldn't feel the need to NEXT her - you would just move on. This is not finished. And it will not be finished until you grow some back bone.

Is this an email from her to an ex?

I have to agree. You are way to insecure to be in a relationship. What the hell were you thinking when you checked her phone? Do you have no guilt? no idea of what is morally right or wrong? You need to let this chick go, because your not able to handle it. Move on.

Smells to me. It's excuse after excuse with this girl. Want's to take it slow because of past relationships, scared of getting pregenant (that's what contraceptives are for) etc. etc. Let me say this - if a woman is into you - her past relationships do not matter. Red flags galore.

Tough - good luck with everything. I believe when dealing with this girl - forget (if you can) that you are ill. Don;'t let that change the way you interact with her. Don't let the conversation revolve around you, your illness and what is happening to you. Still, follow all of the rules of...

*** after about an hour she told me that she really wanted to screw me and complimented me about my looks,subsequencialy she and her friends went upstairs after about half an hour i went up to see what was going on and there was her 2 friends doing her hair and make up, ovviously i thought for...

You've got to go and DJ other girls. She's obviously not completely open/interested in you. She also doesn't like sex....??? but she can get off by hand on oral... Sounds a little weird to me. Perhaps the thought that your moving on will spur her into stepping up to the plate. But...

I'm 5'8" - not super short - but I'm shorter than almost all of my friends.... like you most are in the 6' range... in my younger days I used to have issues with my height - and hardly dated any chick's. Now, my last 2 chicks i've been with (4.5 yrs and 1 yrs upto now) have been hotter...

Your not in love with her. Get a grip. Your in love with the FANTASY of her. She's someone you can't have. All of these things create a fantasy in your mind. The only way to get through this is forcing yourself not to think those thoughts. Force them out of your mind when you think...

yeah - good points. I'm staying. I could have taken my current chickie with me... and perhaps that is what I will do in the future...

Ski trip coming up. My friend who married my ex's best friend is havign a ski trip for his birthday. They are renting a log cabin - and the plan is to all go there and stay for the weekend. Now my ex and her finance will be there. So I have been invited.... and also my group of...

If your an a##hole and your 6'5" - your still an A-hole.