My girl is messing with me again man

[Blackstar]

Well yes it seems like she really wants to get cut off, her is what happened now.

Today i went thru her phone and whatnot and a a name by "Q" was on her phone. Now that name has been there since way back and i asked her back then she told me that it was a girl called "Quandra".
Today something told me inside me to call the number so i did and for my surprise it wasnt no girl picking up but a man. His name is Cortney or Quortney however u spell it.

Now i confronted her about it and she said that thats Quandra's brother here is what she texted me"

Text number 1 : " Man thats her brother, she gave him her phone cause she change hers and i didnt know, i have not spoken to her in a while ok.

Text number 2: " So i cant have any girl that i knew before number, if u dont believe me its on u and am not cheating on u, never have never will ok your dik is the only one"


1 Its quite a coincidence that the "brothers" name starts with Q too

2 she said she gave her brother her phone and she didnt know, well how does she know that she gave him her phone! Obviously she did know!

3 If so why in the hell would she keep a number that aint even hers nomore and she knows it

4 if she knows that , that is not her phone no more obviously she or the "brother" told her that, why didnt he/she give her the new number, since obviously when she called she was interested in talking to her. (If all this is true)


Guys what should i do here really, i am willing to dump her, she even sounds like she could careless.

 

[Wyldfire]

You're too insecure and jealous to be in a relationship. Work on those issues and resolve them or you're just going to end up getting dumped.

First...checking cell phone numbers like that is not only out of line and inherently wrong, but people don't typically remove numbers from their cell phone "phone book", even if they don't use the number anymore.

You showed weakness and just gave your girlfriend all the power and control in the relationship. Good show...

 

[Kaine]

I've followed your posts about this same girl of yours and this latest one proves one thing

You sir... are an idiot

On the plus side it's an entertaining drama, please keep it up

 

[Blackstar]

tx yall,

To be honest with yall, that made me feel way better, no lie, atleast i know that its me and that its all in my mind and that she aint playing me.

tx yall. its a good feeling.


(i guess now ima reschedule that luch to ihop for tomorrow )

 

[Sato21m]

Originally posted by Kaine
I've followed your posts about this same girl of yours and this latest one proves one thing

You sir... are an idiot

On the plus side it's an entertaining drama, please keep it up

heehehehhe
the same **** over and over and over we tell him to dump her and thats what he has in mind right now later on he will say we are wrong he wont dump her just because of a Q in her cell dude you need to grow some "cojones" and be a ****ing man.

 

[Blackstar]

^^^^ here we go,

Thats the exact reason why at one minute im aiming to do one thing and at another someperson like him jumps in saying the reverse.

I thougt that what i thought here was wrong, that im too insecure and jealous wich i am, and thats the problem.

Now hes jumping in saying dump her.


So far only the first 2 posts make sense to me, u cant just jump in and say dump her without even saying why

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Blackstar
^^^^ here we go,

Thats the exact reason why at one minute im aiming to do one thing and at another someperson like him jumps in saying the reverse.

I thougt that what i thought here was wrong, that im too insecure and jealous wich i am, and thats the problem.

Now hes jumping in saying dump her.


So far only the first 2 posts make sense to me, u cant just jump in and say dump her without even saying why

He's probably insecure and jealous, too.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Blackstar
^^^^ here we go,

Thats the exact reason why at one minute im aiming to do one thing and at another someperson like him jumps in saying the reverse.

I thougt that what i thought here was wrong, that im too insecure and jealous wich i am, and thats the problem.

Now hes jumping in saying dump her.


So far only the first 2 posts make sense to me, u cant just jump in and say dump her without even saying why

Simple. The way you're acting like a total insecure and jealous KID, she'll dump you soon. Might as well get it over with quickly. I honestly can't see this relationship going well with you whining about a number on her cell phone. Not only is this an outrageous and unjust breach of privacy, it shows you have no feeling of self-worth and confidence in yourself to keep her happy.

 

[Fenderules]

So far only the first 2 posts make sense to me, u cant just jump in and say dump her without even saying why



by Blackstar



The problem is i remeber you other posts you mentioned. F*CK man! wut the hell is going on??????????? you keep blabbing about it and do nothing. Some of the things you mentioned sounded like she was cheating and yet you reapeat. She is in control of the relationship and you handed it 2 her. I suggest you do 2 things right now:



if your are 2 insecure, break it off with her b4 you get dumped cause it WILL happen. Jelousey=unconfident=unattractive

and if you break it off........that is the freak'n reason and tell her. Tell that your need to grow up. If you dont tell her......She will certainly cheat on you and tell you to grow up.



the other options is a leap of faith......give up and regain control by not acting like such a dip****. Stop bugging her about it and act like A MAN. if she gets worse and ignores you (so long as your not calling her 10 freak'n times a day!) then TALK to her. ask her what is wrong. It might be something she is afraid to tell you and your jumping all over her ass because of it. The more you jump the more afraid she is 2 tell you.





SO WILL YOU F*CKING GROW UP ALEADY!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND STOP POSTING THE SAME CRAP OVER AGAIN UNLESS YOU DO SOMETHING. YOU KNOW THE FREAK'N ANSWER.

 

[NewMan]

I have to agree.

You are way to insecure to be in a relationship.

What the hell were you thinking when you checked her phone?

Do you have no guilt? no idea of what is morally right or wrong?

You need to let this chick go, because your not able to handle it.

Move on.