I love my mates Girlfriend!!!!!

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I have loved my mates gf for a long long time but i dont wanna take her away from him. she is a lovely girl who i cant keep my eyes off, she is the one for me but the problem is she is my mates gf. I just can't stop thinking bout her it runs through my mind over and over again. HELP!!!!
 
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shes not the 1, get a grip will ya. Go and meet loads of grls to get rid of that nasty oneits!
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
shes not the 1, get a grip will ya. Go and meet loads of grls to get rid of that nasty oneits!
agreed. obviously you should not take her away, so just find another chick.
 

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Originally posted by Will900
I have loved my mates gf for a long long time but i dont wanna take her away from him. she is a lovely girl who i cant keep my eyes off, she is the one for me but the problem is she is my mates gf. WHAT SHALL I DO HELP!!!!!!
Going after a friends GF is a NONO! No excuse! There are millions of girls out there. Go after them.
If she is flirting with you, she is a slut
If she is not into you, she will tell your friend you hit on her. You lose.
If you win, you lose a friend.
No more discussion!
 

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Dont even think about it!

will900.... u shoulnd teven be asking this question... Do whatever u need to do to get over this girl, meet as many other girls as u can, but dont EVER consider taking her away from ur bf..... put urself in his position... if u loved a girl and ur best friend took her away, how would YOU feel? :rolleyes: Just meet alot of other girls untill you meet one that u "click" with and that way u will get over ur friends gf.

Laterz... ;)
 

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Will. Three words:

Bros before hoes.
 

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NO WAY

dont even go around these two anymore. the last thing i want is one of my (so called) best friends drooling over taking my girl.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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do NOT be concerned about what is NOT yours.

if you want girls in your life then go out and find SINGLE girls. those are your targets.
 

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I've seen situations like these happen, a switch of boyfriends.

For instance, one of my buddies had a GF of 1 year, and started to like her girl best friend at some point. He eventually switched between them, it was pretty ****ed up then, but now when you see them (and they are together for 2 years) it was such a normal situation, even the other girl is friend's with both now.

The thing is, you cant do it, only the girl can tell herself if she needs a change.
 

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Dude, going after your mates women is a No No. Your mates are alot rarer than decent looking women. Forget abt her, and move on. Even if she did break up with him, there'd be a very unlikely chance that your mate would be ok with you shagging her.

Go out and get laid off a HB8-9. It'll make you feel better. Believe me I'm familiar with the problem.
 

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dont ruin a relationship with your friends over a girl. I bet she will have good looking friends tho good looking girls usualy do ask her to introduce you.
 

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Originally posted by Will900
I have loved my mates gf for a long long time but i dont wanna take her away from him. she is a lovely girl who i cant keep my eyes off, she is the one for me but the problem is she is my mates gf. WHAT SHALL I DO HELP!!!!!!
How many girlfriend you got?

yes you do need help. Why you don't have many other women to choose from? Are you that pathetic that you have to be fixed on your mates girl. Why can't you get yourself a better girl?

Have some respect for your friend and yourself.

You need to get yourself some girlfriends. You also need to stop siting on yourass watching other people take what they want from life.

A man should blaze his own path through life. When he does this he will have his own women.
 

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Your not in love with her. Get a grip.

Your in love with the FANTASY of her.

She's someone you can't have.

All of these things create a fantasy in your mind.

The only way to get through this is forcing yourself not to think those thoughts. Force them out of your mind when you think of them.

Get a grip.
 

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Originally posted by NewMan
The only way to get through this is forcing yourself not to think those thoughts. Force them out of your mind when you think of them.
Er.. this is very logical and easy to say, but do you know how difficult it is for a rational mind to win over irrational? As long as you have a one in a million chance, you've got hope, if there is no hope you pretend it is and just dream. That is, if the chick caused a bad case of oneitis.. A better way out of this is another chick + telling yourself constantly that she wasn't as good as you imagined.
 
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