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This was a very insightful thread, I'm glad this was brought back up and is definitely eye opening. There are lots that I would like to quote, but rather I'd like to highlight some concepts that stuck with me the most: 1. AFC mentality makes it very hard to NEXT even when we know that it is...

I think that's a great mindset and I'm right there with you. I know it sucks man...learn from this...at least you don't have children between you. The next one will be more attracted to you because you'll have learned from some of your mistakes... And another thing I think ought to be said...

Having been a traditional NICE GUY my life I can say that truthfully, I'm not a b!tch -- I stand up for myself, I've been confronted and do confront -- I try to work to defend my path in life, pursue my path, and push the BS aside. But there is a side to me that is accommodating to other people...

Ah brother, your emotions are involved she is not going to be a good relationship for you -- she is bat fvcking nuts and is taking his economic support and using your emotional support to slap two men into the needs she would ideally like from one man. This woman is not the prize you deem her...

I myself am most interested in successful LTR techniques...I think this would be a good addition to the forum for certain... I think most people want a long-term healthy relationship. The problem is, they get down that road and it becomes unhealthy, results in hurt feelings, bitterness, all...

The hard part is because you have all of these memories and ideas and HAPPY moments and all sorts in your mind and it seems we should be able to focus on those things and go back to them -- but the reality is if certain problems which led to the breakdown of your relationship cannot be fixed...

Squirrels man, this was my exact conundrum last December when I left this forum for awhile. It was penetrating my mind and skewing my perception and the "natural flow" for me in my relation to female-interaction. I entered into an LTR that month which is now dead, and I can say some of my...

What he's saying is you probably can't bring your relationship back -- if that's what your trying to do you will cause yourself confusion and it probably will not work. No contact is saying this person is GONE from your life -- MAYBE you will contact her in the future, BRIEFLY..but you have to...

I think some of the statements in this thread are a little extreme...but here's a question for you: WHY do nice guys act the way they do? Is it really insecurity? I wonder to myself, WHY I have such trouble being an *******. There isn't much of an easy answer. WHY do I have such trouble being...

This is gold. My past experiences confirm these ideas.

I COMPLETELY agree with this!

There is no doubt that frustrations and failures are what brings people here -- the desire to "find out" or "figure it out". I think everyone is crazy in some way or another of their own -- what is normal really, I'd like to know. I'd say most women are irrational to begin with, certain DJ...

I think this is pretty spot on...lots of couples definitely build a facade in front of others including their children. I also definitely agree about women wanting marriage out of attention -- I was recently at one, and the bride (IMHO a bi.tch) was screaming at people to "come and watch her...

lol, I love this thread. IDK man, I had an interaction with a 42y/o who DEFINITELY wanted BF/GF situation..she wanted me to move towards her! It was distance and we were never intimate, but there are definitely older women who want younger dudes... I'd say a few things: (1) be careful, because...

Look; you can maybe "fake it" to get laid -- but you are CORRECT, if you are just pulling cheesy-pickup lines out of your ass and trying suave tactics, you will not find a meaningful relationship -- because your inner core will still be hallow. The truth, what I learned recently from a LTR, is...

I agree, one of the best things I've done is get rid of my social networks...my social networks are called REALITY and they include REAL LIFE interaction...this forum is about as digitally-social I get these days...I've found removing myself from things like facebook, etc, has helped my social...

Very interesting read Rollo.

Good luck man -- I know from having taken breaks it can be a good thing -- but don't distance yourselves from some of the principles you've learned here too much! It can be a slow and gradual process of slipping!

The reason is because she despises you; breakups honestly suck big-time in a lot of ways -- there can be a lot of hurt feelings. She's being mean to you because this is her way of getting revenge, or simply just venting out her distaste for you. She's just pissed and views you as the enemy...

I agree with you guys -- I really do. You might be right, I might have a bit of a sissy attitude with women -- man I can sleep in the woods in complete darkness and isolation, but have trouble walking away from b.tchy cvnts... You guys are correct. I can't defend my ego here. I have to...