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Sounds like a crazy b!tch; why not give her your mailing address and see if she follows through? She could just never get around to it...sounds like a mind_fvcker though.... Here's what you do, CALL her rather than text... Say: 1. Our family has spoken -- we are willing to meet the ransom --...

Well for christ sakes let's be honest here -- women can drive lots of men to insanity. You are dealing with biologically deeply laced things here. Sexuality. Attraction. Vagina + Penis = Baby. That's how we all got here -- that undercurrent overwhelming drive beneath our McDonald's signs and...

I agree with Squirrels. I do not think your concerns are unjustified OP. Threesomes have shown to be unhealthy on a relationship if coming from the perspective of it being a serious one or potential LTR. I have not had a threesome and believe I'd be open to it maybe with a few chicks I barely...

Ah Serialized you are not alone -- lots of us here have wanted that "one sweet girl" -- I don't know what to tell you man but life is complex and a lot of our preconceived ideas about things are garbage...I guess it's a natural flow being raised in America, the King of Preconceived Ideas...we're...

To the OP -- IDK man, maybe your tactics bring out a certain type of woman (as theorized in other threads on this board). OR -- maybe all women are just psych0 b!tches and you get to a point where you learn to deal with it or not. It takes some people a LIFETIME to find a partner they "truly"...

Recent experience = not a fan of past-stripper attention wh0re mindset. Who is there really out there that you need acceptance from other than yourself? Who cares what other people think...at the end of the day if your self-worth is built on other people's perceptions of you...you are going to...

The pvssy is a drug to itself...and sometimes we'll act in ways we wouldn't have expected... Stay strong man, don't relapse to this chick. Learn your lesson. Either be #1, if you're #2, then be the c0ck-supplement but keep your emotions unattached (I'm not sure if that is even psychologically...

Well it is especially hard because you as self-improve, not all others around you do (groups of friends, etc). It can sometimes be hard to maintain a common ground with those who are not excelling in the same ways -- but after going through many phases in my own life, from the bottom of the...

YES! ^^THIS^^ was my point the whole time. Feelings of "oneitis", IMO, likely have a strong neurochemical basis -- and this might vary based upon the individual. RE: INTROSPECTION/EXAMINATION: I'm not trying to flame people, but in dear god's name how could you all be a part of this forum --...

I understand the OP's point: Women Themselves can be Consuming...you're doing fine, next thing you know you're sucked into a whirlwind and spit out the other end empty wallet and broken hearted... I'm really under the new assumption women are merely another type of drug or intoxication --...

Guys, I don't agree with all of these responses -- there is value in "understanding" things. Why spend any more time on science, all of this fact-gathering-garbage that keeps me from ACTION! Look, if we "looked into" half of the things we do in our world before we acted, we'd probably have a...

No, I'm not saying "oh well it's all genes let's give up"...you are misunderstanding my point DieHard. I'm hypothesizing that a person's disposition towards relationship may have something to do with neurochemical production and biology. Everyone to some degree or another has a "chemically...

How does a person truly internalize some of the lessons here? I'm not talking about reading and re-reading; I'm talking about lessons so deeply engrained in the psyche that they are reactionary ... like walking ... like gasping for breath when it is held too long ... How does a person make...

Lol guys thanks for the encouragement -- I enjoyed having dinner with her and will do again soon sometime. My mind is still a little fvcked from my past LTR and last night I had a moment of AFC-relapse for my ex (after leaving this other chick's place)...but I'm back to myself again...I just...

KEN -- WALK AWAY MAN! Please GOD you may go through some withdrawl and slight relapse but WALK AWAY. Do Not Allow Yourself To Care About This Girl. You Are Being Used! ^^do you get it yet??^^

Congrats man, how long have you both been dating?

Nutz man, would you give me a constructive example of how a beta wuss might jump across that line as you may say? Why do so many of us nice guys inch forwards barely able to do so until our social conditioning pulls us back? Is there a way to be Alpha without being a Jerk-@ss? I do agree with...

So I sat here this evening and was thinking about a great deal of things... This may go against the grain entirely; and I could even be entirely wrong -- but if you said she wants to get back together with you and the whole point of you posting was how to turn the tables to get back with her...

I've posted about a recent ended LTR, I've gotten a lot of AFC-criticism -- which truthfully, I do not take as flames because I desire IMPROVEMENT -- I've got to look at what's wrong to find out what to do to be RIGHT (am I right here, eh?) I had moved back to the midwest about 4 months ago...

I agree with this Rollo. Look man -- I am here to LEARN. I know I am not an expert -- I know I have much self-improvement. I am not taking this as a flame because clearly I SUFFER due to my LACK OF UNDERSTANDING. I DID sacrifice a better place, because I was so fvcking in love which was a BS...