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There may be some truth in this: but how do others feel about this perspective? I'm curious to hear before I respond.

Time to refresh and revamp! 3-a-day, (three approach attempts a day...even if just for conversation!) I really stand by this!

Zekko, you've been speaking to my soul man...my common sense was entirely lacking...I entirely admit it...so many red flags; and this makes me question myself and my own judgement (and I suppose it ought to...I could have risked some serious bumps to my future if children had resulted, etc...

Jesus man, get off the ritalin for god's sake. ALSO -- stop beating yourself up so much. It is not easy! Keep approaching! Keep challenging yourself! If you are into christian stuff, go join a group that is into that and meet other christian girls there -- it sounds like if she doesn't jive...

You can always find a new place to swim...OR...just GO ON doing your thing like the conversation never happened. Give a nod, swim, get your **** done, get out of there. Or even just go when she's not working.

yomiso -- What are you doing man? Do you HONESTLY think that sort of bitterness is going to help you IMPROVE AND HEAL? LET HER GO. STOP DOING THIS TO YOURSELF. Do you understand? JUST STOP. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE and do not include her. You will torment yourself and YOU are falling into evil...

Just ask her about it -- I think that's a little intense -- look at the generation of those in their 20's -- raised on cell phones and nintendos and all of this digital sh*t -- her behavior, was, as a young person, pretty normal -- but it definitely was a sign of her disengaging the...

Sounds like she was being an azzhole -- IDK, boyfriend theory could be correct too. If either is true, stay away man, she won't help your life.

Zekko you are completely right on in this thread. Look, this website might help you BETTER ATTRACT a woman, maybe even bed women, but when you get into a RELATIONSHIP a lot of things change. I definitely agree that the principles on this site -- do not be needy, focus on your own growth, do not...

Coltrane -- YES MAN! I am glad to hear that you are taking control of your life and not letting some dumb b.tch **** up your self-esteem and your entire path. This is YOUR LIFE and you only have YOURSELF. This is going to be the beginning of a big change -- you are going to need to set...

You are right, and I do agree. I was blinded by love man, I don't know how else to describe it...I was under the influence of oneitis and we-can-be-togethers and all sorts of drug-like-induced perceptions...I cared about her...and I did genuinely feel she got "shafted" so to speak, by her...

What are you doing DIRECTLY that is getting you friendzoned? What are your deeper underlying issues? This place can help you better understand your mistakes to improve for next time...but there are no therapists here...maybe it would be worth taking your deeper issues, that perhaps extend...

My financial position was lacking because I'd moved to an area with a low economic status and not much for opportunity (especially in my field) -- albeit, I decided to change frames from my focus on environmental-based work (which truly is difficult to get a real income that can really sustain...

These are good words and I appreciate them. This is why I am trying to get back out to Seattle...so many mountains to climb...here in the midwest I can get to the top of a corn silo but that's about the highest vantage point (no disrespect truly to midwest, has its own form of beauty and good...

You did the right thing and that was not easy. If you don't care about her the same way, you did the right thing letting her go. She will be in a lot of pain, likely. Squirrels, you have enough skills and knowledge to find a woman you truly LIKE and ENJOY and WANT, who wants you in the same...

Guys, my ego and my mind is in a bit of torment right now having recently lost my relationship. I know from the information I gave in other threads I definitely made some mistakes. I'm wondering what I can do to feel better about the whole thing and keep moving forwards. I know that...

Alex -- I would say that a lot of these tips of seduction will help you get laid or help build attraction from a female. (Which many of us can get tired at failing time and time again). I have recently learned LTR's are an entirely different ballgame -- and at some point it is going to boil...

I know, I know...I definitely still miss her...this may change. I am at a point where I want to get back to Seattle. I've got to fix my financial situation number 1. Number 2, start spinning some more plates. Number 3, exercise exercise exercise.

Question for you: Has being part of this community improved your relationships with women and given you better results in your life? If yes or no, please explain.

IDK man, it's her birthday -- if she really really wants flowers and treats you well -- get her some flowers. You don't have to spoil her and do this all of the time -- but something that simple might get you a long way.