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Alright, my first few posts here were a result of scattered mind. Perspectives are valued, and please don't flame. I know there are haters but I'm genuinely looking for constructive and down to earth advice. I fear I am losing my frame and have slipped into beta-ness. I need a boost to rekindle...

Question -- What is so bad about feeling warmth from someone? Some people want healthy relationships and are seeking mates that can potentially provide them with this. What you may be entering into could bring good things into your life. At some point if you want an LTR playing her is not going...

My real question is, can some of you in healthy LTR's shed light on some healthy habits, mindsets, frameworks, ect to breed success and strength in that relationship? My game has been slipping and I need to pick up my ass and tie up these loose strings. Slacking isn't the way to have good women.

It's been about 5 real months since I've been here. I was honestly growing tired of some of the attitudes on this forum -- but I want to say that some of the things here do ring true. This I have learned in the last 5 months. There are definitely good women out there -- and there is a balance --...

I can tell you from experience that texting can definitely run dry and become a real problem after awhile -- but it can be a positive thing too -- it just takes a certain level of moderation to be expressed amidst the whole thing and I'm not sure it's super simple -- but yes real conversation...

Thanks Slick for micro-critiquing every single line. You really think there haven't been good relationships in the THOUSANDS OF YEARS OF HUMAN EXISTENCE before sosuave? You really plan on being on this forum the next 30 years to ensure your relationship success? You've got be kidding me man...

I appreciate this response and the others -- thanks for taking the time to contribute your perspectives.

This was a great reply. I agree with what you are saying. I really do.

Well not all people here believe that love is real, nor do they believe that relationships can be healthy and happy...lots of people here have been so scorned by women they themselves are a fountainhead of negative momentum...there are valid points...people need a place to express...need...

I don't expect my musings to be some profound earth-shattering thing. I don't claim for them to be the first nor the last. There are no Golden Chalices in life for anything. There is no enlightenment. SoSuave is an Arrow if anything. Don't let it become the Idol of Worship. I disagree...

LB -- I am not religious, I definitely do not believe enlightenment is a real place! I understand what you are saying -- time and diligence and continued effort is the only way try to get better -- and even then, some may not. I agree that we choose what we focus on -- I could learn to focus...

What is a person supposed to think every time they login to a place [to seek to improve], and instead find countless more examples of people contributing wonton shallow advice and more horror stories. I can't help but get pissed. I definitely agree that practice is the hardest part. Putting...

You are the last person I would listen to for advice on anything. Enjoy your eurosluts and penis-residue.

If women were as predictable and "knowable" as you high-posting-high-green-karma-holders tout, why the f*ck do so many of you spend HOURS trawling this forum for any bit of juicy info towards anything? Surely, the scientist reads his periodicals, but so too he does not use the beaker to lean...

I don't think there is any secret formula for most things -- just don't let fear hold you back and if you want to feel her, than try it.

I'll tell you toking a bit of the ganja for me has helped me not desire much to drink nor have many cigarettes. And yes it does effect short-term memory, it is an intoxication, but let's be honest it's a thousand times less worse than booze and cigarettes.

Man why are you having an argument like this via text? Why didn't you just call her??

Don't go back into this one. I had a girl breakup with me after 2 years, 1 of which living together, via phone, and the next time I saw her she was "reeling" another guy in to dance at a local concert, making out and grabbing him in front of me, walking hand in hand with the dude [and this dude...

Technically I don't think anyone flaked, I think plans just haven't meshed yet, you say here: "Told her i already had plans and to meet up some other time then." Then her thing ran late. Don't get upset over it. Does sound like she wants to meet, give a bit more time, if she blows you off after...

Well for myself, who only has a few tattoos, it has been a result of some determined statement of personal growth. (ie, each of my images means something to me that I carry as a reminder). Being committed to something is an attractive asset. For others it may be strictly vanity. Definitely...