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Don't beat yourself up about it man. And in regards to your dress -- don't underestimate yourself or overtly discredit yourself because of some drab attire. It's ironic that some hottie will be interested in you when you're hung-over @ss has crawled out of bed vs. struggling at some social...

Was a great show guys enjoyed the advice and discussion! Appreciate both of your guys time and effort in putting this together for others to learn from. Definitely interested in participating in another event in the future! Would be great to have more people participate with cams!

Man I went through a phase of my life where I was all about this stuff...look, this new-age stuff isn't magic -- and it can't bring you everything you want. You can watch the movie, "The Secret" a thousand times, or watch the movie, "What The Bleep Do We Know" and submerge yourself in quantum...

Don't you think being here is a form of asking for help? Are we calling you pvssies? Does a pvssy look for a solution to their problem, or keep griping? Clearly you are looking for a solution...ask them for help man maybe you can chill with em and they'll introduce you to some ladies...or their...

Butterfly-- Few questions: 1. What did she do with your friends and what did the text messages he showed you say? 2. You weren't dating her/in a relationship with her at all? 3. How did you respond to her? 4. Has she shown explicit interest in you also? Give us some more info -- jealousy...

I would say it's definitely hard-wired. Truth be told, whether a woman is 14 or 77, an HB9 or an HB2 -- some of the very same principles apply. You can be a wuss-ball to a woman of any age, if your AFC wreaks enough. Or, you can be the type women (and men) of all ages admire and look up to...

Just take it a day at a time man. Stay positive. Sh!t will get better with time. I don't think you have to abandon the positive memories. There is a reason you chose to be into her and spend time with her. There is a reason things didn't work out. You don't have to struggle with all of your...

Ah man I know I've been there...bars can really be depressing sometimes, a lot of people are there scoping one another and the vultures looking to make feast of their prey...I understand where you are coming from. It definitely sounds like you were having a case of the blues, or perhaps some...

Pipe -- my most recent relationship mirrors a lot of what you are going through -- the hot then cold and the postponement of conflict resolution. You can sit there and look at all the things you did wrong but it is a two way street -- this was her first serious relationship and she made mistakes...

Really great post. I've never suggested in this thread that the OP stop loving or caring about his wife -- I do believe in caring about someone (not in a way that debases yourself) -- but let's also be honest, it doesn't take too much AFC behavior that women just drop out and their vaginas go...

Lol man, this was a good post right here. Look **** fvcking happens -- I think she honestly liked you -- even despite you going off about how you could get another lover easily -- in the dialogue it seems to me she was really saying, "if we're going to fvck, lets be bf/gf because I'm not into...

This thread was enlightening -- countless bits of gold. I can't agree more that 'rationalizing' a situation like this with a woman is a complete uphill battle, and really a self-dug grave. In fact, the deeper the conversation comes about these things, the more damage that is really done to the...

Jesus just let the guy be happy. You know, as cynical as some things can be, there are some people where this happens. Like there is supposed to be some cookie-cutter formula for this sh!t. The man isn't grovelling at someone woman's feet and sacrificing his testes for her. He took in a woman...

AlNess -- You are likely here because you are fearing you are reverting back and relapsing into AFC-land. You fell for this girl years ago and you are now here because likely her IL is dropping. You are not alone in this experience I posted a thread awhile back where I was losing frame. It...

Totally agree man -- and let me tell you if you submit to that drug, the one you thought you didn't want or need, you may eventually find yourself dependent upon it. And it's no fun when it wears off. I go with what some have said here -- you can't convince yourself to stay in a relationship --...

^This is a good post.

I was mostly surprised at (a) how about 2/3 men had no idea this was occurring and (b) how nice it must be for her to just bask in this attention...you are exactly 100% right with your description,

Going to try to take a long story and make it short -- and the point of this story, my dear gents, really is to highlight a few things: (1) Essentially what I would suggest are the concepts of female sexual freedom and, (2) AFC Herds A friend of mine has a lease that ends soon, a girl who...

There is a lot of truth in this thread -- god knows I've been guilty of this in the past -- and my most recent last LTR. The truth is stated in this post -- sacrifice your identity, you will be left behind, and then you'll be scrambling to get your head back together and "rediscover" your old...

Rollo -- Just want to clarify your rhetoric -- is this last paragraph suggesting that the nice guy shapes himself to her mold, defining himself around her dislikes by the regular "assh0le"? All at an attempt to appease her? Whereas a confident male (I'm not labeling here alpha/beta) holds...