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>> She told me she will not keep in contact with any of them based on my request.>> I wouldn't bank on that. >> She keeps telling me the past does not matter >> Of course the past matters. The past gives you a good indication of who you're dealing with in the present and what's likely to...

I disagree with my brethren in that I don't think it's so much a matter that you've not taken the initiative, but that she hasn't: if she wanted to kiss you, she would've been getting her face into your space and sending signals your way. But still... You wouldn't have to be posting here...

>> modern men are emasculated wimps. That's why the bad boys get the girl >> The article's about how prehistorical Australian aboriginals were more muscular and athletic then men today. That's nothing new. In any event, the scientist didn't say men today were "wimps", the headline writer wrote...

>>If the female is more dominant and the male less so, then does the female desire the males lack of dominance in favor of her own just as a dominant male attracts a submissive female?>> Yes. Aside from control freak women who desire control over the relationship and so, find submissive men to...

^^^ Yeah I had that thought too, that she'd be seeking out the nearest phone or internet access in the area, if she was really into him, and stealing herself from her family for one measly hour out of two weeks just to hear his voice for relief from such an allegedly overbearing family. Thing...

>> even a man who dresses like a dandy or crosses his legs must have AT LEAST adequate alpha game to pull in a regular stream of hot women.>> What they have when they come across as dandies is "mystique"; the woman isn't sure if he's straight, bi or gay, and that can act as an attraction...

"You will learn when you get married..." Meaning, "to keep the peace" if you marry the wrong woman or she's inept. Then you have to do things like this so she stays happy. Hey, have you guys realized that "marry" and "martyr" are almost the same word? Of course, when you're in a relationship...

>>What is masculinity? INDIVIDUALITY Individuality is seeing yourself as a unique person who...>> Yeah, yeah and effeminate homosexuals and trannies can be individuals too. As can women. So much for that being such a main component of masculinity. It's like saying feathers is what makes a...

>> Knew there wasn't any chance... so I was kind of throwing whatever I could at the wall to see if it would stick. >> Not a bad thing. Doing that you'll learn and finally prove to yourself that when you get the disinterest signals from them, that it truly means they're disinterested and you'll...

slickaz, is there anything about her that would have you think that? Does she flirt with men in your presence? Does she mention other guys? Does she seem to have a secret life and keep things from you? Or are you just dwelling on "what-ifs"? If you're simply the non-trusting type, I don't think...

>> Partial needy seld esteem problem I guess and part believing in the fantasy of love at first sight and would do anything, clim any mountain, ford any river for love >> Hey, first off, thanks for being honest with yourself. You know, the thing about self-esteem is that, like the name...

>> she lost weight, got 20 grand worth of surgery >> Hey brother, like Jophil said, this was in the planning stages way before you saw it happen to you. Women bail out of LTRs some time AFTER they're "emotionally divorced"; sometime AFTER they made the decision to leave. That decision is...

It's about emulating (if you don't naturally exude it), in one word, charisma. Another generation may have called it, "being smooth".

>> Non Alpha - asking her if she could talk vs. just calling her later >> Yep to all the points you've realized, and I'd add: too much, too soon, what with you've just met her Friday night, left VM Sunday, texted Monday and planned on calling her Monday night too. What's with the rush? Women...

>> I've been hurt because I fall in love too quickly. What are some techniques or how do you keep from falling when the woman is working on you hard.>> I would examine, not the symptoms, but the cause. IOW, I'd peer inside to figure out why I fall so quickly. Is it loneliness, or neediness, or...

^^^ You're safe... as long as that guy doesn't try to pass his hand through your ass.

What you've described is a road to divorce. Sooner or later, odds dictate that's where they'll end up. She'll stay long enough to build enough resentment to make her decision final without regret. She's already going through the "I've told him to get a job many times" stage and she'll get to the...

I am seeing a pattern. I'll explain it for you. If boy leaves message, it is very likely girl will not return the call. Right. They're either low interest or they've been socially programmed to not return calls from new boys even if they are interested. Therefore, when it's a new chick DON'T...

Hey! That's what I like to hear: A lawyer who actually gets her clients off!

"I asked her why she got so quiet, she said "I'm just feeling depressed... You have to treat them like a little kid." To which I'd say, "Awww, that's too bad. But hey! I charge $225 per hour if you want me to listen! Call me tomorrow for an appointment. And I'll TRY to listen. But pay first."...