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    Help with this situation

    >> I now don't text her as much and regarding texts and calls I've moved to a 2:1 ratio instead of 1:1 that I had and will be working towards 3:1. It's just a start. I can do it! >> Good! Also, get more numbers. >> That's a clear sign that she is playing the field. >> Ditto. Double Ditto...
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    Have you guys heard of True Forced Lonliness? What a crock of BS.

    Hey, I like the music. It's like the music they play on the local cable news to make it sound like whatever they're reporting is important. Highlighting what people wrote about them... reminds me of being in high school, doesn't it? Wow, I haven't been in high school since 1972. There's...
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    The plates are spin spin spinning!

    You know, Vlad, past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. BPD chick, like you, like me, like everyone, has patterns to her behavior. Behaviors are the same as habits, okay? And habits, you know, are difficult to break. Some people have habits/behaviors for years, it's not gonna...
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    Have you guys heard of True Forced Lonliness? What a crock of BS.

    >> I don't get why they call it forced because no one is forcing them to do anything >> Like Sr8Up said: "Any group that uses the word "Forced" in their title is begging for people to feel sorry for them." What they're doing, it seems to me, is portraying themselves in a way to elicit...
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    fellow djs I need some insight pls...

    And heaps of time to lower it too. First dates ought to be short and sweet, leave 'em wanting more. The longer you spend with them, you run the risk of satiating their desire for you, either by over-exposure or saying or doing something they don't like. She may have acted enthusiastic at the end...
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    The plates are spin spin spinning!

    Me: If you were a TV series, you'd be the newest drama, right up there alongside "Mad Men" Vlad: So what's going to happen with this one Mr. Fortune Teller? Me: That's easy! You'll have a rerun of a previous episode.
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    This guy's type of girl

    >> He's told me that he likes a girl who is a b!tch to everyone else except him. I can't quiet put my finger on it but this is some kind of AFC convention or buffer I'm sure. >> I think you're making a connection that most probably hasn't anything to do with why he's attracted to her. People...
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    How do you deal with meeting your ex's new guy?

    >>"The opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference." What everyone here is missing is that to be effected negatively by a BPD doesn't ALWAYS mean you are still in love with them. >> Understand that it doesn't have to be love, per se. Emotional involvement is at the core...
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    The plates are spin spin spinning!

    >> What in the F*CK is wrong with me? >> If you were a TV series, you'd be the newest drama, right up there alongside "Mad Men" ;)
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    Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?

    >> as to you thinking men aren't intimidated by SMART women? HA!>> You really think men are intimidated by smart women? It seems to me that men are, generally speaking, more muscular then women, therefore stronger then women, allegedly earn more then women do or, more realistically, are in...
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    Have you guys heard of True Forced Lonliness? What a crock of BS.

    It's not "judging" when you're "identifying" something. If I pointed to an apple and said, "Hey, that fruit is red, round, has a skin and a stem and so that's an apple", I'm identifying it, not judging it, right? If I point to a fat slob who dresses like a slob, who's every other word out of his...
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    What should I do about this booty request?

    It's her "friends first" statement that puts you off? That's just woman-speak gibberish for "I wanna see if I like you first. Last guy tried to nail me within two seconds of meeting me. He was really creepy too. Eeeewww." I'm more put off by her looks. Have you looked through her photos? She's...
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    Bring back the fun...

    >> She said she wasn't sure I said that because of what she had said. I ended up telling her that, yes, I promise... then she asks me if anything's wrong. I tell her no, she replies with "I can never tell with you." That sort of thing. >> Keeps her on her toes. That's a good thing. But...
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    Have you guys heard of True Forced Lonliness? What a crock of BS.

    I like the part at 1:44 in where the huge fat mammoth man says he went to the park - and they show a busted park bench.
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    How do you deal with meeting your ex's new guy?

    That happened to me a couple of months ago. I was on a date and it was late and I passed some little place in Tribeca and decided to stop and have a drink there because I noticed a table by the sidewalk and it was a nice night out. So I walk into the place, ask for the table and as I'm walking...
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    How Surgeons Really See Women

    "The toxic attitudes towards women" This is where the author makes her mistake in logic. The surgeons are expressing an attitude about beauty, not about women. And its certainly not toxic because being attracted to beauty doesn't kill anyone. That's simply theatrical dramatic language she's...
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    Help with this situation

    >> I started dating with a new coworker >> That's not too wise to begin with. >> sometimes a little flirty too >> That says something about her. A need for male attention, perhaps? >> She dated a couple of guys before me but said she didn't really liked them, now that she's with me says that...
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    Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?

    >> Smart women are the most challenging and interesting prospects in my book. >> The issue isn't about a woman's IQ. It's about a woman's *attitude*. You'll find professional career women on match.com, for example, who have difficulty finding men to go out with because they expect men to...
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    Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?

    Interesting! I googled her and found she's a 47 y.o. lady looking to peddle dating advice. She posts on loveshack and some other dating sites. Sells a dating book. But robin, let me tell ya, if you only opened your mind up to what we're saying, you'd finally get the truth! You're halfway there...
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    I now have something to say:

    >> i still wanna know what the thing on the back cover is supposed to be.>> It's the inner man in you that you could be saving if you switched to Geico.
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