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    Do women ever really "learn"?

    I agree 100%. I think that most of our problems with women would be solved if we simply learned to look more closely at the women we choose to let into our lives. I learned many things because of the girl I dated that indirectly brought me to this web site. Most important of those lessons ...
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    How often do you meet a woman you are REALLY attracted to? Just met the latest.....

    I actually agree. I meet plenty of women that are hot. The sort of attaraction that you are talking about is pretty rare for me. About once every couple of years. I'm overdue but I'm actually with the last girl that I have felt this way about so it may be a while :D
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    For LTR, when do you say 'I love you?'

    When you understand what that word means to you and you know that you feel that way about someone. The tricky part is knowing what that word means to you.
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    Reality

    The problem on this site is just this. Most people don't realize that "You created your reality" If your life isn't what you want it to be, or on that path then it is your responsibility to change that. This takes a more honest look at yourself than most are willing to do. You not only have to...
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    If a tree falls in the woods... the ASD destroyer.

    you're right, really he should have said a female's sluttiness factor F_s = W*b where F_s is the female's sluttiness factor, W is witnesses to the event and B is the acceptance of said behavior within that context.
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    If a tree falls in the woods... the ASD destroyer.

    The real question for the nerds . . . If a tree falls in a blackbox and no one is there to witness it, did it even fall?
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    Oneitis and the DJ

    Oneitis is ok at points, and you are right that it can happen when you are not used to failure, or at least you can tell yourself that. Unless you are at a certain point with a woman you should still be pursuing other women. EVEN and I may stress ESPECIALLY if you are "really into this one...
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    my problem

    Generally professors can't date there own students. Dating an undergrad student is generally frowned upon but nothing they can fire you over. At university I teach at the policy is "if you date a student make sure they don't get unhappy enough to complain" As far as picking up your...
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    Stole best friend's gf on accident. Interesting story.

    Don't try and rationalize it to yourself anymore. Bottom line, you are going to lose a friend over this. Right or wrong, it doesn't matter. If you stay away from the girl you may be able to salvage the friendship . . . but don't pretend you will be able to rationalize your actions to him...
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    Does being quiet or shy project as having no "game"?

    Anyone can have game, even quiet guys, even shy guys. People in general have this image of what they think "game" should be. But in reality you should never change your personality to suit your game . . .your game should be an extension of your personality and only needs to be able to attract...
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    girl going to the club.

    Dude if she is asking you to go then there should be no problem. go a couple times, I actually have fun going to a club with the girlfriend.
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    what is happening?

    The reason this is happening is not the fault of the woman . . . If you want to get past that then it should be very clear what your intentions are. My gf is a feminist, on our first date I gave her a smack on the a$$, she hated it, but she didn't question what my intentions were...
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    I'm starting to think like a woman...

    Alot of men I know, myself included, have the same feelings about our favorite part about sex is how the girl responds to us . . . Don't think it makes us great lovers, although some of us are :box: Why do you think lesbian porn is popular among guys but gay porn is not popular among women...
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    the older I get, the more I realize it's not me

    You still have more to learn if you haven't learned to accept responsibility for your past, present, and future.
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    Looks vs personality

    Quantity vs Quality It depends on what you are looking for. As far as mass, quantity I'ld say looks are more important, basically a really good looking guy with no personality can on average have more sexual partners than an ok or ugly guy with a great personality. However . . . If you have...
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    I'm 38, and I'm still living at home with my parents

    Even if you pay a portion of the bills it is still nothing compared with paying your own way. Consider is modern day housing prices in DC for example. Housing prices are getting to the point that Miidle class 20 and 30 somethings are out of the market. When a 1 bedroom condo costs...
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    How do quiet guys get girls?

    Look for different girls than the ones throwing themselves at the loud guys. Seriously . . . Those girls and you just aren't going to get along. Forget the girl flashing her boobs for everyone to see and the one dancing on the table in the miniskirt. Look for the girl who does not seem so...
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    I'm 38, and I'm still living at home with my parents

    This is cultural, to be honest if I worked near where my parents lived and I was single, hell yeah I would live at home. 100k a year would be like 300k a year if you didn't have to pay all the bills. In alot of cultures, it would actually be insulting to the parents if you didn't live with...
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    Dumbing down your game

    Alot of women want to be with someone that they can be free with. This is the appeal of the bad boy, but a other guys can also put this affect into his game. Just like you did. When you were talking about current events, career advancement and the like you were "competing" with her. When you...
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    Personal Demons

    How to improve your self-image: Set reasonable goals and then attain them. It doesn't matter what they are and they should be completely unrelated to women.
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