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Good to see another old-schooler here MOTU. Strange how the cycle of things comes around and around.

At 28, you can pull anywhere from 23-40 w/o problems. In larger cities you can meet many women, never married without kids who are early and mid 30's. That said don't be so quick to discount the younger set. You can usually find an attractive 23-25 y/o girl who has escaped the MTV mentallity.

A better question to ask is why are you sitting there crying that the only women that hit on you are butt-ugly? Why aren't you being proactive and going after the women you are interested in? In general an attractive women isn't going to hit on you in the same way that an ugly woman hits on...

Woah, slow down there partner. It's all about balance my friends. I don't settle for a woman "after her wild years". The women I am dealing with are not just quality at 35, they are quality women at 25. They were quality women in college. I'm not saying your gf was not quality at those ages...

The guys I would consider PUA's in real life do well for themselves, at least on the surface. A couple have tried but failed. As for the goals, for some reason as fun as it would be to have a harem, I don't think I could stand to really be in a relationship with a woman who could accept...

Corny is in the eye of the beholder and in the delivery. My normal personality is pretty low key providing a contrast. I have pulled off corny by being so over the top(and different from my normal personality) with it that women can see that I am joking.

Nah, I think if you want to do it you should. Life is too precious to go through it with regrets. I am actually making some major life changes at 30.

You are right in that thinhs might not work out, there is a difference between knowing that you could get hurt and being so aware of it that you guarantee that it will happen. As for your acid test, I have seen plenty of guys go after(and fail with) both my gf and my ex. Whether or not you...

With that attitude is there even a point to looking for a woman to marry? If I go through all my relationships expecting the woman to lose her character than I will never trust any woman. I chose believing in someone . . . Yeah you gotta keep your dj skills strong but I have to believe that if I...

I am absolutely not saying offer friendship and then try and build a relationship from that. Glad you saw that I wasn't saying that. What I am saying is take your time, if you are interested in a woman take your time to figure out if you really are interested in her. Then once you have...

I had trouble understanding what you were trying to say. I don't know what to say except there is an abundance of misplaced anger running rampant on this board. Most men I know are normal adjusted and don't hate women per say. But apart from all it's problems this is a valuable resource for...

If a woman asks what you are looking for in a woman the best response I have found is "I don't know exactly but I hope I'll know when I see her"

If you are looking for a quick lay or are not serious about finding a woman for a serious relationship than this advice will be useless to you. If you are looking for the type of woman you could fall in love with than this advice will help you. I always notice guys on here complaining...

Yes, you are absolutely right, if you are relying solely on tactics, however one thing you didn't account for was inner game. See the way I see it the way to get the girl of your dreams is to use inner game, be strong, accept the one-itis and conquer it, not by getting rid of it but by realizing...

Way to go man, keep at it

Give her one more shot, just ask her, what's going on here. Tell her you are interested but that if she's not you will leave her alone. At the same time make sure she knows that she is choosing between having you in her life on your terms and not having you in her life. You can never truly...

You have to be ok with her feeling a little uncomfortable around you. You want to have sex with her don't you? The idea of her knowing that should be welcome. Touch her, if it makes her a little nervous that is actually ok, in fact if a girl does not get a little flustered around you, especially...

Indifference is not the way, showing interest is where it's at. Really, show interest but keep it in the back of your mind that she may not reciprocate. Oh yeah you have a skewed view of confidence, real confidence is realizing that even if you don't get her(or whatever else you are going...

I read somewhere that a girl will consider a guy to have a great sense of humor if he can make her laugh where as a guy will consider a girl to have a great sense of humor if he can make her laugh.

Ahh questions with no definitive or easy answers, How aggressive? I normally am as aggressive as I feel I can be without being kicked out of her life. You have to be careful with this sort of behavior though, it could be considered harrasment if it is not welcomed(in fact one girl I worked...