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    shaved head or not? opinions please (pics)

    Although I think your 2nd picture with hair is the best out of all four pictures, dude, I hope you realize that balding really doesn't matter as long as you don't try to pull off a comb-over. Now your 1st bald picture, that one's full of attitude, which I really like. I guess I like the other...
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    Getting a girl back

    I find it really strange that you say this, because I actually believe the exact opposite of all three statements you made. It makes me wonder...When you read my posts, what were you actually thinking, and what information did you pay attention to the most? Anyway, good luck getting your...
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    Getting a girl back

    Alright...Don't make me do this again. Now I know better than to waste my time writing something useful for somebody who is unwilling to change. Let me restate myself, as hard as it may be to accept, there is NO way you are going to get this girl back. So you want tips to get her back? Well...
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    Getting a girl back

    How about, don't lose her in the first place... Okay for real now. I want to point out to you that you're forgetting something extremely important: attraction is not a logical process. She can't say that she had a "reason" to dump you, when the real "reason" was that she wasn't feeling...
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    Girl questioning my age

    No problem man. You don't fully get it though. You'd just be putting her on the pedestal if you went after her now. I think it's best that you learned from this mistake, so you can succeed next time and seal the deal with the next girl. Your problem isn't kino or escalation. Your problem...
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    Girl questioning my age

    Stop acting like a douchebag. She thinks you're an a$$hole because you rejected her advances twice: 1) dancing, and 2) going to the kitchen. She might have actually wanted to hook up. Now you'll never know! Man you have to stop it with the stuck up attitude. Nobody's even trying to break your...
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    what is your take on the bad boy?

    To me, a bad boy is a man on a completely different level than most other men. Don Juan is a bad boy. A bad boy isn't a jerk, an a$$hole, or a player. A bad boy has come to terms with his emotions and his sexuality. He has a strong identity. A bad boy knows who he is, and what he wants. He...
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    No, no is it really not ok to react to not ignore a girl..

    "PUA stuff" can get you one-night stands, but it's not limited to just that. You can use PUA stuff to develop any kind of relationship you want with a woman, even to make friends. You might initially be picking up a girl for practice, or even be in pursuit of a girlfriend, and then end up...
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    No, no is it really not ok to react to not ignore a girl..

    The OP makes me wonder, how have these so-called techniques gotten into people's heads in the first place? Who first started preaching this bullshvt? Maybe it's just guys taking techniques like being a jerk and negging, and using them in the wrong way. Some guys here rely too much on advice...
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    How to accept things the way they are

    Snowdog, is Sedona anything like Holosync?
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    How to accept things the way they are

    So according to you, your problem is thinking? Okay this was a HUGE mistake. Your thoughts will be able to grow stronger with more alone time, and go nowhere because you have no outlet for your ideas. If you're working on a degree, you need to go back to school. If there's ever a place where...
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    Bit of a screw up--called her a BlTCH

    This has nothing to do with not having enough attraction or comfort. Everything you've done is from YOU, the very line you used, "I'll never cry over a b!tch," is straight up insulting. You know what else it says? It says that you're insecure, because she was obviously kidding when she said...
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    Gaining Control

    This is practically the textbook definition of an AFC. Camel, from what you've written, it seems like she's losing interest in you. Six months is a pretty long time, and unless you plan to get engaged and marry this girl, consider the fact that it's perfectly alright if a relationship doesn't...
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    You wonder why women aren't into guys like you?

    I really like this. This is like the mission statement of SoSuave and the heart of becoming a Don Juan. The top 1% of men is a very slim number. I think us dedicated men would benefit more from setting a long term goal for reaching the top 25-10%. It's incredibly hard to determine what...
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    I am afraid of rejection

    In order to help you the best we can, we'll need a little more information than that. Describe a specific situation where you felt this fear of rejection, and how you acted because of it. What kind of a person are you when you're not afraid of rejection?
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    Stop overthinking

    Crashdietguy, I know exactly where you're coming from. Intellectual men tend to over think a lot. Trust me, I do it all the time. The first step to changing this is to realize that you over think things. So, next time she walks by and your heart starts beating insanely in your chest...just stop...
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    Girl gives me email instead of number, Wtf?!

    Kal, if you can't solve this problem yourself, next her. Through reading this thread, I find the real problem is that YOU are being too needy. You created a topic on your frustration about not getting a lousy phone number. Digits don't mean SH!T. I'm not going to go any deeper into this than...
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    i hate women

    Shouldn't this thread be titled "i hate rednecks..."?
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    Help out the AFC?

    I think this could be a wonderful opportunity for you to help this guy change his life dramatically, for the better! I suggest you get him to open up to you first. Like invite him out with you for a drink or something. Spend some time with him as friends. You don't want to "come on too strong,"...
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    I'm eating lunch with a girl this Friday, the problem is she has a boyfriend

    If you want her as a girlfriend, you're going to have to tell her to lose the bf first. Establish this by, when she makes a move or gives off a strong IOI, telling her that you can't go any further because of her boyfriend. You need to word it your way, depending on the situation. You can also...
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