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    IITM's Self Improvement Journal

    2/6/11 I only had one notable interaction today, and it ties directly into eye contact, which I'm working on. I entered a coffee shop, and as I walked in, I noticed a girl staring me in the eyes. I stared back for as long as I could, but I felt a bit of awkwardness and eventually broke. The...
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    A Heavy Friendzone

    Well man, do you really want an LTR, or are you just afraid that you won't meet another woman who you can share this type of connection with? Do you truly like her? It's very important that you ask yourself these questions. It's very important that you think about the short and long-term...
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    Should i follow up with this from now on?

    I wouldn't be sending girls that text dude. See, if they already declined to you twice, they probably aren't interested. You can't expect a single text to change a girl's mind about wanting to go out with you. To be honest it sounds a bit resentful of the girl not accepting your offer...
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    A Heavy Friendzone

    HUGE red flag here. This completely changes her views on sex and her sexuality, and she will be VERY emotionally sensitive about it. Unless you really, really want an LTR with her, do NOT pursue this girl. Just be her friend, man. You don't have to put your d!ck in the middle of this situation.
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    Is this an option or just stupid?

    I wouldn't call that a mistake. Asking if she has a boyfriend is a way to send her an IOI, and you must let her know that you're interested if you ever want to leave the friendzone. You should really find out if she's interested in you before you decide whether to cut off your friendship or...
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    IITM's Self Improvement Journal

    Hey man, I'm 18 and a sophomore at community college right now. I had my age hidden, but it's back now.
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    IITM's Self Improvement Journal

    2/3/11 Today I started one of my new classes. There are a lot of kids in it, both men and women. Some of the girls are very hot. I could tell the girl I sat next to was pretty hot, but over the course of the class, I didn't talk to her. To be perfectly honest, I didn't really know what to say...
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    IITM's Self Improvement Journal

    It's time for me to make some real improvement in my life, so I'm creating a journal to track my progress and keep myself motivated. I have never had a girlfriend, I have never been on a date, and I have never had sex. Those are three things I want to have the skills for. With this journal, I...
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    Rant: I'm done with girls.

    Like Button :up: ElStud is old news, repeating itself.
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    advice?

    Well it's not really the amount of things that matters, it's the amount of time and effort put into those things that matters. See, imagine yourself in three more years. If you keep up all of the things you've been doing so far, and continue to seek out knowledge and learn new skills, you...
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    Does being an Alpha mean you should be less funny??

    Don't act, believe! If you're a funny guy then you should use that to your advantage. It's not something to sacrifice for status. You're actually giving less value if you decide to withhold your personality.
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    I feel like I'm never gonna get this handled

    You're wrong, your bud can help you with motivation. If you tell him about your sticking points, he can help you overcome them. At the very least you two can become wingmen and have a good time together. Support from your friends is one of the best ways to increase your self-confidence and...
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    I feel like I'm never gonna get this handled

    Vastan, ask your buddy for help.
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    This is Alpha as fuk, it deserves to be posted in ths section

    Man, it's an article about a guy from Nepal who saved an 18 year old girl from getting raped by thieves. And the violence itself isn't how he displayed alpha male behavior, it was his actions and intentions.
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    This is Alpha as fuk, it deserves to be posted in ths section

    This is amazing, thanks for sharing!
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    Im so stupid. running game in a japanese strip club

    That does sound like fun. But, I know you didn't purposely want to get her fired. Still it was her fault, because she acted unprofessional and followed you into the men's bathroom. She was a worker, not a customer out for some fun. Now I really don't know what the vibe between you two was like...
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    facial hair...?

    Facial hair has nothing to do with attraction. Whatever kind of facial hair you have, make sure it's something that you want because you like it. Everyone has their own preferences, and it's important that you make your personal preferences clear. There's really no magical "facial hair...
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    Battling Social Anxiety

    This looks like a really nice resource Vortex! There aren't many programs out there that discuss social anxiety specifically, so if you can get your name out there you'll do pretty well marketing-wise. As you said, 5% of America has some form of social anxiety. That's 5% of over 300 million...
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    Haters...Haters, everywhere! (victim of the women network)

    Wtf man? You think all women have screwed you over? You didn't even say why these girls got mad at you. I think you need to learn to laugh at their gossip. See, take celebrities for example, everything they do is public knowledge. Celebs get talked about a lot. Some of them have developed the...
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