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Personally, I'd be preparing myself for the worst - My ex-fiancee did something very like this shortly before going-off with someone else and a whole load of other things.

Thanks Blue Phoenix. :) I agree he did. All I've seen and learned in the last few weeks has only strengthened the impression that he squarely hit the nail on the head about this woman. I'll give it a shot but all-in, I'm probably better off away from her. The stress has been so much...

Well, after the sh1tstorm that ensued last night - she was messaging away till the early hours (stopped counting), I don't particularly care FTM. As well as her indescision, this has revealed a right vindictive side to her and I'll be bringing my re-assessment right forward. I think you...

Now up to furious text number seven! Does she really not remember that she's had me on & off the hook so many times already? Are female emotions really that all-obliterating?

Thanks pal. Strength to you, whatever the result. :) And that is short and to the point b1tchy text number two at 5:45pm Even if this fails for me, she treated me pretty sh1t at various times & I made every allowance/excuse for it. So I don't feel quite so bad because of that. I've also...

Well, messaged mutual friend at 11am, first long b1tchy message from her at 4pm.

Well, here is my next update: Since my last post, I have seen and contacted her as little as possible, except to meet my aforementioned obligations around Christmas & New Year. And it really went quite well, she seemed much more attracted and affectionate in my company & made umpteen...

Err.... Isn't this why you make your excses and nip off for a quick "gentleman's wash" at some point in the run-up? :)

It would be the locking them out of their own computer system - The UK brought in legislation to make that a criminal offence after a couple of high profile incidents.

A long time ago, I worked for a really crap employer, who paid peanuts, expected crazy hours and got me to do very significant work sorting out his major customers, computer system and act as as unpaid social worker to his large and very disfunctional family. My record in the firm was also 100%...

In 2001 at a specialist clinic - They were severely impacted and I had a severe reaction to the sedation. They had to bring me out with the dentist still working on me and the first thing I heard was "hurry-up and finish before he has a heart attack" :nervous: After my heart recovered...

You lucky sod! Getting my Wisdom teeth done entailed a very unpleasant encounter with a bonesaw & left me looking like I'd come last in a prizefight for a full fortnight after. Never mind the medical complications that nearly killed me. The only plus at that time was that the pretty skinny...

Nothing wrong with a bit of healthy politeness. In fact, some of the most alpha people I've ever known have also been the most polite TBH. It seems to me though that they can use this politeness to convey confidence and independence, whilst commanding a great deal of respect, rather than...

Mints are always good as an icebreaker IME. Always have a packet in my pocket and often got a kiss/started a chat with a woman after offering one. :)

The ones round here were pretty dead. Lots of guys and very few girls out. Managed one smooch of a pretty readhead in a karaoke bar though. :)

Yes, most certainly. In my case, it was two LTRs (9yrs & @3yrs) that got to me badly. Anything shorter/less committed didn't really matter.

I used to find women were really attracted to my long hair when I had it - and it was a particularly fine head of hair too. :) However, when my hairline eventually started to creep back, I had to cut it shorter, which made me look more nondescript. Then I finally shaved it and the...

24 (or early-mid20s)/18 guy/girl is pretty common in the UK IME. The relative maturities tend to be reasonably balanced. God luck! :)

In my case, this: And this: Were major factors. About twenty years ago, I'd got to a point in my life where my then circle was going nowhere fast and self-destructing badly. I just got to the point where I said "f*ck-it - I'll be dead in a year or so if I hang around this lot much...

I suppose easy conversation is mine. No problem with someone I quickly find common ground with but otherwise, its hard. I have the badboy looks and build - in fact my resemblance to a really shady local character has been commented on at various times!