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Thanks. Can't reply properly cos my phone battery is near dead but I'll be back-on later when I'm near power/pc. So, after today, I need to resolve to cut back contact to the bare minimum, right? That will be the hard bit TBH, because yes - we do have outrageously good times when we go...

What she said was pretty much: "look, see what I said last week, I really meant to say that sometimes I really want to hug, kiss you and sleep with you but other times I just want you in my life and don't know what I feel, except that I don't want to lose you" Anyway, I brushed it aside...

Well, her actions spoke volumes last night. She's late 30s - slightly younger than me but when aroused/evjoying herself, she does tend to skip around like a teenager. Otherwise, quite sorted, mature & sensible. Singing is something she loves and she makes a serious hobby of it Meeting the...

Ok Igetit! not had a chance to reply to your post but - So far, according to her, I'm cruel, I'm a ****, I'm bad, she's telling her mother & I don't like her. yet, she's back in her underwear & dancing round me singing songs & calling me a bastard while I ignore her & write this. Oh and...

Well, I let her know I was on my way, stopped for a coffee and arrived an hour and a half late. Ignored texts from her in between. She opened the door to me in her underwear and is now getting into her hottest outfit. Also had no qualms agreeing when I stated my plans for tonight. Lets...

Been prepared to lose her right from the beginning TBH. However, she has been the first to come back every time that looked likely. I need to understand plenty, yes. That is why I'm here. :) Oh yes - well up for it. And today, she seems to have let it get to her - She threw a...

Again, nail.. on.. head... Yes, I recognise a whole lot of unpleasant truth in what you say. We date/go-out and yes, she does do what I want and goes to the places and events I go to often. She has also turned-up when I've called her out of the blue and asked to meet me somewhere I go to...

Oh, I've been burned by that one long ago - Not bought her anything significant and that I was not prepared to give anyway. And on the couple of occasions she was skint and I took her out, she repaid the complement by taking me out the very next week when she had been paid. So on that front...

I would agree - Certainly from the gambling point of view. I don't play the tables that often but I do find I do a lot worse when I'm playing drunk or tired. Which of course is quite probably why the casinos here all have late bars and later opening hours than any club. ;) And there may...

OK, thanks for your clear and forthright opinions and I'm afraid that I'll have to put my hands up and say yes to almost everything you say. :o except: No, not anymore, not since I arrived here and realised I needed to change a few things about myself - There are two other possibilities...

Actually, we could be on to something here - One of her other colleagues has made it pretty clear that she likes the look of me and would like to know me a bit better if it dosen't work out. Hmmm.... :up:

OK, now she is texting and asking what to get in to drink for us tomorrow night - Wine or beer. Usually its a few bottles of wine.

Thanks, yes very much. :) - I suppose I'm overly focused on the times she draws back, rather than the times she has it for me? Difficult to see beyond that sometimes? I think I was concerned about having been far too AFC at times in the beginning and she did spend a considerable amount of...

Yes I could have been more resistant but this was promised as a friend and I do tend to place some value in keeping my word to people. As I alluded to earlier, she works in an area where a woman or her own is very likely to have problems and she has had them - Within days of my getting to know...

Thanks - I can't say I've not felt like I've been clinging on to an emotional rollercoaster at times with her and I've often been left wondering about the best way to continue. Yes, I had thought about just keeping on meeting her from work and being polite/bit distant for the rest of this...

She said - "I know you are probably really busy but can you please meet me & Micheala when we finish. Be cashed-up in 20 mins." She phoned as well - for the second time this week. Unusual - normally this is all done by text. I replied - "Ok, I'm nearly done here. Will push off soon. CU."...

Ok, tonight she goes further - I'm with some friends in a pub near her work when she calls me up and more or less begs me to see herself and a cute Polish colleague who lives nearby home. So I do, being pleasant to both, chatting about their day and giving no hint of any upset or getting into...

Been here before a few times in the past. In most cases, any remaining contact between gf & ex tended to be just civil and any contact was social rather than personal - parties, night outs etc but in a couple of cases, there was a closer friendship but the ex bf was in a new relationship by...

Gulp! :eek: OK - Briefly! I got to know this woman a few years back in the wake of my last disaster of an LTR. She was a close friend of my ex-fiancee's family and although she was a bit of a ***** to me (ex didn't have a good history with men) in the early days, she did confess to my...

Well guys, I'm watching this thread with interest as after three good weeks, my preferred lady flaked on me again on Sunday. Schoolboy/Igetit!'s advice looks most interesting to me - Thanks. :) The very next day however, she was texting me asking how I was/if I was OK, which I ignored. She...