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    more emotional intimacy= easier kino? what do u think

    I now fully agree that you should be very careful about talking about your own weak points but I do also agree that it can make the instigation and escalation of Kino a whole lot easier if you get the lady on to the subject of her own. However, I've also been amazed at how easy it can be to...
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    Dancing with girls at clubs.

    Dunno if it applies worldwide but I'm finding that knowing a few basic "couple" or proper dancing moves works pretty well here. Preferred lady & I dance like that, not very well TBH but as soon as she tires and finishes a dance, I'm often invited into one or other of the other groups of...
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    What scents do you use?

    Calvin Klein - Eternity. Most commonly to work/daytime. Chanel - Antaeus. Mainly for going out. This one has proved reliable for me over the years, a number of women/exes have commented on how great it smelt in intimate situations. :) Davidoff - Cool Water. Recent adoption...
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    Being in the friends zone

    Yes. I would agree this might be a little too early for a true friendzone and in the past I've seen some girls pull the friend thing, whilst still demonstrating some signs of interest as a way of saying "slow-down" Of course it is totally up to you if you slow down or not but TBH, if you...
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    do you believe in star signs?

    On principle, I don't believe in this but in practice, I've known all too many women who are the very epitome of their sign and I'm afrain that I do demonstrate some of the stereotypical qualities (good and bad) of my own. So who really knows?
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    Anybody else actually sort of turned off by blondes?

    I've always had a bit of a thing for natural readheads and brunettes personally. Although nine years on and off hell with a particularly feisty readhead did kind of dull that ardour. There is something to the hairtrigger temper/emotions stereotype there IMO. Was with a natural blonde once...
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    having another hot girl with me while i see my target who has lowish IL, good move?

    Can't give a long answer like the above but last night, a bit of jealousy worked pretty well for me. :) I'd been to a party with the lady I'm most interested in and at the end of the night, whilst she was chatting to her pals,I got talking to the band - three very attractive ladies. Ended-up...
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    negging doesn't work!

    Well. A bit of negging/studied & humorous disintrest worked pretty well for me last night. Indeed, a quiet couple of drinks with a woman who didn't feel much like going out, turned into a mad all-nighter & I'm posting this from the couch whilst she is dancing around, singing me songs & we...
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    how educated are you?

    Postgrad diploma and a range of tech-college/specialised/professional qualifications got over years doing about any job other than the one I was trained to do.
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    Most AFC Songs

    <shudder> I spent six out of nine years in some sort of on-off hell of an LTR with a big GnR fan. If there is one band that can now turn me right off and have me heading for the door in almost all circumstances, it is now them! :( <shudder> However, I do remember the album "Uppers...
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    Thinking of turning a fantasy into reality

    Seriously bad idea IMO. IME, Mothers and their daughters tend to share a whole lot more together than guys would share with their parents, so there is virtually no way this would stay buried for long.
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    how to deal with jealousy

    Yes. I got into something a while back with a young lady who was like this. There was a bit of an age gap between us and she just had to have the time to hang with her friends. I respected and played along for a while but TBH, it was probably the wrong thing as she was kidding herself about...
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    Showing Your Stick

    A few years back, I was genuinely movement impared. I nearly lost the use of one leg due to a massive abcess that just about cut my psoass muscle and left me with nerve damage that took out just about all feeling between hip and ankle. Never once in that period did my varying degres of...
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    Easiest place to get laid

    That is why you aim to pull on the first day/night. After a while, you all smell much the same anyway, so it don't matter. There is also the added advantage that the camp sites tend to be a bit less rammed - So you don't have quite so much of an appreciative audience for your efforts...
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    Are we crazy?

    Word!
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    What if one day Sosuave disappeared?!

    I hate it when a promising new forum goes belly-up. Been on a couple recently (other interests) where that happened just as a good core of posters had established themselves. For this one, I'd also be sad but equally very glad of the amount of good information I've gleaned in the short time...
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    What was your breaking point from nice guy to dj?

    This looks appropriate for my first post. So hi guys! :) Well, I guess I've just put myself on the DJ road. After three failed LTRs and a long dry spell where I dated but failed to connect with several women, I set about finding alternative approaches, found this site/forum and after...
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