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OpenMind had a good idea there--it wasn't letting her dictate things at all. Asking her like that and then shutting the hell up puts the "justify yourself" pressure on her (where it should be after that display from her) and keeps the guy from stupidly getting into a discussion and giving her...

I heard of some women extorting $$$ out of guys for an abortion (several guys--you just had to have been in bed with her..) I saw this once actually--it didn't work since 3 of the guys lived in the same building and compared letters (LOL) Then I've heard of some women who did go to bed with...

Why is it up to you to punish her? She's a manipulative and mean-spirited bytch. Fine. She'll get people around her who allow themselves to be treated that way. But your one-itis falling for her is probably your own fault. Sure, you're blaming her (we wouldn't be seeing that heat on...

Back it up a little bit and then progress back towards where you want to be. Work on those a little older, a little lower down the 1-10 scale--whatever. Start getting success there and then start heading back up the charts again.

That's called her period. Or you're big. (Congratulations! And maybe she's a "size queen" and goes for that kind of artillery piece...) Or there's too much friction and pounding (ease up cowboy!) Or she's a virgin (yeah, right.) Basically--because of many things, you can't use the...

In a word: REBOUND 5 yrs him. Ended 2 months ago. 2 months you, started 2 months ago. I normally would agree with most of the stuff up above if this was a regular BF-GF thing. But this is a rebound thing--she's rebounding and you're the 1st rebound. She'll probably go back to him...

Why does it matter?

Don't talk to her about it! Next time she brings that up, look in her eyes, smile, and then turn and walk away. Or just kiss her. No talking. ;)

Bond was hardly posting anything stupid or retarded, dude, there's more than sarcasm that's eluding you here. Xblitz and Bond pretty much covered it and even broke it down.

Hug close Gotta love that one. "I bye-bye closed the chick" Ice Cold--you ****!--I just spewed beer on the computer reading that...! Ouch.

I think she wants you to steal her from him. I suppose you can make it easier by taking her out and having fun. Don't hang around the freaking ranch working and waiting for her to show up--go out and do something and take her along! And don't rat out the BF. That's her problem. When she...

rotflmao :D :D :p :rolleyes:

She's messed up emotionally and so are you around her. This isn't about proving how strong you are or how far you've come---she's poison, and that's the "space" you get sucked into around her. You affect her--got it? She doesn't pull all that crap (drama) if you didn't. But she's...

Hey, what's that web service that sends an anonomous e-mail to someone who needs to be told something embarrassing but no one wants to do it direct? Maybe 32swf needs to do that about 6 months after she has to let him go. Anyway, 32---any update?

Now THAT^^^ is the best way for you to let her know her behavior is unacceptable and put her in her place. No words need be used--beautiful. Actually--when you see her at X-mas--with someone else on your arm--be very friendly and glad to see her.

Why do you want to speak to her? What is it you want to say to her, or what is it you want to get from her? I do not think it is a good idea.

Enough with the set-up, escalate it and ask her out.

Sounds like he doesn't know how to play yet--and probably won't get it right until a few more GFs down the road. Rather--when you dump him, you can do him a favor and direct him to some material (DYD, Doc, here, Copeland etc--whatever, any one of them will help him)--THEN it will take a few GFs...

Uneven in spots (as was Henry James), but she did reach out quite a bit in it, IMO (as did Mr. James.) And I I liked the Gillian Anderson movie of it, too--more than I thought I would. Yet, what was that Jane Austen quote--?? <Tesuque gets out the cleaver and begins butchering the quote...

Just ask for a date. She'll know. If you send signals on top of her signals, you'll both be standing there broadcasting and nothing will get done. She's waiting for you to make a move. Do so or move on.