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tha's cute she's fair game dude she's 18, you're 18, or whatever, and this is the time where everyone is running around experimenting, figuring out who they are, who others are, and what they want and need. this period will go on for years yet you won't know unless you play, so ditch...

she made a move you got: green light! green light! green light! you gave: yellow light! yellow light! yellow light! meaning you kept playing cool when you needed to make a move. I make that mistake a lot, so I know whereof I speak this is read as rejection, so she has to pull back...

kinda funny, that. if I read into it I think g-man means that you're 19 with an emotional age of 14 (or whatever - still deep into teenage angst somewhere back there) where you state in effect that "she was my first and only and forever.." and whatever was going on ("she held my hand to make...

ya think? yeah, her IL took a deep plunge. can you turn it around? sure. worth it? no. or not for the effort, unless you need to prove something. or learn something. if you're getting plenty of action elsewhere, what's the appeal here? trophy hunting? not used to rejection...

I'd agree with Dude (.)(.) and Lost. Even Almathea to some extent. Ditch the unrealistic idealistic standards of people respecting each other's privacy. We're all snoops, we're all fascinated by each other as a general rule. Repeat that: as a general rule. And if you're one of those...

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she's calling to see if she can still get a raise don't give her one if it was me, ignore when she calls, don't return calls, be pleasant like you would to an old aunt you've seen twice who's about to die anyway if you do answer or return calls, be pleasant like you would to an old aunt...

Do you have time to waste? Hang out with her. You know it's the right thing to do but you really want to be friends, etc. despite the disrespect and bad treatment. Sounds like the inner dj and inner afc are about equal strength and locked in a death grip with each other. you dumped her...

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italy is right on I think the technique (among many) is to relax, lean back (I mean, like an internal pose of assurance and knowledge) and hold the awareness in your head, and hold the thought in your mind when looking at him that "this is quality stuff here (meaning you) so if you want it...

what's the problem? the gay guy is like her GF, not her BF you're not really in competition with him (ha - he may be competing with her for you!) :crackup: if it's a matter of attracting attention, you may be screwed I wouldn't compete, you'll lose. Besides, you'd be competing to...

naw - i know exactly how you feel here. to me, just being there said it all. hate to admit it, but that sentiment ain't necessarily so. kinda like if she sleeps in bed next to you - isn't that enough? who needs the moaning, the bj's and the sex? Ok maybe not, bad example... :rolleyes...

eh, don't try to hold onto it or be unpredictable just live your life and have your fun, and she'll want to come along there's something in that, more than you know and if she's in demand and comes around to you, something's working relax - let it happen

I'm following you until this point. I don't think so. Accident of birth is one thing, but we take too much from it. Don't forget that the kids are not completely random creations apart from the parents. They often share the very traits that got the parents where they are. Sad but true...

wait you'll probably meet her in the elevator again sober, hopefully no excuses, no apologies, just pick up where you left off

whoa! slow down cowboy! yeah, it's just you. read the bible. Do we use "rtfb" or something? like "read the fvcking bible", right? Do a seach on "phone" or "call" or something similar in the bible. 1st. You're online. Dude earlier who said get out in the real world wasn't kidding...

Dont sweat the small stuff.... Call 1 chick, Call 2 3, 4, by #5, it's small stuff...

Interesting, no? My take is that the guy is attracted. But he has a GF. He has an imagination, desires, needs -- the whole package, right? So does Dreamy, and they're sparking each other off. And both are all tied up internally, too. Fun stuff, that. Because he has a GF, which is tying...

Re: Field report: contact after meeting

Tough situation that. At 26 I couldn't handle it. Somewhere in the 30s I could. Not sure what happened. I think it was when I met the woman I considered the best I could come closest to spending a life with. No guarantees it would work but interesting odds on it. She was attracted...